@BishopOCAllen  renewed his vows to his husband of 20 years, Rashad Burgess. Allen, who I call “B”, said he hates folding clothes. To the untrained ear, that sounds like something you discover over a 20 year marriage. But to me, I thought how dope it is that he’s self-aware enough to know that about himself and to say it publicly. This episode is dedicated to helping each of us single people grow a level of self-awareness that helps us date better, find better men, and connect with guys more deeply. I’m using one example that we’ve all seen on the dating apps or in real life, but this one problem in Black gay culture may be able to shed some light on a bigger lesson we can all apply to our dating lives as Black gay men. #datingadvice #relationships #singlelife Special Announcement coming tomorrow: https://youtube.com/live/Y9yLzIEjxaw?feature=share “Single is Your Super Power” by Case Kenny: https://amzn.to/3DkqlSs Special thanks to  @oretteayton5262  and  @phynekat  for the comments and encouragement Join the Afterparty on Patreon: https://bit.ly/3OysErB ➡️ Become an Insider: http://www.dearblackgaymen/subscribe ➡️ Join the newsletter: http://www.dearblackgaymen.com/weekly Welcome to Dear Black Gay Men on YouTube. 📲 Subscribe to Dear Black Gay Men Podcast YT: https://www.instagram.com/DearBlackGayMen Apple: https://tinyurl.com/5ymdtdx4 Spotify: https://tinyurl.com/2p9pye7s 🎶 Theme music by The Passion HIFI Our purpose is to be the voice of our culture: talking to Black gay men, about Black gay men and for Black gay men in ways that thinks us forward. ➡️ Connect with Jai The Gentleman IG: https://www.instagram.com/JaiTheGentleman http://www.dearblackgaymen.com