This one is pretty vulnerable for me, but I'll admit it boldly: I'm a gaslighter. My last relationship had to end because I did some dirty stuff while we were together. Ralph Pittman is the human gaslight and I only know that because the way he messed up Drew is exactly how I acted in my last serious dating situation. But so many of our listeners/viewers are still up-in-the-air about what gaslighting is and how to spot it. So this video is dedicated to uncovering gaslighting and how we do it EVERY DAY in life, in friendships, and in dating. ➡️ Become an Insider: http://www.dearblackgaymen/subscribe ➡️ Join the newsletter: http://www.dearblackgaymen.com/weekly 📲 Subscribe to Dear Black Gay Men Podcast Apple: https://tinyurl.com/5ymdtdx4 Spotify: https://tinyurl.com/2p9pye7s YT: YouTube.com/@DearBlackGayMen 🎶 Theme music by The Passion HIFI Our purpose is to be the voice of our culture: talking to Black gay men, about Black gay men and for Black gay men in ways that thinks us forward. ➡️ Connect with Jai The Gentleman IG: https://www.instagram.com/JaiTheGentleman http://www.dearblackgaymen.com