Reviews
big mood, little mood has been my emotional support podcast for the past 3 years (starting when danny was dear prudence) and i am on the one hand despondent to hear of its ending, but on the other i respect and support danny’s choice to move on to other projects! it has meant so much to have a...Read full review »
circedel via Apple Podcasts · United States of America · 12/22/23
I love Danny and have learned so much about how to be a good human from him over the years.
Ughnicknames111 via Apple Podcasts · United States of America · 12/07/23
Danny gives thoughtful, eloquent advice, and I really enjoyed his book as well. His guests, however, can be pretty hit-or-miss. It’d be great if he can invite more guests whose expertise or lived experience is relevant to giving advice (eg the psychologists and social workers tend to be good),...Read full review »
Anais Bea via Apple Podcasts · United States of America · 09/06/23
Daniel gives insightful, smart, and compassionate advice. He responds to letter writers with depth and intelligence and it’s a pleasure to listen to him guide folks as they grapple with some of life’s toughest challenges. Definitely worth a listen. Thank you, Danny!
Shennybear via Apple Podcasts · Canada · 06/29/23
But I wish he picked “juicer” letters more frequently. Some of them are boring and have predictable answers/responses
Masen Everson S. via Apple Podcasts · United States of America · 05/30/23
I started listening to you from years and years ago when you were “dear prudence”. I don’t know if you felt this as well but lately it seems to me that when you are giving advice, you dice and dice and dice it….. and take forever answering one question.
truetoself1111 via Apple Podcasts · United States of America · 05/24/23
Danny makes the world feel like a safe place for everyone, even though it isn’t, and makes life’s most prickliest problems feel surmountable. This podcast is the deep breath I often need.
mspassell via Apple Podcasts · United States of America · 05/12/23
Thoughtful advice given with kindness and consideration, about a wide range of interpersonal topics. It’s comforting and helpful. I so appreciate this podcast!
turtllgurll via Apple Podcasts · United States of America · 04/09/23
I have been a die hard Danny listener and fan since dear prudence and pre-books, but unfortunately feel compelled to give a bad review after listening to this episode with Kate Duffy. Please do not bring her back on the show. She talked A LOT but had zero original thoughts to add. Her part of the...Read full review »
player4616 via Apple Podcasts · United States of America · 03/14/23
Spot-on and unflinching, sage advice
velomonk via Apple Podcasts · United States of America · 02/15/23
Kate episodes are great
Theqat via Apple Podcasts · United States of America · 08/20/22
The podcast is becoming unlistenable for me and I unsubscribed today. It's not transphobic to want to know someone's pronouns so that I know what to put in a work email but I think this podcast would rip me to shreds for having the audacity to want that simple clarification in the...Read full review »
holler43 via Apple Podcasts · United States of America · 07/02/22
Danny is one of my favorite people to listen to ! He is just so smart , witty , and extraordinarily kind to all the advice seekers . I feel very comforted listening to such an inspiring person give such thoughtful advice .
CMaddyR via Apple Podcasts · United States of America · 06/30/22
It is so calming to listen to people talk about problems and show kindness towards people in distress. I listen to every episode twice, once while on a walk and then again during a relaxing nap. Danny has such a good “take a nap” voice.
zelda stop destroying that via Apple Podcasts · United States of America · 06/01/22
I love Danny’s banter and choices of guests.
wiggly tooth via Apple Podcasts · United States of America · 05/22/22
I appreciate Danny’s humane and caring approach to problem solving. Move over, Miss Manners!
unusual rae via Apple Podcasts · United States of America · 05/19/22
It’s not good anymore. The episodes don’t appear to have been edited. They ramble. The guests — always the potentially weak part of the show, even in the better Dear Prudence incarnation — are often not able to give advice, or they say really messed up things.
LaStregaElisa via Apple Podcasts · United States of America · 04/10/22
I’ve been a loyal listener since the early Dear Prudence days and Danny’s thoughtful scripts have worked their way into my daily communication to great effect. His straightforward and nonviolent approach to difficult conversations is really lovely, and I enjoy hearing Danny’s advice for any...Read full review »
Yikesonbikes! via Apple Podcasts · United States of America · 04/06/22
Clearly a damaged person, but a much worse podcaster.
brainslikepickles via Apple Podcasts · United States of America · 01/24/22
Finally unsubscribed after hoping Danny would improve with this new podcast. Danny is clearly very out of touch with the rest of the world. He often addresses hypothetical extreme scenarios not mentioned in the letter rather than the scenario described by the letter writer. Additionally, he has...Read full review »
wave.leo via Apple Podcasts · United States of America · 12/09/21
Has become preachy and long winded.
KO ESQ via Apple Podcasts · United States of America · 11/17/21
At some point, Danny became so consistently judgmental and condescending that I had to stop listening. He’s completely out of touch with the world outside a very niche and orthodox bubble.
LFB79 via Apple Podcasts · United States of America · 09/18/21
What a waste of time. Trash podcast with trash guest
BlueEyes1790 via Apple Podcasts · United States of America · 09/16/21
I love Daniel's advice and interviews - he brings excellent questions (and holds the space for great answers from his guests) in every episode. No matter which topic comes up, he has amazing insight and a unique perspective that always gets me thinking a little differently from the norm,...Read full review »
Camille Virginia via Apple Podcasts · United States of America · 09/05/21
I enjoyed listening to Daniel in Dear Prudence; he always has a nuanced and thoughtful take on things. I feel like the new format and tone of this podcast make it more long-winded, rambly, and ... kind of depressing? I think the questions being selected—and therefore the conversation—are more sad...Read full review »
valeriemag via Apple Podcasts · United States of America · 08/29/21
I used to LOVE Danny and looked forward to listening to him every Tuesday. Lately (ie. The last few episodes) I have picked up on an increasingly judgmental tone geared towards people that have different beliefs than him (I’m not talking like, problematic or bigoted beliefs that hurt others, but...Read full review »
the spiritual lesbian via Apple Podcasts · United States of America · 08/08/21
Love this show! Danny is always so very Insightful and picks great guests.
kingderella_ via Apple Podcasts · Belgium · 08/07/21
I have read or listened to every DP podcast and column and don’t always agree but always appreciate. I was bummed to read it was ending, but I was pleased to still get a weekly dose of Danny’s humor and compassion with BMLM.
Jucyou via Apple Podcasts · United States of America · 07/22/21
I was a faithful DP listener and loved hearing about writers’ various problems as well as the advice given by Danny and guests. The new show features one question, a brief response, and then 30+ minutes of listening to Danny and guests make small talk. I still like Danny as a person but the new...Read full review »
mermaidtowel via Apple Podcasts · United States of America · 07/15/21
Why are the legacy Dear Prudence reviews attached to this podcast? New show, new format = new reviews shouldn’t it?
SBFC fan via Apple Podcasts · United States of America · 07/03/21
I recently discovered DP and have continued to listen to it in its new iteration. It is so great to listen to an advice podcast by a trans person, and it feels so great to have the norm be queer and trans affirming advice!! And most of all to have a trans person on the air who isn’t pigeonholed...Read full review »
bprovitola via Apple Podcasts · United States of America · 06/20/21
I fell in love with Danny when he was Prudie, and I found his column and podcast endlessly fascinating. The new podcast format is different, but Danny often lamented that he was unable to spend adequate time in the old podcast format addressing someone’s thorny issue. In this new format he’s...Read full review »
Christina Lynn via Apple Podcasts · United States of America · 06/19/21
Give his ever-so-wise advice. But starting with the first episode, I immediately got the sense that this new format of podcast is more about making $$ (more commercials, promoting the guest hosts). One more petty complaint: though Inkoo Kang seems pleasant enough, there is an inordinate amount...Read full review »
dele tastic via Apple Podcasts · United States of America · 06/19/21
I’m primarily interested in the advice so the new show doesn’t have enough of that for me. (Although, I’d be open to something like this old show had at the very beginning where Danny would riff on something random for a little while). I wish we were getting more than one question and less of...Read full review »
HannahDoubleU via Apple Podcasts · United States of America · 06/17/21
Dear prudence offers great advice and honestly there have been times when her answers to people’s problems have helped me with similar issues. It’s helped me not feel alone in this crazy time. Update:I still like the show and I’m giving the new format a chance but there was a question today with...Read full review »
mbsr31 via Apple Podcasts · United States of America · 06/16/21
I have listened to every episode of the Dear Prudence podcast (and read all columns on slate as well) and have enjoyed it immensely. I was initially excited for the more flexible format of Big Mood Little Mood where we could hear more conversation with the guests. But the reality is the guests,...Read full review »
Daidaniu via Apple Podcasts · United States of America · 06/08/21
Some of the advice goes from reasonable to extreme and judgmental on a dime, and sometimes doesn’t feel like it’s based on what the letter writer wrote, and is instead based on potential extreme possibilities that might be adjacent to the original issues.
Shhazse via Apple Podcasts · United States of America · 06/06/21
I loved the DP podcast. it’s why I subscribe to slate plus. I hate the new show because now half of it is Danny spewing references a mile a minute that I’ve never heard of. Congratulations! I’m sure you’re great at trivia night! But it’s boring and impossible to listen to because what you’re...Read full review »
gab3124578 via Apple Podcasts · United States of America · 06/03/21
Danny as Prudence accompanied me through multiple cross-continental moves, a pregnancy, job changes, the loss of a loved one and so so much more. I’m forever grateful for his wisdom and ability to step back from the mess of life and see the things that really matter. Plus, his one-liners live...Read full review »
clatzy via Apple Podcasts · Canada · 05/29/21
I don’t necessarily agree with everything Danny days but the questions and discussions are always engaging and thought provoking and the guests are great. Thanks Danny !
liontotema via Apple Podcasts · United States of America · 05/27/21
Just listened to the first episode of the new podcast format with Aubrey Gordon as a guest, and it was delightful! Love that there’s more time to discuss themes, and hear Danny’s thoughts about Warhamner and hot Orson Welles. Looking forward to more of ‘em.
Rentacle via Apple Podcasts · Great Britain · 05/26/21
Danny, I love it when you randomly drop in to an episode that you’re wearing a hat or that your dogs are doing something silly in the background. Also I love it when you bring Grace on, please do it more. @everyone else I’ve learned a bunch about ~other ways to be~ from this podcast and it...Read full review »
Leo Marcel ?? via Apple Podcasts · United States of America · 05/26/21
I’ve enjoyed the Prudie advice pod for a long time, but was THRILLED and so pleasantly surprised to hear Aubrey Gordon as the recent guest. Danny is consistently great and Maintenance Phase is my favorite new podcast. I’m really enjoying the mashup. Thank you!
johnsonable via Apple Podcasts · United States of America · 05/25/21
I’m updating my prior review. I think I was too hasty. I do enjoy the podcast. I also read online about what Daniel did to protect children at his family’s congregation. I was really floored and overwhelmed by that. On to the podcast. Recently I’ve felt that the advice has been more...Read full review »
yellowlovebug via Apple Podcasts · United States of America · 05/11/21
I’ve been listening to this show for 5ish years and I’ve noticed that the tone and the advice that Danny gives has changed a lot over time. Lately I’m finding that it’s lacking in compassion and empathy, and instead has a lot of snark and judgement about certain peoples problems or questions. Of...Read full review »
tsla14 via Apple Podcasts · United States of America · 04/23/21
Danny should consider therapy to explore his anger issues before ever offering bad advice to anyone ever again.
Joanna1016 via Apple Podcasts · United States of America · 04/12/21
In answering a question from a lady on social security in her 70s, the response was "I will not help you, I hate you" because this lady was fortunate enough to own a house (that she was struggling to pay the mortgage on). The contempt with which this and some other letters are read is...Read full review »
tin@t via Apple Podcasts · United States of America · 04/10/21
There is never, as far as I can remember, a dissenting opinion from the guest on how to handle a situation. So why have a guest? So they can “yes” man Danny on every letter and support some of his more out there advice? So, if you want to listen, just prepare yourself for some crazy advice and NO...Read full review »
Cool Petey Mom via Apple Podcasts · United States of America · 03/22/21
I used to really like this podcast until over time I realized that 90% of it is just Danny projecting his own issues from his high horse. He’s brutal to some people who really don’t deserve it and then finds excuses for others who seem to be kinda terrible people. And as others have said, guests...Read full review »
lmdg09 via Apple Podcasts · United States of America · 03/11/21
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