Download our free guide “10 phrases to help you start deeper conversations with your partner” == It’s the Origin Stories episode! Hear about the journeys that brought Allie, Will and Chiara from conservative childhoods, breakdowns, divorces and body shame to happiness and the strongest relationships of our lives. We explain how we “fell” into non-monogamy, survived novice mistakes and navigated the circus.  Hear spicy stories about our first experiences with group sex and how we learned to communicate, trust and stand up for ourselves. Perhaps you can’t picture yourself in an Eyes-Wide-Shut sex party, and that’s fine – we’re not kink evangelists! We use stories from the fruity end of the spectrum to explore ideas that can empower everybody – singles and monogamous folks included. == 01:14 Introduction to The Episode 02:27 You Should Listen If... 02:51 Will's Journey: From Vanilla to Exploration 05:21 Finding Freedom and Rebirth through Love and Exploration 06:04 Chiara’s Transformation: from Catholic Roots to Kissing a Woman (!) 08:57 From Fantasy To Reality 10:56 Communicate Clearly Before Swinging! 12:52 “Sexperts” Night 14:40 Fun4Two: Our First Swingers Club 15:39 The Dark Room 18:29 "The Hot Tub Lady" Encounter  21:21 I Kissed A Girl And I Liked It 25:11 Allie's Life Adventure: from Small Town Girl to Adventurous Sex Lover 28:08 If We Cheat We Cheat Together 29:29 The Sexy Castle Adventure... Attempt 33:14 Sorry - I Already Came! 34:30 Swinging CAN Strengthen Relationships 39:59 How Swinging Environments Can Gift Body Confidence 41:24 How to Navigate the Swinging Scene 43:25 Is Swinging for Me?  45:44 Keeping the Spark Alive 51:02 The Hot Tub Story: The Good, The Bad And The Ugly 51:45 No Condom Asked 55:23 What We Learnt From Our Mistakes At Our First Swingers Club 56:19 Be Open! (To Listen AND To Communicate) == WHO IS WILL Will is a psychologist,  journalist, entrepreneur, spin doctor, executive advisor and father. Today, Will works as a coach and retreat facilitator, following his vocation to help others unblock their lives and find meaning and happiness. Will is married to Chiara and could not possibly be happier.   WHO IS CHIARA Chiara is an ICF-certified professional Co-Active Coach® with a masters in business communication. She was a director for a tech pioneer where she led sales teams for 15 years. Today Chiara guides men and women to discover the power of their sexuality, reconnect with their bodies and embark on beautiful adventures in sensuality.   WHO IS ALLIE Allie is an experienced meditation coach, sound healer and yoga teacher. She works with individuals and couples to help them reduce stress, find emotional balance and foster self-awareness. Inspired by science and personal experience, she's on a mission to discover and share the best modalities to maintain an exciting sexual life.   For more info about the hosts, and to book a call, CLICK HERE. == >> Sensuality & Soft Touch Workshop: Join The Waitlist >> Follow us on Instagram