Guess what! We’ve been live for 6 months already, and we have a big surprise coming up for you! We are closing out Season 1 of the Deeper Sex Podcast to come back with Season 2 and offer something even more exciting and useful to you and your lover, in and out of the bedroom. We believe that sex should not be the driver of arguments and unhappiness for a couple. Nor should it be taboo.  We have witnessed, tried and tested on our own skin how it can be used to heal from trauma, fears, and to...

Will and Chiara are interviewed by Human Design coach Adriana to explore how they transformed their lives through sexual exploration and liberation.  They’ve made intimacy coaching their life’s purpose, because there’s so much fun and sex to be had in life, that everyone should be able to experience it!  They talk about their journey of following their hearts and intuition, instead of conforming to what others expected. They highlight how their union is always of the utmost priority, above...

In this episode, intimacy coaches Will and Chiara share their transformative experiences at a festival (OZORA) in Europe, where Chiara’s boobs in particular had many adventures :).  They discuss the concept of Openness, the importance of curiosity, and what it means to feel comfortable in your own body, opening the doors to a profound sense of freedom and connection. They highlight the contrast between people who are “open” and willing to share (their stories and themselves), vs. those who...

In this episode of Deeper Sex, we delve into the importance of communication in enhancing sexual relationships. Drawing from our personal and professional experiences, we share practical tips on initiating open dialogues about desires, needs, and fantasies with partners. As always we want to emphasise on creating a safe space for vulnerability, avoiding blame, and using various methods like scheduled talks, emails, and listening to shared content. We also discuss overcoming fears and the...

In this episode, intimacy coaches Will and Chiara answer some of the most common questions they get form clients and listeners about improving their sex life and intimacy.  We go from dealing with lack of sexual desire to the risks of opening a relationship, tackling jealousy, trust, male/female dynamics, same sex and group play. All the answers provided are based on real life personal experiences as well as patterns observed when coaching clients.  Do you have a question too? DM us on...

Today we are exploring more fantasies…  Have you dreamt of joining a threesome but never dared ask your partner? It’s a universal fantasy, and one that can become reality with trust and good communication. In this episode, we share another intimate experience where we pushed our sexual boundaries further than ever before: Will is away on an expedition, but agrees to “lend” Chiara for the night as a Unicorn to Allie and her husband…  He talks vulnerably about his internal struggle between a...

What is “The Lifestyle” with capital L? Who are “Vanilla Friends”? Should you tell them that you are curious and “Spicy”? We discuss all this and more in this very raw, honest and heartfelt episode of Deeper Sex.  While we could not wish for deeper connections and the personal growth that we gained from diving into Ethical Non-Monogamy (ENM), we have also discovered how many common misconceptions most people (including our old selves) have about it, and we address the careful communication...

Sign up for our next SENSUALITY SIGNATURE WORKSHOP >>: Join The Waitlist === Follow & Chat with Us on Instagram === Join Will and Chiara live from the podcast bed this weekend in Berlin, the latest stop on their sexy European tour 2024. We check out some new kinky corners of the city’s vibrant underground scene – from a sophisticated penthouse swingers party to wild nights making new friends in sex-positive clubs for beautiful, soft connections.  We reflect on how mood and...

Join The Waitlist now for our Sensuality & Soft Touch Signature Workshop In this episode we discuss the transformative power of sensuality and soft touch to enhance sexual experiences.  Will describes his birthday surprise, when he was blindfolded and treated to an erotic experience, not knowing who or how many women were touching him… We explore how to be present with sensations, how to drop into receiving touch, and what happens when we remove goal-oriented thinking from intimate...

Almost everyone carries with them a sexual fantasy they don’t dare to share. We hesitate to reveal our desires, even to a loving partner, out of shame or fear of judgment. Some fantasies are scenes you might like to live out for real. Others will remain sexy movies that we play just for ourselves. Either way, fantasies are erotic fuel – and their power multiplies if you find courage to voice them. In this super-sexy episode, we made ourselves vulnerable by sharing with each other some...

Download our free guide “10 phrases to help you start deeper conversations with your partner” == It’s the Origin Stories episode! Hear about the journeys that brought Allie, Will and Chiara from conservative childhoods, breakdowns, divorces and body shame to happiness and the strongest relationships of our lives. We explain how we “fell” into non-monogamy, survived novice mistakes and navigated the circus.  Hear spicy stories about our first experiences with group sex and how we learned to...

Today’s episode is all about a very common problem for both men and women: body image. You’ll hear how negative perceptions can impact intimacy and relationships, and how healing and personal growth can transform your sex life and deepen your relationship. Women in particular often feel negatively about their appearance due to societal standards, so Chiara vulnerably shares her journey to overcome shame that her boobs were “too big”, and then “scarred”. We explore how the lens of positive...

Download our free guide “10 phrases to help you start deeper conversations with your partner”   In this special edition which we recorded naked (!!), we cover the differences between transactional sex vs. deeper, more intimate and sensual connections.  We share our personal journey of learning how to shift boundaries in the kinky world that we sometimes play in, and draw lessons for how intimacy and sensuality can supercharge erotic connections in all kinds of relationships.  We talk about...

In this episode we talk about how non-monogomy can strengthen relationships, contrary to what many people fear. You’ll learn something seemingly counterintuitive: how can adding more “bodies'' into a relationship strengthen a bond?  We unpack concepts like open communication, trust, honest conversations, respecting boundaries, and navigating complex emotions together.  Allie shares how she made her man’s fantasy come true by organizing a surprise birthday party, where he got to play with a...

In this first episode we dive deep into the challenges that couples face in maintaining a fulfilling sex life, especially as responsibilities grow and the initial spark fades. We have a very open and honest discussion about the importance of creating time for intimacy and sensuality - which is not just having “sexual intercourse” as your main goal. We share our own experiences and learnings, such as how we communicated in tricky situations, how we made ourselves vulnerable and how to create a...

This is a podcast about sex where three sex positive friends - who also happen to be globally accredited coaches - share their own journey through  super sexy adventures and incredibly fulfilling sex lives. By learning how to effectively communicate needs and desires to partners, we unlocked our own sexual energy, and our erotic lives have been completely transformed. We have seen it all: we have been through marriages, kids, divorces, affairs, heartache, frustration, resentment… So we do...