In this episode, men's coach and addiction specialist, Steve Mayeda, explores the brutality that can exist in sex. He shares his exploration into the hyper-sexual, pain, and how he finds beauty through this entire process. Steve is very blunt in his descriptions, but it is that rawness that enabled an honest and accurate conversation on these dynamic dimensions that exist in sex. Timestamps 3:02 Who is Steve Mayeda 08:55 Trauma and finding healing in sex 12:13 Steve's hyper-sexual journey 17:42 What matters as a man when he is in front of a woman, and the common confusion in men 23:16 The importance of exploring the darkside of your sexuality and how to navigate it 27:50 Why unity is necessary when exploring aggressive sex 34:49 What do men actually want from women 42:18 The role of pain in our lives 49:35 What can the feminine do to call men into their masculine 54:06 What is Steve's favorite part of the feminine Steve Mayeda is a Men’s Coach that has been coaching for 15 years working in over 20 countries. He specializes in trauma, sexual trauma and addiction. He is a father of 4 young men. A 10th planet jiujitsu instructor and a world traveler. You can find out more about Steve at thesexuallife.com For more on Sophie Josephina, check out her work on instagram @sophie.josephina or www.sophiejosephina.com