Are you feeling stuck or unfulfilled in your life or relationship? Do you find yourself trapped in a cycle of boredom and longing for something more? It's a common struggle that many of us face, but the good news is that change and growth are possible. The key lies in embracing the unknown, staying curious, and seeking new experiences to reignite the spark both within yourself and with your partner.  In this episode, we delve into the transformative power of curiosity and exploration, especially during life's unexpected challenges. From taking up new hobbies like tennis and dance to reframing our perspective on life's curveballs, our conversation offers practical insights to help you shift your state of being and rediscover a sense of joy and fulfillment. By reassessing happiness and goals, adopting a growth mindset, and nurturing intimacy and communication, we explore how to navigate the complexities of life and love, ultimately fostering a deeper connection within and with those around us. Monica Berg is the author of Rethink Love, Fear is Not an Option, and The Gift of Being Different children’s book, as well as the co-host of the popular Spiritually Hungry podcast. She’s been called “The Marie Kondo of the Soul,” showing us how tidying up our inner mess can help us find the joy we’ve been seeking. Check out the transcript of this episode on Dr. Jessica Higgin's website. In this episode 00:04 Exploring the topic of boredom in relationships, especially in long-term ones where routines and habits often develop. 02:51 Overcoming boredom in relationships: Embracing creativity and growth. 09:14 The need for curiosity and engagement in exploring new interests to overcome feelings of boredom and routine. 24:10 Transforming fear and rigidity into opportunity and joy. 27:26 The importance of acknowledging and processing negative emotions rather than bypassing them. Mentioned The Gift of Being Different (On Being) (*Amazon Affiliate link) (book) Fear Is Not An Option (*Amazon Affiliate link) (book) Rethink Love: 3 Steps to Being the One, Attracting the One, and Becoming One (*Amazon Affiliate link) (book) Maybe You Should Talk To Someone: A Therapist, HER Therapist, and Our Lives Revealed (*Amazon Affiliate link) (book) Dopamine Nation: Finding Balance in the Age of Indulgence (*Amazon affiliate link) (book) ERP 305: The Surprising & Powerful Benefits of Learning to Tolerate Discomfort — An Interview with Dr. Anna Lembke Connect with Monica Berg Websites: rethinklife.today | spirituallyhungrypodcast.com Facebook: facebook.com/monicaberg74 | facebook.com/SpirituallyHungryPodcast YouTube: youtube.com/channel/UCe3q8OFWS2o9zy_PZsBDUtw Instagram: instagram.com/monicarberg74 | instagram.com/spirituallyhungry Podcast: podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/spiritually-hungry/id1517646639 Connect with Dr. Jessica Higgins Facebook: facebook.com/EmpoweredRelationship  Instagram: instagram.com/drjessicahiggins  Podcast: drjessicahiggins.com/podcasts/ Pinterest: pinterest.com/EmpowerRelation  LinkedIn: linkedin.com/in/drjessicahiggins  Twitter: @DrJessHiggins  Website: drjessicahiggins.com   Email: [email protected] If you have a topic you would like me to discuss, please contact me by clicking on the “Ask Dr. Jessica Higgins” button here.  Thank you so much for your interest in improving your relationship.  Also, I would so appreciate your honest rating and review. Please leave a review by clicking here.  Thank you!   *With Amazon Affiliate Links, I may earn a few cents from Amazon, if you purchase the book from this link.