This is a serious and sensitive episode... for any man who has ever hurt a woman - accidentally or otherwise. Specifically, for any man who has caused harm (myself included), and who wants to do better... Who wants to heal, offer repair, get humble, grow and become a better version of themselves. There's no shaming in this episode... Papillon and I wanted to create this for all of the men who want to improve themselves, but don't know where to go or what resources to turn to. EPISODE TIMES & TOPICS: 00:00 Intro 01:28 Opening 03:02 Papillon's Professional Background 03:58 Sexual Assault & Crossing Boundaries 09:35 Self-Reflection on Causing Sexual Harm 14:47 Finding a Therapist to Talk with 17:40 Other Options to Help with Self-Reflection 21:28 Healing Without Contacting the Person You've Sexually Assaulted 29:21 Recognizing When We Have Harmed Another Person 35:56 Finding Space to Share And Reflect 38:25 What to Do If You Realize You Have Assaulted Someone 47:40 Centering The Survivor's Needs 52:56 Facing the Pain of the Realization 54:55 Can a Changed Person Be Seen in a New Light 57:02 Restorative Justice 58:54 Accountability and Developing Self-Awareness 1:05:33 Resources and Materials to Look Up GENERATED EPISODE DESCRIPTION: In this episode, Taylor explores how we can prioritize survivors' needs in sexual assault cases, with insights from returning guest, Papillon, a licensed clinical mental health counselor specializing in sexual trauma. Discover scenarios where boundaries are crossed, emphasizing humility, growth, and understanding survivors' needs before personal desires. Delve into the challenges survivors face, the impact of public disclosure, and the potential for restorative justice processes. Listen now, as Taylor and Papillon reflect on their past actions, and discuss learning from mistakes with empathy and accountability. The conversation touches on sociopathic tendencies, self-reflection, and finding support in affinity groups, offering condensed insights into the complexities of addressing sexual harm and promoting healing. 🔱  PAPILLON’S WEBSITE & RECOMMENDATIONS 🔸 Papillon's Website 🔸 Consent “Cup of Tea” Cartoon 🔸 Consent “Cup of Tea” Cartoon for Kids 🔸 Consent “Cup of Tea” Cartoon (Clean Version) 🔸 Feel free to send us more resources on this that you recommend. --------------------- 🔱  TAYLOR'S SEXUAL MASTERY COURSES: 🔸 Orgasmic Mastery Course 🔸 Semen Retention Mastery 🔱 TAYLOR'S FREE GUIDES: 🔸 Free 7-Day Semen Retention Challenge 🔸 Free Ejaculation Control Guide 🔱 CONNECT WITH TAYLOR: 🔸 Sex Upgraded Podcast 🔸 Instagram 🔸 Website The next Orgasmic Mastery Course begins on February 8th, 2024! Support the show