Ali & Erica are reviewing the first dating book Ali ever read (15 years ago!!) this week - Have Him At Hello by Rachel Greenwald. The author interviewed 1,000 men about why they didn’t want second dates and we’re debating how her findings apply to modern dating. Ali & Erica both identify (mostly) with The Boss Lady…how about you? In Updates, Ali & Erica both receive “Merry Christmas” texts from men past and Ali gets the ick on Hinge. Timestamps: Topic talk begins at around minute 36. If you'd like to hear our personal updates before everyone else as well as other exclusive content, join The Search Party on Patreon: www.patreon.com/findingmrheight . And, if you want to send in a "weird or nah" suggestion, share your own phone throwing moment, ask a question, or have general feedback, you can do it all at www.findingmrheight.com/podcast Have a scam to report? Leave a voicemail at 929-888-7184 about your potential scam and we will weigh in! Thanks to this week’s partners: Drizly: Download the #1 alcohol delivery app today by visiting Drizly.com. Factor: Head to factormeals.com/fmh50 and use code fmh50 to get 50% off. Our Sponsors: * Check out Drizly: https://drizly.com * Check out Factor 75 and use my code fmh50 for a great deal: https://www.factor75.com/ Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy