Erica & Ali welcome feminist dating coach and debut author Lily Womble to the pod this week! We chat about bringing more joy into your dating life, how to narrow down your search to what Lily calls essences-based preferences, and how to reframe your mindset when you feel like you’re “too much.” Order Lily’s book, Thank You More Please, out June 11th! In Updates, we have a special Patreon teaser that Ali recorded with Talia Koren (@ Dating.intentionally) while Erica was on vacation. You’ll hear some tea that never aired on the main pod as Ali awaits Skyline’s return to NYC. Where to find Lily: On Instagram @datebrazen, on TikTok @datebrazen, at www.datebrazen.com and on The Date Brazen Podcast. Timestamps: Lily joins us at around minute 31. If you'd like to hear our personal updates before everyone else as well as other exclusive content, join The Search Party on Patreon: www.patreon.com/findingmrheight . And, if you want to send in a "weird or nah" suggestion, share your own phone throwing moment, ask a question, or have general feedback, you can do it all at www.findingmrheight.com/podcast Want to leave us a voice note? Leave a voicemail at 929-888-7184 with your question and we will weigh in! Thanks to this week’s partners: Sunset Lake CBD: For 20% off all products, go to sunsetlakecbd.com and use code FMH20. Apostrophe: Save $15 and get your dermatologist-crafted treatment plan for just $5 at apostrophe.com/FMH and use code FMH. Claritin: Fast and powerful relief is just a quick trip away. Find Claritin D at the pharmacy counter or go to www.claritin.com right now for a discount so you can Live Claritin Clear. eHarmony: Check out eHarmony: www.eharmony.com Happy Mammoth: Check out Happy Mammoth and use my code FMH for a great deal: happymammoth.com Our Sponsors: * Check out Happy Mammoth and use my code FMH for a great deal: happymammoth.com * Check out Seed : seed.com/fmh, code 25FMH * Check out eHarmony: www.eharmony.com Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy