Episodes
In this week's episode, Trevor and Caleb sum up the past year and where they are headed in the next. Recorded on 11.18.2021.
Published 11/21/21
Published 11/21/21
Trevor and Caleb chat about time in this week's episode, where they touch on topics such as self regulation, commitment, relationships, and raising a child. Recorded on 10.7.2021.
Published 10/20/21
This week on Friendship Therapy, Trevor and Caleb discuss their early years in University and the time they both spent in the organization Chi Alpha. Both friends describe why they were looking for an organization like Chi Alpha and what lead them there. This leads them to look back on the chain of events that lead to them meeting and becoming friends in the first place. The episode wraps up with their brief conclusions as to why neither of them are involved in the organization anymore....
Published 10/04/21
This week on Friendship Therapy, Trevor and Caleb continue to unpack the story of Trevor's hometown church by talking about authority; a topic that was often preached and pushed often. The pair start by defining authority, and then unravel how the leadership in this church used these teachings on authority for their own gain. Recorded on 9.23.2021.
Published 09/28/21
In their 30th episode, Trevor and Caleb take time to unpack Trevor's youth and early adolescence growing up in a very unique Christian church environment. Trevor explains that the purpose in his sharing this part of his past is to give context for his perspectives on topics such as manipulation and authority, as well as providing the building blocks for more self discovery and healing along the way. Recorded on 9.19.2021.
Published 09/21/21
This week on Friendship Therapy, Caleb and Trevor take a look at pessimism. Caleb begins the conversation by looking to balance his pessimism with other trains of thought, with Trevor brings to light some benefits that a pessimistic outlook can bring. Recorded on 9.9.2021.
Published 09/13/21
In their 28th episode, Trevor and Caleb ask the question "Where is my sense of wonder from childhood?" The two discuss how this feeling of wonder for the world was affirmed or dismissed in their younger years, and what other influences they have each encountered may have contributed to this feeling. Recorded on 9.2.2021.
Published 09/06/21
Continuing from their prior discussion about mental health, Trevor and Caleb chat about their views on physical health. Each describe their own experience in trying to keep it a consistent in their daily lives, as well as their perspectives on how physical health and well being effects the rest of your life. Recorded on 8.26.2021.
Published 08/30/21
This week, Trevor and Caleb chat discuss various topics under the umbrella of mental health such as accepting your own accomplishments, comparing yourself to those around you, and the reality of the passage of time. Recorded on 8.19.2021.
Published 08/23/21
In this 25th episode, Trevor and Caleb chat about all things food; how they viewed it growing up, how it has changed as they have aged, and how food fits into their lives now. Other topics that discuss in the this episode include meal prep vs. food prep, eating for the future, and how can a person best maximize your time spent on food/cooking. Recorded on 8.14.2021.
Published 08/16/21
In this week's episode, Trevor and Caleb chat about moving, transitioning and getting back to routines after a major change. Recorded on 8.6.2021.
Published 08/09/21
This week, Trevor and Caleb discuss the topic of storytelling. They each describe their own experiences with storytelling from childhood within their own families and the impact these experiences are having in their lives today. The discussion than turns to the roleplaying game Dungeons and Dragons (DND), and how the friends think storytelling in this game could have a larger reach to the players and their lives outside of the game. Recorded on 7.22.2021.
Published 08/02/21
Today's episode is all about happiness, as Trevor and Caleb chat about their past experiences with the word and its associated feelings and meanings. Both friends expound upon their current desire to experience and feel the wider range of emotions life has to offer, which can often result in not feeling or chasing "happiness". Recorded on 7.16.2021.
Published 07/26/21
In this week's episode, Trevor and Caleb discuss and dissect what the words Bored, Lazy, and Apathy mean to each of them. The friends chat about how these words, feelings and states-of-being affect their everyday lives, as well as how each word can potentially be used as a catalyst for something beneficial. Recorded on 7.15.2021
Published 07/19/21
In today's episode, Trevor and Caleb's conversation begins with human speech and language, but soon drifts to the topic of understanding oneself. Both Trevor and Caleb describe how they have gone about learning more about who they are as individuals and what catalysts occurred to start this thought process for them. This then leads the friends to talk about time; how we can relate to it and the role it might play in our self discovery. Recorded on 7.8.2021.
Published 07/12/21
This week, Trevor and Caleb chat about the phrase "Family is everything" and what might be meant by this statement. This leads into a conversation on "closeness bias" in the 2nd half of today's episode. Recorded on 7.1.2021.
Published 07/05/21
Today on Friendship Therapy, the guys dive in the age old adage "Do to others what you would have them do to you", also known as The Golden Rule. They chat about how they have seen more harm than benefit come out of this way of living and thinking, siting University and relationship examples. Recorded on 6.246.2021.
Published 06/28/21
In this week's episode, Trevor and Caleb discuss one of the month's biggest topics as the world debating "getting back to normal" following the COVID-19 pandemic of 2020. They chat about the differences they have seen from both companies and individuals who want to move forward vs. those who want life to return to the pre-pandemic status quo. Recorded on 6.14.2021.
Published 06/22/21
Caleb and Trevor dive straight into this episode's topic, which revolves around why humans tend to favor and gravitate towards what they are familiar with. The guys toss around several possible reasons to get to their eventual conclusion, which involves looking into many personal examples from their childhood and University years. Recorded on 6.12.2021.
Published 06/14/21
In their 15th episode, Caleb and Trevor discuss the difference they see in spending quality time with a person vs the quantity of time spent with that same person. They reflect on how this has manifested itself within their relationships with family members as well as each other, and how the most successful and smoothest of relationships are those with what Caleb coins as "low emotional friction". This discussion as a whole leads the two to redefine the word "therapy" and how the name of this...
Published 06/07/21
In today's episode, Trevor and Caleb start off by listing and comparing the pros and cons of working in the office versus working from home. They then take a turn and dive into the topic of learning to listen, as well as tips and tricks they use to help stay engaged in long conversations. Recorded on 5.20.2021.
Published 05/31/21
This week, Caleb and Trevor sit down together for their first face-to-face episode! They each reflect on their life change over the past few weeks and chat about a wide range of topics such as anxiety, uncertainty and reducing daily distractions. Recorded on 4.22.2021.
Published 05/24/21
In this week's episode, Caleb and Trevor dive into the topics of fulfillment, meaning and purpose in life. They touch on questions such as "Is chase the right word to use? Is chasing a beneficial or negative mindset to have? Is the value in doing the chase itself or in the actual act of chasing itself?" Drawing from their own past experiences, the guys discuss their journeys of discovering fulfillment by reflecting on the past and the words of great minds such as Alan Watts and Viktor Frankl....
Published 05/17/21
In today's episode, Caleb and Trevor dive into their personal discoveries with self-motivation and how it relates to their own unique personalities. Recorded on 4.2.2021
Published 05/10/21