Taking risks in your career can feel like a game of high-stakes poker—do you stay in your comfort zone or bet on a bigger, bolder move? In this episode, I explore how to figure out when to take the leap and when to hold steady. From understanding your personal risk appetite to navigating career conversations, we’ll unpack the key questions to ask yourself before making that next big decision. I also share practical ways to challenge self-doubt, avoid the trap of procrastination, and make...

In this episode, Alyssa Jaffer, Senior Global Communications Manager at Deliveroo, shares her insights on navigating the complexities of communication across cultures and the impact of gender and intersectionality in her career. From facing biases like the “motherhood penalty” to balancing assertiveness with empathy, Alyssa reveals how storytelling and community can empower women in the workplace. Her reflections on overcoming stereotypes and building genuine connections offer valuable...

Ever felt stuck dealing with that boss—the one who’s not just tough but actually crosses into uncomfortable or even toxic territory? In this episode, I’m tackling an uncomfortable but crucial topic, the female leader who, despite knowing the struggle herself, makes things difficult for other women. We’ll unpack why this happens, from unresolved trauma to harsh work environments, and the roles we unconsciously play in workplace drama. I’ll also walk you through what to do if you’re facing...

In this episode of Frustrated and Exhausted, we’re unpacking the stereotypes around emotions in the workplace, especially the idea that women are “too emotional.”  Is it true that women are more emotional than men, or are we just expected to express emotions differently? I’ll share research that challenges these outdated beliefs and explore how these stereotypes impact women’s experiences and growth in professional settings. We’ll also look at how organisations shape what’s “acceptable” when...

In this episode of Frustrated and Exhausted, I explore the power of truly knowing yourself, what makes you tick, what stresses you out, and how these insights can transform your leadership journey. We’ll look into why self awareness is more than just a buzzword and how understanding your values, strengths, and triggers can make you a better, more resilient leader. I’ll also share practical tips on how you can start this process today, from simple reflection exercises to seeking feedback, and...

In this episode, I’m joined by Kate Mason. We discuss the common dilemma many women face in leadership, feeling like they have to choose between being authoritative or likeable, and how to break free from that false choice to embrace both. We talk about the importance of managing perfectionism, embracing ambition, and how to communicate confidently, even when faced with self-doubt. This episode is packed with valuable insights for anyone looking to lead with authenticity and purpose! Here...

In this episode, we’re talking about how women can use influence to get things done and be noticed for it. Sometimes, we work hard behind the scenes, but others don’t see it. I’ll share some simple strategies to help you build stronger connections, improve your visibility, and make sure your efforts are recognised. No more letting others take credit for your ideas! It’s time to make your influence stand out and get the recognition you deserve. Here are the highlights (02:08) Strategies...

Welcome to another episode. Today, I’m thrilled to have Hilary Ross, Managing Partner for DWF in the UK and Ireland, joining me today. With years of experience at the top of the legal world, Hilary brings incredible insight into what it takes to rise to such a high level, especially as a woman. In our chat, we explore the power of influence, the grit needed to overcome being overlooked, and the balance between resilience and perfectionism. Hilary’s candid reflections on navigating career...

Ever feel like you’re juggling a million things and just can’t get ahead? This week, I’m talking about the nonstop busyness that so many of us face—work, family, commitments—and why it can leave us feeling overwhelmed and unproductive. We often mistake being busy for being productive, but the truth is, we can get stuck in a cycle of ticking off tasks without really moving the needle. I’m sharing a few hard-earned tips to help you slow down, focus on what truly matters, and stop the...

In this episode, we’re chatting with the incredible Malin Rosenkvist, Director of Fundraising at the MicroLoan Foundation. The foundation provides essential business loans to women across Sub-Saharan Africa, empowering them to generate an income and support their families.   Malin shares how a chance meeting in a bar led her from the stage to Uganda, where she began making a real impact in the world. We explore her journey of working in international politics, development economics, and the...

In today’s episode, we’re unpacking high-performance habits – what they are, how they shape your day, and why they’re crucial for levelling up in life and work. We’ll break down the mechanics of habits, exploring the science behind how they’re formed and why they stick, for better or worse. And yes, I’ll share some tips to help you recognise which habits are supporting your goals and which might be holding you back. Expect some practical, no-nonsense advice on creating new habits and...

This week, I’m thrilled to chat with Sonja Dragojlovic Oliveira, Professor of Architecture at the University of Strathclyde and a true powerhouse in the fields of sustainability, design and innovation. Sonia shares her insights on decision-making in today’s complex world, where finding the right balance between data, intuition, and different perspectives can feel like an art form. If you've ever felt stuck in a room full of voices—some of them your own—this conversation is for you. We look...

In this episode, we explore the complex role vulnerability plays in leadership.   We unpack how being open can build trust and strengthen connections within teams. But vulnerability isn’t without its pitfalls—oversharing or misjudging when to be vulnerable can backfire, leading to a breakdown in trust and ineffective leadership.   Here are the highlights  (01:27) The Psychological Impact of Vulnerability  (04:47) Balancing Vulnerability and Leadership  (07:11) Purpose and Intent of...

In this episode, I chat with Helen Whiteman, a seasoned CEO with a fascinating career journey marked by curiosity, learning, and the occasional risk.   Helen opens up about the unique challenges leaders face when they care deeply about their teams, and how that can sometimes cloud judgment. We discuss how to recognise when caring too much might be affecting your decision-making and the importance of taking a step back to regain perspective.   Here are the highlights  (04:27) Career...

In this episode, we’re talking about something that often gets lost in the hustle – space for yourself. Life can get so full, and we’re constantly juggling responsibilities, often forgetting to prioritise our own needs.   Today, I’m sharing three simple strategies to help you carve out a little bit of that much-needed space in your daily life.   Whether it's creating a quiet moment just for you, identifying what you truly need, or reconnecting with dreams that have slipped off the radar, this...

Today, I'm thrilled to be joined by Louise Towler, a trailblazer in the fields of science, technology, and sustainability. Louise has leveraged her profound expertise in mathematics and software development to innovate in climate technology, notably through her startup, Canopy, which assists organisations in reducing their digital carbon footprints. In our conversation, we explore Louise's journey from a curious child inspired by Marie Curie to an award-winning entrepreneur impacting the...

Today we're diving into the topic of menopause, a significant phase that affects over 50% of the population. From dealing with fluctuating symptoms that can undermine confidence and mental health to navigating the lack of workplace support and healthcare dismissiveness, today's talk is all about empowering women through information and advocacy. Join me as we explore the physical and emotional challenges of menopause and discuss ways to seek proper support and make informed decisions about...

Welcome back to Frustrated and Exhausted. Today, we’re taking a moment to pause and reflect on the year so far, as we're just past the halfway mark of 2024.  In this special episode, we’ll explore what’s changed, what we’ve learned, and how we can set intentions for the months ahead.  Grab a pen, a cup of tea, and let’s dive into a reflective journey to reset and recharge for the rest of the year.  I really hope you enjoy this one!  Highlights:  (2:22) Self-reflection and personal...

Join me this week as I chat with sustainability expert Emma Burlow. With over 25 years in the field, Emma is now running her own company, Lighthouse Sustainability Limited, and serving as Chief Sustainability Officer at Revolution Zero.. She's also the Director and Chief Sustainability Officer for revolution zero. We dive deep into impostor syndrome, sustainability, and the challenges of burnout and stress in the workplace. Don't miss this insightful conversation filled with real-life...

Join me this week where we delve into the crucial foundation of trust within organisations—psychological safety. Having worked extensively with teams to foster environments where members feel secure and valued, I'll explore why psychological safety is particularly vital for women and how it impacts organisational success and leadership development. We'll discuss practical ways to enhance psychological safety at work, ensuring that everyone feels empowered to speak up, contribute, and...

Join me today as I talk with Andrea White, an independent fire engineer and influential figure in the fire safety industry. Andrea is the founder of Women Talking Fire, a support network for women in UK fire safety. In our discussion, we focus on the crucial role of trust in women's careers, exploring how self-trust and professional integrity shape our paths. Dive into this enlightening conversation on how trust impacts personal growth and professional opportunities in traditionally...

Today we're diving into a topic that's close to my heart yet challenging for me, and likely for many of you—self-compassion. We're often our own worst critics, quick to extend kindness to others but not to ourselves. We'll explore the meaning of self-compassion and discuss practical steps to treat ourselves with the same care and understanding we offer others. It’s about recognising our imperfections, giving ourselves permission to be human, and understanding that no one, including us,...

Hello and welcome! In this episode, I’m diving into a topic that’s often brushed under the rug—loneliness, especially in the workplace. Despite our busy lives and numerous connections, many of us still feel isolated. I chat about the real, often hidden, impact loneliness can have on our mental and physical health.   We often don’t talk about it because of the stigma, but it’s time we get comfortable with this conversation!  Here are the highlights:  (04:14) Loneliness is painful  (07:51) What...

Join me for this week’s episode where I have the pleasure of speaking with Claire Urquhart, a former corporate lawyer turned co-founder and director of the charity Open Books. Claire has spent over a decade promoting literacy and community through her work and is also a trustee at the Edinburgh International Book Festival. We delve into her inspirational journey from high-pressure legal work to meaningful community engagement, her views on leadership, and the foundational steps of building...