#179. The tendency to people please is more common than you think, but it doesn't have to be the way you "just" are. You have every power to change that and to grow into someone who is self-secure, confident and sure of themselves, their wants, needs, values and beliefs, and isn't afraid to state them even if they may not align with the next person. Lan shares how she has overcome an immense desire to people please and has become more sure of who she is in her 20s. Enjoy!! x This episode is brought to you by Jamieson Vitamins. Learn more about their innovative vitamins and supplements here. ITEMS MENTIONED: Article 1Article 2Runna App (use code ALLANA for your first 2 weeks free)Shop/My (skincare, makeup routine, hair products, etc) STAY UP TO DATE WITH LAN: http://instagram.com/allanablumberg http://tiktok.com/@allanablumberg http://pinterest.com/allanablumberg http://youtube.com/allanablumberg http://strava.com/athletes/allana_blumberg http://goodreads.com/user/show/153512974-allana-blumberg For business inquiries, only: [email protected] Our Sponsors: * This episode is brought to you by Better Help. Head to www.betterhelp.com/ALLANA to get 10% off your first month! * This episode is brought to you by Rosetta Stone. Get 50% off lifetime access to 25 language programs at www.rosettastone.com/TODAY. * This episode is brought to you by SEED. Head to seed.com/ALLANA and use code 25ALLANA for 25% off your first month! Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/morning-rae438/donations Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy