In this episode, Jessica and Chaneé (@chaneespeaks on all the socials) spin off of their last episode together where they talked about earning your "polyamory stripes" through "f****n' up and fixin' it," as Chaneé says. In this convo they dive into specific mistakes they've each made over the last 10 years, and the character arcs that came out of that journey. Some themes include: -security and stability are illusions of monogamy -impulsive, addict-like behavior during NRE -the nuances of having a more intense sexual chemistry with a new partner -getting tired of your own b******t -the role psychedelics can play in helping your non-monogamy journey -and, as always, Chaneé's giant ( . Y . ) Make sure to sign up for Chaneé's newsletter, and stay turned for a workshop from the two of us coming up soon!