Alternative episode title: Famous Last Words In this episode, The Daylovers (Jes, Joe, and Ash) talk about:  *what Datty is learning in polyamory (fear of trying and failing at finding compatible partners), *what Ash is learning about parenthood and co-parenting (letting go of attachment, not trying to immediately nip things in the bud or cast judgment, learning to pause...), *what Jes is learning in polyamory, which she breaks down to what she is learning through each of her...

In this episode: Joe finds out Ash is having an affair with Dr. M('s pores), we talk about our journey to get Ash qualified for FMLA as a polyamorous family, and we discuss, in depth, our favorite punctuation. We also talk about what Jes and Joe are individually learning in the world of parenthood right now, and Ash shares what they are learning in the world of polyamory. There's also some other stuff about sex parties, autistic embarrassment around being "too eager", and village growing...

This is by far the best and most unhinged episode we've ever recorded and we're worried we may never top it. (We will.) It's honestly all over the place and we're not sure how to summarize it, but we talk about: age gap relationships, sleeping arrangements, Jes's new orgasm discovery she calls "bass orgasms", how Ash loves to listen through the vent to Jes and Dr. M boning, why Ash's pants were at half mast in the preview photo, what it's like living with partners who have boundaries around...

In this episode The Daylovers (all 4 of them!) try to catch you up on everything that happened in 2023, which was both the best and worst year of their lives. This is the first episode recorded as a nested polycule, including the notorious Dr. M! *** Support us on ⁠Patreon⁠ and get access to exclusive content and a behind-the-scenes look at our life! Also donate to our new community-building app, ⁠Nuclear Fusion⁠, and help us begin Phase 3 of our app build! Check out all the new virtual...

When we left off 6 months ago (holy shit), it was right before Jessica's birthday orgy and Joe was about to meet his long distance lover, Ash, for the first time. Well, now it's 6 months later and YOU get to meet her...cuz she lives here now. And she's the best thing to ever happen to our little family. *** Support us on Patreon and get access to exclusive content! Also donate to our new community-building app, Nuclear Fusion, before August 6th, and be a part of the beta program! Check...

In this episode, Jessica and Joe talk about how hard it was to get this episode made, the chaos created when you move two partners into your small home within a year, how hard it is to purge your home, and what the f**k is a Roth IRA.  Enjoy the full episode, as well as a bunch of other exclusive content, on our Patreon (www.patreon.com/homesliceproductions).

You may know Emily, Dedeker, and Jase as the hosts of the world-renown podcast, Multiamory. And now you can officially add 'authors' to their bio lines! Dropping May 23rd, 2023 (though available for pre-order today), "Multiamory: Essential Tools for Modern Relationships" is a curated collection of the most popular communication tools, advice, and wisdom from the Multiamory podcast that have helped thousands of listeners improve their communication and create healthy relationships. In this...

Breaking up is hard to do. In this episode of Remodeled Love, Jessica talks with one of her favorite polyam podcasters, ashe danger phoenix of the Dear Jessamyn podcast. They discuss why lesbian breakups take so long, and is there a way to make them shorter; can we discuss breakups with someone before entering into a relationship with them, the difference between low stakes breakups, ghosting, and breakups that rip your heart out--how to see them coming, how to lean into it, and how to stay...

In this episode The Daylovers catch you up on all things Remodeled Love, including some yummy new support groups. changes in the structure of their personal+professional life intersections, and some exciting visions for the future. They also share some Hot Goss (the hottest goss they've ever had), aka: Jes's upcoming birthday orgy, and some delicious new elements to her relationship with her boyfriend...and quite possibly the most exciting development ever for Joe. The episode ends with Joe...

In the kickoff to Season 3 of the "Remodeled Love" podcast, Jes chats with the creator of and artist over at @Shrimpteeth, Sam.  There are several arguments against the presence of the "peer support" model in the polyamorous digital sphere:the potential for the abuse of power, the fact that there's no board to report abuse to, no official training or accreditation for "coaches", the charging of money, etc.  But how does peer support actually work? Jes and Sam break down their backgrounds,...

In this episode of Remodeled, Jes chats with a brilliant and diverse group of polyamorous men, some of whom you may recognize as popular content creators in the polyamorous digital sphere. Joining Mr. Daylover at the table is our good friend Wade (remember him from Season 1??), Albert of @Polymananswers & @Albah.Love (and Jes' comet partner in Sacramento), and Bear of @Bear.n.Fifi. Jes asks the guys what they've noticed as polyamorous men, as well as polyam peer support specialists,...

In this episode of Remodeled, The Daylovers enjoy deliciously upscale recording accommodations and talk about their new e-book, "Polyamory & Parenthood: Navigating Non-Monogamy as Parents of Young Children". They offer a brief overview of their new book, and share a little of the behind-the-scenes process. Jes also shares some show feedback--mainly that folks really enjoy the episodes between the two of them, and Jes promises to return to more of a balance between those types of episodes...

In this episode Jes chats with @coach_shor on the intersections of compulsory monogamy, compulsory heterosexuality, compulsory cis-ness, and fatphobia. And, as always, they dive into the semiotics of it all. Sponsor for this episode is the good folks from Beducated!: Click here or copy past this link (http://beducate.me/pd2206-remodeled-couples) to receive 65% off a yearly subscription, locked in for life! #RedefineFamily #RedefineLove #RemodeledLove ••• 🎙If you love my content and want...

In this episode, Jes and Joe catch you the f**k up on their polyamorous lives. SO MUCH HAS HAPPENED SINCE THEY GOT BACK ON THE APPS! They share some exciting new connections, some tragic lessons, and a hilarious anecdote that only polyamorous parents can truly understand. *** >> www.remodeledlove.com >> www.facebook.com/RemodeledLove >> Instagram: @remodeledlove >> Twitter: @remodeledLove >> TikTok: @HomesliceProductions >> Support our work at:...

In this extremely vulnerable episode, The Daylovers "come out", and share with you the raw details of their evolution into a beautiful, asexual, polyamorous marriage. They lay out every piece of their journey: Jes's fearful confession of her asexual feelings toward Joe a few months ago,  how that landed in Joe's world,  Joe's processing of those emotions,  why they think of it as an "evolution", and Jes's very detailed theory as to the factors behind this evolution-- including pieces...

In this interview we chat with @lavitaloca34 — she shares her backstory, the character arc of her life so far, her polyamory origin story, how she became a content creator, her critiques of the polyamorous community, and some deep wisdom that everyone needs to hear. TIP US! 👇🏼 CashApp: $lavitaloca35 PayPal: [email protected] Venmo: Evita-Sawyers CashApp: $jessicalevity PayPal: [email protected] Venmo: @jessica-levity *** >> www.remodeledlove.com >>...

[CW: Brief mentions of trauma, intimate partner violence, and sexual violence] In this episode, Jes chats with fellow Instagram content creator, Sydney Rae Chin. Sydney (they/she) identifies as a queer, non-binary, East Asian, anti-capitalist femme. They talk Sydney's critique of the social media space: the entrepreneurial culture, the problematic nature with some of the Polyam content creators, the lack of consent found in the space, and also what Sydney calls the "Survivorship Industrial...

In this highly anticipated episode of "Remodeled", Jes chats with clinical psychologist Dr. Antonia Jurkovic about her perceived and experienced correlations between ADHD and Polyamory. They dive into: how much Dr. Antonia thinks Polyamory and ADHD are related to one another, how the identities are inherently intertwined, and the growing observation that so many non-monogamous folks have ADHD. They also talk about how ADHD might impact what draws someone to polyamory (a need for...

We continue our Polyamorous Men series with this live interview with The Good Chad of @Polyamfam. In this episode we discuss Chad's polyamory origin story. Chad shares the struggles he had early on-- his insecurities and jealousies, and how polyamory actually helped him work through them to become a better version of himself. Chad talks about the role toxic masculinity played in his polyamorous journey, and he gives us his number one tip in helping other men overcome toxicity: Listen. To....

~ From Purity Rings to Non-Monogamous Things ~ In this episode, The Daylovers chat with their first special guest of the season, Instagram's @PurityToPolyamory. In part 1, she shares what lead her to starting her Instagram account, and her reaction to its quick success. She mentions that "exvangelical" and "deconstruction" circles are on the rise right now, and delves into the parallels within her journey between the deconstruction of her faith and her realization that she is polyamorous....

In this live and (mostly) unedited episode, The Daylovers share some exciting news regarding their recent rise to UK trash mag fame, update everyone on their dating life, and talk about some fun new merch they just launched. Plus, Jes goes off about how capitalism has ruined dating apps, does a deep dive into how her demisexuality affects her online dating life, and announces her newly discovered identity as a "Demisexual Slut".  *** You can submit questions you may have about Jes and Joe,...

In this kick off to the long-awaited Season 2, Jes pitches her mushroom-inspired idea to Joe that if she can let go of editing each episode as intensely as she did in Season 1, then they can get a lot more episodes out quicker. Joe doubts Jes is capable of that. In Part 1, The Daylovers then catch you up on their lives: how it's been going with the new baby, navigating breakups, and just getting their reality tossed around by the general upheaval that comes with a newborn, plus also the plot...

In this special "Mini Episode", Jes shares a coming out story with you all. Just because you're 35 doesn't mean there aren't parts of your sexuality that you're still discovering. This story is dedicated to anyone with whom it resonates.  *** You can submit questions you may have about Jes and Joe, polyamory in general, or a specific situation you're navigating by emailing [email protected], or submit the anonymous form at www.remodeledlove.com. >>...

In the Season 1 Finale of “Remodeled”, The Daylovers sit down with the Godfather of their children, Christopher Daniels (aka “Titi”), to share the sacred birth story of Lucius Sol Daylover. The mission of Remodeled is to Redefine Family and Redefine Love, and the reverent home birth of their sweet LSD did just that. Can you imagine a more perfect way to end our first season? The telling of birth stories, if you’ve never read or heard one, is an extremely powerful genre of storytelling. Not...