Episodes
Episode highlights: There are only 8 (actually 3 now) tickets left for Jes and Chaneé's "You Wanna Be Polyamorous But You..." workshop on 11/2 Jes is willing to be ruined by the "Homosexual Lesbian Spirits", and also she made merch about it. Jes is back on dating apps for the first time in almost 2 years because of a tv show, and Joe is really happy for her for it Joe makes Jes late to her first first date in almost 2 years Jes suddenly has the ability to go on a first date without...
Published 10/29/24
Published 10/29/24
In this episode, Jessica and Chaneé (@chaneespeaks on all the socials) spin off of their last episode together where they talked about earning your "polyamory stripes" through "f****n' up and fixin' it," as Chaneé says. In this convo they dive into specific mistakes they've each made over the last 10 years, and the character arcs that came out of that journey. Some themes include: -security and stability are illusions of monogamy -impulsive, addict-like behavior during NRE -the nuances of...
Published 10/03/24
Welcome to the first episode of Fusion Radio, produced and hosted by Nuclear Fusion App's CEO, Jessica Daylover. Fusion Radio is an enterprise of the Nuclear Fusion App. The Nuclear Fusion App is a project whose mission is to help folks across the world find, build, and sustain modern villages and chosen families. In this short episode, Jessica introduces you to the Nuclear Fusion App project, and the context of its existence. The alpha version of Nuclear Fusion App launches on Monday...
Published 09/20/24
In this episode of our podcast (now on video!) The Daylovers sit down with their beloved friend and colleague Chaneé Jackson Kendall (online at @ChaneeSpeaks). They talk about what's new with Chaneé's project "Intentional Polyamory", Remodeled Love, and the Nuclear Fusion App. They get into why there's no point to anything and, as always, a reminder that love sucks. Finally they dive into a very complex polyamory problem as part of their advice portion of the show called "Dear...
Published 09/06/24
In this episode Jes, Joe, and Dr. M sit down for a templated episode: What's New with Remodeled Love? Hot Goss (what's new in their super salacious and obviously exciting polyamorous lives?) Existential Thoughts I've Been Having Lately (the trio share the most recent existential dread that's been plaguing their brains) Dear Daylovers (the trio answer a listener advice question about polyamory) You can submit a question at RemodeledLove.com/DearDaylovers ! *** Support us on...
Published 08/29/24
In this episode Jessica, Joe, and Dr. M discuss all the big and new changes in the polycule, regrets they have as content creators, and the f*****y of ignorant ass people. You can hear the rest of this episode and support Remodeled Love by joining our Patreon at www.patreon.com/remodeledlove. Plus you'll receive 3 years of exclusive content when you join! You can also subscribe on Spotify to receive access to all the exclusive podcast episode.
Published 08/02/24
I've been waiting so freakin' long to tell y'all that, after 43 years of monogamous marriage, my in-laws (Dr. M's parents), have discovered the joys of swinging...and now they're both big ol' bisexual sluts having the time of their lives—in their 70s! And they sat down with me and my husband in our recording studio and spilled all the tea on their adventures, how they got here, and the expansion and growth it's required. Prepare yourself for an episode that's somehow as pumpkiny as...
Published 05/23/24
Alternative episode title: Famous Last Words In this episode, The Daylovers (Jes, Joe, and Ash) talk about:  *what Datty is learning in polyamory (fear of trying and failing at finding compatible partners), *what Ash is learning about parenthood and co-parenting (letting go of attachment, not trying to immediately nip things in the bud or cast judgment, learning to pause...), *what Jes is learning in polyamory, which she breaks down to what she is learning through each of her...
Published 02/15/24
In this episode: Joe finds out Ash is having an affair with Dr. M('s pores), we talk about our journey to get Ash qualified for FMLA as a polyamorous family, and we discuss, in depth, our favorite punctuation. We also talk about what Jes and Joe are individually learning in the world of parenthood right now, and Ash shares what they are learning in the world of polyamory. There's also some other stuff about sex parties, autistic embarrassment around being "too eager", and village growing...
Published 02/07/24
This is by far the best and most unhinged episode we've ever recorded and we're worried we may never top it. (We will.) It's honestly all over the place and we're not sure how to summarize it, but we talk about: age gap relationships, sleeping arrangements, Jes's new orgasm discovery she calls "bass orgasms", how Ash loves to listen through the vent to Jes and Dr. M boning, why Ash's pants were at half mast in the preview photo, what it's like living with partners who have boundaries around...
Published 01/20/24
In this episode The Daylovers (all 4 of them!) try to catch you up on everything that happened in 2023, which was both the best and worst year of their lives. This is the first episode recorded as a nested polycule, including the notorious Dr. M! *** Support us on ⁠Patreon⁠ and get access to exclusive content and a behind-the-scenes look at our life! Also donate to our new community-building app, ⁠Nuclear Fusion⁠, and help us begin Phase 3 of our app build! Check out all the new virtual...
Published 01/18/24
When we left off 6 months ago (holy shit), it was right before Jessica's birthday orgy and Joe was about to meet his long distance lover, Ash, for the first time. Well, now it's 6 months later and YOU get to meet her...cuz she lives here now. And she's the best thing to ever happen to our little family. *** Support us on Patreon and get access to exclusive content! Also donate to our new community-building app, Nuclear Fusion, before August 6th, and be a part of the beta program! Check...
Published 11/26/23
In this episode, Jessica and Joe talk about how hard it was to get this episode made, the chaos created when you move two partners into your small home within a year, how hard it is to purge your home, and what the f**k is a Roth IRA.  Enjoy the full episode, as well as a bunch of other exclusive content, on our Patreon (www.patreon.com/homesliceproductions).
Published 08/10/23
You may know Emily, Dedeker, and Jase as the hosts of the world-renown podcast, Multiamory. And now you can officially add 'authors' to their bio lines! Dropping May 23rd, 2023 (though available for pre-order today), "Multiamory: Essential Tools for Modern Relationships" is a curated collection of the most popular communication tools, advice, and wisdom from the Multiamory podcast that have helped thousands of listeners improve their communication and create healthy relationships. In this...
Published 05/19/23
Breaking up is hard to do. In this episode of Remodeled Love, Jessica talks with one of her favorite polyam podcasters, ashe danger phoenix of the Dear Jessamyn podcast. They discuss why lesbian breakups take so long, and is there a way to make them shorter; can we discuss breakups with someone before entering into a relationship with them, the difference between low stakes breakups, ghosting, and breakups that rip your heart out--how to see them coming, how to lean into it, and how to stay...
Published 03/17/23
In this episode The Daylovers catch you up on all things Remodeled Love, including some yummy new support groups. changes in the structure of their personal+professional life intersections, and some exciting visions for the future. They also share some Hot Goss (the hottest goss they've ever had), aka: Jes's upcoming birthday orgy, and some delicious new elements to her relationship with her boyfriend...and quite possibly the most exciting development ever for Joe. The episode ends with Joe...
Published 11/21/22
In the kickoff to Season 3 of the "Remodeled Love" podcast, Jes chats with the creator of and artist over at @Shrimpteeth, Sam.  There are several arguments against the presence of the "peer support" model in the polyamorous digital sphere:the potential for the abuse of power, the fact that there's no board to report abuse to, no official training or accreditation for "coaches", the charging of money, etc.  But how does peer support actually work? Jes and Sam break down their backgrounds,...
Published 09/16/22
In this episode of Remodeled, Jes chats with a brilliant and diverse group of polyamorous men, some of whom you may recognize as popular content creators in the polyamorous digital sphere. Joining Mr. Daylover at the table is our good friend Wade (remember him from Season 1??), Albert of @Polymananswers & @Albah.Love (and Jes' comet partner in Sacramento), and Bear of @Bear.n.Fifi. Jes asks the guys what they've noticed as polyamorous men, as well as polyam peer support specialists,...
Published 09/09/22
In this episode of Remodeled, The Daylovers enjoy deliciously upscale recording accommodations and talk about their new e-book, "Polyamory & Parenthood: Navigating Non-Monogamy as Parents of Young Children". They offer a brief overview of their new book, and share a little of the behind-the-scenes process. Jes also shares some show feedback--mainly that folks really enjoy the episodes between the two of them, and Jes promises to return to more of a balance between those types of episodes...
Published 07/19/22
In this episode Jes chats with @coach_shor on the intersections of compulsory monogamy, compulsory heterosexuality, compulsory cis-ness, and fatphobia. And, as always, they dive into the semiotics of it all. Sponsor for this episode is the good folks from Beducated!: Click here or copy past this link (http://beducate.me/pd2206-remodeled-couples) to receive 65% off a yearly subscription, locked in for life! #RedefineFamily #RedefineLove #RemodeledLove ••• 🎙If you love my content and want...
Published 04/04/22
In this episode, Jes and Joe catch you the f**k up on their polyamorous lives. SO MUCH HAS HAPPENED SINCE THEY GOT BACK ON THE APPS! They share some exciting new connections, some tragic lessons, and a hilarious anecdote that only polyamorous parents can truly understand. *** >> www.remodeledlove.com >> www.facebook.com/RemodeledLove >> Instagram: @remodeledlove >> Twitter: @remodeledLove >> TikTok: @HomesliceProductions >> Support our work at:...
Published 01/21/22
In this extremely vulnerable episode, The Daylovers "come out", and share with you the raw details of their evolution into a beautiful, asexual, polyamorous marriage. They lay out every piece of their journey: Jes's fearful confession of her asexual feelings toward Joe a few months ago,  how that landed in Joe's world,  Joe's processing of those emotions,  why they think of it as an "evolution", and Jes's very detailed theory as to the factors behind this evolution-- including pieces...
Published 11/29/21
In this interview we chat with @lavitaloca34 — she shares her backstory, the character arc of her life so far, her polyamory origin story, how she became a content creator, her critiques of the polyamorous community, and some deep wisdom that everyone needs to hear. TIP US! 👇🏼 CashApp: $lavitaloca35 PayPal: [email protected] Venmo: Evita-Sawyers CashApp: $jessicalevity PayPal: [email protected] Venmo: @jessica-levity *** >> www.remodeledlove.com >>...
Published 10/25/21
[CW: Brief mentions of trauma, intimate partner violence, and sexual violence] In this episode, Jes chats with fellow Instagram content creator, Sydney Rae Chin. Sydney (they/she) identifies as a queer, non-binary, East Asian, anti-capitalist femme. They talk Sydney's critique of the social media space: the entrepreneurial culture, the problematic nature with some of the Polyam content creators, the lack of consent found in the space, and also what Sydney calls the "Survivorship Industrial...
Published 10/08/21