In this insightful episode, we dive into the concept of self-parenting and how it can help mothers navigate their parenting journey, break unhealthy cycles, and heal from past experiences. Explore the practical steps of self-parenting, its benefits, and how it can transform your relationship with your children and yourself. Episode Highlights[1:15] Definition of Self-Parenting: Explanation of self-parenting and how it differs from traditional approaches.The concept of integrating self-parenting into daily life.[3:00] - Western Approaches vs. Self-Parenting: Discussion on traditional Western approaches to mental health like CBT and medication.Limitations of these methods and the need for deeper, more integrated approaches.[5:00] - The Subconscious Mind and Identity: How self-parenting works at the subconscious level to break patterns and barriers.The role of identity, values, and beliefs in shaping our behaviors.[8:00] - Age Ranges and Development: Explanation of the developmental stages: 0-7, 7-14, and 14-21.How experiences during these stages shape our subconscious mind.[11:30] - Triggers in Parenting: Identifying specific triggers in parenting and their roots in childhood experiences.Example of a client’s experience with feeling rushed and its connection to childhood.[15:00] - The Process of Self-Parenting: Steps to practice self-parenting: recognizing triggers, identifying their origins, and nurturing the inner child.Talking to the inner child and providing what they needed then, now.[18:00] - Dealing with Triggers: Example scenario: a client’s feeling of panic when her child doesn’t get ready on time.How to address and soothe the inner child in such situations.[20:30] - Validation and Reassurance: The importance of validating and reassuring the inner child.Example of affirmations and reassurances that can be given to the inner child.[23:00] - Overcoming Victim Mentality: The risk of falling into a victim mentality and how to avoid it.The role of self-compassion and understanding in breaking generational patterns.[26:00] - Generational Patterns and Self-Compassion: Understanding the generational aspect of patterns and the importance of compassion in healing.Recognizing that we are the first generation with the tools and knowledge to make these changes.[29:00] - Unrealistic Expectations and Codependency: How unrealistic expectations and unresolved issues can lead to unhealthy dynamics with our children.The spiral effect of guilt and critical self-judgment.[32:00] - Closing Thoughts and Invitation for Interaction: Encouragement to reflect on the discussed concepts and apply them.Invitation for listeners to share their experiences, ask questions, and provide feedback.Key Takeaways: Self-parenting helps address deep-rooted patterns by nurturing and validating the inner child.Understanding the developmental stages of the subconscious mind is crucial for effective self-parenting.Identifying and addressing triggers in parenting can lead to more harmonious and less stressful interactions with children.Self-compassion and understanding are essential in breaking generational patterns and healing wounds.Grab the FREE Cycle-Breaking Mom's Guidebook Quotes: "When we chip away at these subconscious beliefs, our outer