This week I spiraled out with hilarious standup comedian, writer, actress & podcaster Yamini Nambimadom! (Pillow Fight Podcast,  Chicago 10's) We talked about everyone thinking you're fine even when you're not,  the struggle to ask for help, people pleasing, being a "difficult" child, immigrant parent expectations and feeling pressure to be the best,  mean internet comments, dating, shame embodied as a horrible Beetle named Billy, and so much more!    Plus, Yamini shares a shame story about being in a relationship where she often felt judged by her ex-girlfriend's friends, and then making a small, very human error that left her feeling she was going to be SHUNNED FOR LIFE.    Follow Yamini on Twitter,  Instagram and TikTok @showmetheyamz, and follow and listen to her comedy & culture podcast Pillow Fight @pillowfightpod everywhere you listen to podcasts! https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/pillow-fight/id1534035677   And you can follow me on Twitter, Instagram, and TikTok @elykreimendahl, and the pod on Twitter and Instagram @podshamespiral, where I'm regularly posting fun video clips of especially juicy or hilarious moments from the episodes.   And we now have a Patreon! Please check it out, and if you've been enjoying the pod, PATRONIZE US! https://www.patreon.com/ShameSpiralPod Audio Engineer/Editor: Sarah Gabrielli (check out her amazing podcast about the last lesbian bars in America @cruisingpod on Instagram and TikTok and listen here: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/cruising-a-lesbian-bar-road-trip/id1585850925 Original Music: Shadwick Wilde, Instagram and Twitter: @shadwickwilde Cover Art: Cassidy Kulhanek, Instagram, Twitter and TikTok: @heavenlygrandpa New episodes every Tuesday! Don't forget to subscribe, review and please leave those five shining stars!  twitter.com/podshamespiral instagram.com/podshamespiral instagram.com/elykreimendahl tiktok.com/@elykreimendahl twitter.com/elykreimendahl