Episodes
It’s time to get topical!  The highly anticipated Wicked film came out this week and guess what… we weren’t invited to the premiere (unlike the rest of Instagram!) We also get serious about the body shaming we’ve seen in the media around Ariana Grande and Cynthia Erivo. Why do people feel like it’s okay to talk about their bodies and why are we so reductive when it comes to women? We also discuss camel anatomy, I’m A Celeb and the love of Em’s life… Hugh Jackman.  Have you ever been so hungry...
Published 11/21/24
Payzee Mahmod is an activist, campaigner and public speaker who advocates for women and children’s rights. She is campaigner at the KWRO women’s rights organisation and an Obama Leader. She tells us the incredibly moving story of how she became a victim of child marriage at the age of sixteen. After her sister Banaz was murdered in of an ‘honour’ killing - Payzee bravely left her marriage and started a new life. She now campaigns for women and girls around the world - working to end harmful...
Published 11/18/24
Published 11/18/24
We’re feeling *tousled* for today’s Is It Just Me! Join Em and Al for a mini spelling bee and a *very* high-brow discussion about Naked Attraction and the Netflix show that everyone is talking about… Rivals. Is the world ready for a David Tennant sex scene? And do we all have a crush on Danny Dyer now? The email inbox has provided us with some incredibly embarrassing awkward from you guys. Have you had the most awkward day of your life? Tell us about it on...
Published 11/14/24
Have you ever heard a non-confrontational confrontation with a Just Stop Oil activist? Today we’re speaking to Gill Tavner. She’s a Just Stop Oil campaigner - but perhaps doesn’t fit the image that the media might paint you of one.  Gill was one of the warmest and most lovely people that we’ve spoken to on the podcast. She also has a criminal conviction - for walking in the road as part of a Just Stop Oil slow march.  She tells us how her activism was inspired by increasing desperation and...
Published 11/11/24
It’s time for some listener lols! We’ve got LOADS of your awkwards for you this week - and boy, are they awkward…  We’re asking what’s worse - walking in on your friends having sex or reading their dirty texts? Em has a very strong case to make thanks some *very* awkward personal experiences.  We also have a cringe sauna incident to tell you about… and Em spills the beans on what happened when she got the call from Love Island. And guess what... Alex has some huge news - she’s made a...
Published 11/07/24
Even though we have babies - it turns out, we don’t know *that* much about giving birth. So, today on the podcast - we’re talking to Mamadinya… the internet’s favourite’s midwife. Mamadinya came to the studio to answer everything you’ve always wanted to ask a midwife. What happens if you poo in a birthing pool? If you want to take your placenta home - do they give it to you in a bag? What happens during birth if you have hemorrhoids?  Whether you have kids, want kids, are unsure, or if...
Published 11/04/24
As you all know - we’ve got no HR department… which is why today we’re doing a live exit interview with the legendary Daisy Grant! Daisy has left the team after two and a half years, she’s moved to Wales to live an idyllic life with her fiance, who you all know, is also called Daisy.  She’s been here since the beginning, so today we say an emotional goodbye and we remember some of our favourite moments together - and we look forward to the future of the podcast with our expanded team.  Listen...
Published 10/31/24
It’s one of those episodes where we dive into a TikTok curiosity hole - and we end up learning something quite profound on the way. It turns out cleaning is about a lot more than just mess... Today, we’re speaking to Vicki - who is a biohazard cleaning specialist. You might know her from her TikTok videos - where she shows us what she does for a living - cleaning hoarder houses, crime scenes and anything which involves bodily fluids. We explore the mental health reasons why someone might...
Published 10/28/24
It's been a very big week on the internet - so we're bringing you a topical episode to reflect on three topics that have felt particularly important for us. Firstly - take a look at the internet's reaction to the tragic news of Liam Payne's death. The noise on the internet around this topic has felt extraordinarily loud this week - so we discuss the cycle of trolling and tragedy that we have seen play out so many times and how we're feeling about it. Then, it's time to go back in time...
Published 10/23/24
We have our first Dame on the podcast! The incredible Dame Kelly Holmes joins Em and Alex this week for a honest and vulnerable chat about mental health, motivation and ageing. Dame Kelly tells us about how her incredible story started when a PE teacher told her she could be good at something - and then, how watching the Olympics inspired a twenty-year long dream of becoming Olympic Champion.  She tells us how she became a world class athlete whilst serving in the Army - and how she defied...
Published 10/20/24
This week - Alex has a fresh batch of beef with TikTok for uniniviting her to an event (AGAIN) - so we’ve decided to spill the tea on influencer events... is it all just posing for pics and not speaking to each other?  Em tells us the story of a rental handbag that came with a little extra suprise… and we’re also asking why people at weddings won’t explain the economy to us - and why can't they just print more money? If you have an Is It Just Me for us - email us on...
Published 10/17/24
Six years ago, Helen Addis (aka The Titty Gritty) found a lump. Despite having no history of cancer in her family - it was an aggressive form of breast cancer. A week after her diagnosis - she had a masectomy, followed by 18 months of active treatment.  Being well under the screening age, the only person who would have found Helen’s cancer - was Helen.  During her treatment, Helen asked her friends and family if they checked their boobs - and when most of them said no - she made it her...
Published 10/13/24
On today’s podcast we have a live unboxing… is this the beginning of our new career as ASMR-tists?  Alex also has a theory about drinking water… is it all just a conspiracy? We also take a mildly horrifying look at our average step counts and we delve into the world of rejection therapy.  Em’s also had a DM saying that everything was better in our grandparents’ days. Could that possibly true and would we survive in a world without tuna baguettes?  If you have an Is It Just Me for us - email...
Published 10/09/24
If you’re dating, if you’re dealing with a difficult break up or if you just need a postive spin on a tough situation - this is the episode for you.  The brilliant life coach, activist and author Michelle Elman joins Em and Alex in the studio today - to speak candidly about her engagement ending earlier this year, and how she’s thrived in the subsequent months.  One Instagram DM completely changed the course of Michelle's life - but she tells us why she chose forgiveness, why she started...
Published 10/06/24
Sooooo, we got stood up by a guest. Will it lead to a negative thought spiral? We’re about to find out!  Em has a cringe wedding-related IIJM for us and we also attempt to unpack why pregnant women who cheat on their partners are treated differently to men who chat on their pregnant partners. Meanwhile - we’re back on the Housewives… and we find out about Em’s longest relationship… with a man called Gary.   If you have any thoughts, feelings, suggestions or people who you are desperate for us...
Published 10/02/24
Alex is away this week - so Em has invited life coach, author, columnist and friend of the podcast Jacqueline Hurst into the studio for a bit of a therapy session... and we think it's well needed! Jacqueline shares some of her practical steps and ways in which we can change our thought patterns when we are entering a negative thought spiral. She also answers some of your questions about self-worth and feeling like we are a burden to others. For more of Jacqueline’s wisdom, you can follow her...
Published 09/29/24
Get ready to be fired up because today we’re bringing you an accidentally ragey episode - it's time to read the Daily Mail Showbiz section together…  We’re also asking if pregnant women should be showing off their bumps more in public, and whether you can be friends with someone you disagree with politically.  Do you have an Is It Just Me for us? Email us on [email protected]! Follow us on Instagram: @shouldideletethat @em_clarkson @alexlight_ldn Should I Delete That? is produced...
Published 09/25/24
TW: sexual assault, rape, suicide This week on the podcast, Em and Alex are joined by Gemma Morgan. When Gemma joined the Army, she discovered very quickly how she had to behave as a woman to get by: prove your strength by pushing yourself harder than you ever thought possible, but ensure you act small enough so you don't step on the toes of your male counterparts. This balancing act proved near impossible under the weight of oppressive misogyny deeply entrenched within the structure of the...
Published 09/22/24
In this week's IIJM, the girls discuss some hilarious awkwards one unfortunate listener has sent in, whether you should declare the state of your bumhole when you get a wax and how to know if your husband's having an affair with a peach... Follow us on Instagram @shouldideletethat Email us at [email protected] Edited by Daisy Grant Music by Alex Andrew Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
Published 09/18/24
It is a HUGE day for the podcast... the girls are joined by Em's hero: Marian Keyes! A woman who needs little introduction, Marian is one of the most successful Irish novelists of all time. She released her debut novel, Watermelon, almost thirty years ago, after embarking on a journey of recovery from alcoholism. She tells the girls how becoming sober helped give her the sense of hope she needed to start writing a novel. She also discusses families, life, and the menopause in this fascinating...
Published 09/15/24
In this week's IIJM, Em and Alex discuss drug smugglers, feeling nostalgia and the new potential smoking ban... Follow us on Instagram @shouldideletethat Email us at [email protected] Edited by Daisy Grant Music by Alex Andrew Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
Published 09/11/24
In this week's episode, Em and Alex are joined by racing driver, Abbi Pulling. Avid listeners will know how obsessed the girls are with Formula One, so getting Abbi on the pod was a massively exciting day! Abbi talks the girls through her career, the importance of the F1 Academy and how she avoids feeling afraid. She even offers to take a reluctant Alex (Safety Susan according to Em) for a spin! Follow us on Instagram @shouldideletethat Email us at [email protected] Edited by...
Published 09/08/24
In this week's IIJM, Em and Alex discuss imaginary children, failed petitions and the world's most famous women... Follow us on Instagram @shouldideletethat Email us at [email protected] Edited by Daisy Grant Music by Alex Andrew Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
Published 09/04/24
In this week's episode, Em and Alex are joined by influencer, writer and former model Ruth Crilly! Ruth has written a new book called How Not to be a Supermodel, all about her noughties escapades and modelling career. She shares her most glamorous and unglamorous moments, how her body image was impacted by her career and why she didn't make it to supermodel status. Follow Ruth on Instagram @ruthcrilly and buy her new book How Not to be a Supermodel here:...
Published 09/01/24