Episodes
How do we avoid the Valentine's Day cliches, and create an authentic experience your partner will love? VDay is an opportunity to really say "I appreciate you".  T shares our listeners' stories about the best thing they ever did or received on Valentine's Day, and then T chats with Amy Weissfeld (JoyfulSelfLove.com) and Jackie Meldrum (MakingYourOwnBed.com), 2 accomplished sex coaches, about improving your game with a lover, and walk us through what they teach in their Master Lover Mindset...
Published 02/09/17
A lot of women don't say no to sex to avoid conflict, or because they actually like the guy and don't want to hurt his feelings.  And a lot of guys are completely unaware they've crossed a line because she didn't say no and seemed into it -so why would they think anything was wrong?   It doesn't take a full-on rape experience for a woman to feel compromised and unfortunately, the fact is compromised sex happens ALL THE TIME.  T&A share their most recent experiences that both,...
Published 02/02/17
It’s Ask T&A day, where listeners write in with their questions.  On this month’s episode: ‘Help! We’ve just moved in and can’t stop fighting, does this mean we’re incompatible?’ Then, ‘My girlfriend says she’s too stressed for sex.  I wanna be there for her, but this is getting frustrating, what do I do?’
Published 01/26/17
Sex is a breeding ground for embarrassing moments (no pun intended). Bodily fluids, acrobatic moves, feelings, uncontrollable urges- Anything can happen!  So Tom McLoughlin ((Director Jayson 6, Date with and Angel) and Peter Desberg Phd (clinical psychologist) created The Bad Sex Manual to help us get through the stickiest of situations when having sex with someone new by adding in a little humor to the situation.      
Published 01/19/17
In a rousing discussion with Natasha Chandel from the podcast ‘Kinda Dating’, the ladies weigh in on women’s reactions to Trump by trading in their long locks for flat tops.  Is it the end of femininity or just rebellion? Plus some interesting angles on the meaning of hair and how it may affect relationships.  Then the girls discuss the emergence of blow job cafes serviced by female robots.  Be sure to check out Natasha’s podcast @kindadating  
Published 01/12/17
Happy New Year!  It's 2017 and T&A love to take stock of an entire year that has now passed, by looking at what they've learned from all their adventures with the opposite sex.  Youtuber Trisha Hershberger from 'The Naked Truth' and actor/comedian Sina Amedson join in this round table chat as the group shares their biggest take aways from love in 2016, and what they will do differently in the brand-spanking new year to come.  Listen in and get ready to take stock of your own 2016...
Published 01/05/17
On this month’s episode of ‘Ask T&A’, the girls help a fellow sista’ overcome her fear of the texture of cum so she can happily finish her guy off.  Then a young woman wants to know, ‘how long do I wait for him to get over his ex?’ Plus, after twenty years of marriage, what do you think of a man wearing women’s panties?  T&A share their insights.  
Published 12/29/16
We hear a lot about what can go wrong when infants and kids don't ge enough touch, but what about adults?? T&A talk with professional cuddlers, Jean Franzblau and Fei Wyatt (creators of Cuddle Sanctuary in Los Angeles), about the epidemic of no touch in a digital world, our mindset of scarcity, and the negative effects on our health and emotions, and how you can get more non-sexual touch and intimacy in your everyday life, especially as we head into the holidays with ...perhaps those...
Published 12/22/16
A has always been  a huge advocate for good posture- because it's HOT!!  In this informative episode, T&A talk about how important posture has been in selecting their mates :) Plus, they share their own journeys through poor posture, and then chat with CEO & Co-Founder of Lumo Lift technologies, Monisha Perkash, to get the inside scoop on how important good posture is.  Monisha shares bad posture trends in men versus women, what may be the cause behind it, the horrible affects of bad...
Published 12/15/16
What's the deal with fetishes?  Where do they come from, and do they need to be overcome? T&A get inside the mind of a fetishest with a raw and insightful conversation with master storyteller Dylan Brody, who's opened for Dave Sedaris and has been featured on NPR, when he shares the riveting story about the origin of his own fetish- for handicapped women.  Dylan shares what life is like having a fetish, how it's impacted his marriage and wether or not fetishes need to be fixed.
Published 12/08/16
T&A weigh in on audience's questions: In this month's episode of T&A's advice show, how to rebound after a bad first date (on election night!), best car sex positions?  And can too much masturbation hurt your sex life??  
Published 12/01/16
It's Thanksgiving week, which means time for T&A to reflect on all the things they're grateful for this year- the not so suitable for the dinner table things.  Lora Somoza from the podcast, 'Between the Sheets with Lora Somoza' joins this roundtable chat which sparks scintilating conversation on vibrators, masturbation, their body issues growing up as kids and even some deeper family issue stuff.  Fun and entertaining, yet always deep, Happy Thanksgiving from T&A!
Published 11/24/16
Inspired by the lush, sexy, and joyous erotic thriller, The Handmaiden, directed by Park Chan-wook, T&A invite Carlisle Forrester (comedian and podcast cohost of 2 Girls, 1 Guy) to discuss the eroticism featured in the film, and what it says about women, our ability to get turned on by each other and our resistance to diving down under.  Then all 3 ladies speak freely about their own sexual encounters with other women, and what we learned about ourselves through it. 
Published 11/17/16
Let's be honest, all this 'Consent is Sexy' talk... isn't really that sexy.  But when T&A's friend Dave Booda from the podcast 'Dude Panel' wrote an article sharing his experience of being acused of rape from a lover he thought he had consentual, awesome sex with, it was clear the issue needed addressing for even the most well-intentioned guy.  He thought this chick was totally on board... so how do you know she really does want to have sex with you?  T&A have a lively discussion...
Published 11/11/16
Do we bale on our relationships too soon?  Have you ever wondered if maybe you would be better off if you just had some patience and stayed with that person? The idea of sticking through a relationship come hell-or-highwater has become somewhat of a relic.  When an 'insurmountable' obstacle comes along, we chalk it up to incompatability, and skip along to find someone more up our alley now that we're wiser for it.  But is this a modern mindset that keeps us from reaping the rewards of a...
Published 11/03/16
It's Ask T&A Day!  In this month's episode, find out what causes a red, irrated and smelly penis, but the scarier thing is how unnoticed this goes by most men!  Then, T&A dive in and give an incredibly detailed play by play of how to make a girl cum from oral sex, and more specifically, them :)  All the insider tips and tricks are in this one! Happy listening...
Published 10/27/16
Wow, we totally had a show topic for this week- and then Jayson Thibault from Punch Drunk Sports happened! Which made for an epic episode.  His candid discussion about all things relationships, sex, family, and growing up with lesbian parents bring us to a higher level of honesty! How does a young boy growing up with all women affect him as a man? How does T growing up with her father affect her as a grown woman? A shares her personal story about her mom's ovarian cancer, and how she handled...
Published 10/20/16
After T&A attended amateur stripper night in support of their friends, they were seriously thinking about a career change!  Inspired by these regular 9-5 er's struttin' their stuff for the first time on the pole in PUBLIC, T&A sat down with a couple of these brave ladies to hear all about their experience.  They share how they got into taking pole dancing class, their biggest challenges, their partner and friend's reactions, and how it helped transform them into the sensual creatures...
Published 10/13/16
EP 114! In homage to the fall and the change of season, we're talking all about endings and new beginnings, with comedien Lahna Turner.  'A' shares her relationship revelations from a session with a psychic that changed her romantic life, then Lahna gets candid and raw about currently going through a divorce and we get the full  story of how 'Limeade', her new comedic, visual album from the title parady of Beyonce's 'Lemonade' came into being.  Plus, a lively debate over how to handle the...
Published 10/06/16
In this month's episode of Ask T&A, the girls tackle three listener's questions... well, two listeners and one very curious uber driver.  A wife writes in wanting to know how she can get her husband to be more romantic with her, the curious Uber driver is dying to know how to get his wife to be sexual with him again, and one listener in transition wants to try a period of celibacy- but can she do it without leaving her relationship?  All this, a load of laughs and a firey debate between...
Published 09/29/16
Obi and Booda, the esteemed dudes of Dude Panel Radio (also for your viewing pleasure on youtube), hijack this week's episode of T&A Talk Sex and turn the hosts, into the guests.  Hear the gang talk about growing up and getting bullied (and kicking ass), Booda's new revelations on the importance of taking the romance out of falling in love, and an in-depth and hilarious analysis of what each of the host's sex sounds actually mean. 
Published 09/22/16
Still decompressing from their Burning Man 2016 adventures, T&A hop on air to talk all about it aaaannnd of course, T&A happened to land in the hands of two, savvy lovers who gave each of them sexual experiences that will forever change their sex lives.  Hear about T's first ever tantric massage and what quality in a lover she now refuses to go without! Plus, A has the best sex of her life and shares the secret that made her go from completely sexually uninterested, to the best sex of...
Published 09/15/16
While T&A make their way back from Burning Man, listen in on secret archived episode #3 where the girls talk with burlesque performer Mona Bella to take a look at the difference betwwen sexuality and sensuatliy, and what impact they both have on our sexual experiences.  Are you sensual? Sexual? Can you be both? How? and Why? 
Published 09/08/16
In this month's advice episode, listeners Ask T&A - what's going on that's making the sex I have uncomfortable? Can a relationship survive without sex? Plus a listener's thoughts on gentlemanliness, dating and finances
Published 09/01/16
In this lively episode T&A talk with Dave Neal, comedien and host of the podcast, 'Sex Actually' and rest assured when you get three hosts of sex talk podcasts, there's a lot of sharing going on - like how Dave successfully managed to get out of the friend zone with his now girlfriend(!)  Plus T&A take advantage of having a guy in studio and pick Dave's brain on what might be behind some male behaviors that keep popping up that we women just don't get.  Check Dave out @DNealz and be...
Published 08/25/16