“i’ve been listening to john since 2018, i’ve grown into a better person and partner with his insight guiding me. i made a huge life decision to end a long term relationship with my then boyfriend in 2018 because we just weren’t on the same page and john helped me realize that love is not a contract. there are no guarantees. i lived a life of grabbing and no boundaries. i pointed fingers. i had no ability to take accountability for the role i played in expired relationships and didnt know what attachment styles were. my early relationship blueprint came from my parents and i thought that was the holy grail so when i found partners that didnt fit that mold i forced and manipulated and guilt tripped , & i let things slide and abandoned myself bc to me love was unconditional and somewhere along the way i learned love meant saving others at the expense of yourself. John helped me realize i had some deep work to do, & so did my partner and we needed to part ways and grow. in 2020, i introduced my (ex) partner to Angry, & we worked our way back to center using johns tools & our personal recovery work with therapists etc. to be better for ourselves and eachother. while we form our own opinions and implement it in the ways that work for us, we consider what John says pretty heavily. communication, loving without our past, swimming past the breakers, getting out of our heads and into our bodies, choosing one another daily.. it’s helped to where we are now.. life partners choosing to do life with one another not around, who also happen to be married now. i tell everyone about the angry therapist. john, you dont know me, but you have changed my life and i am forever a loyal listener. thank you for your work.”
Xteenyb0ps via Apple Podcasts ·
United States of America ·
03/19/23