Episodes
In this empowering installment, join Shane as we explore the transformative journey of discovering How to Become Attracted to Healthy, Secure, and Consistent Men After a Dramatic Dating History. Whether you've experienced heartbreak, inconsistency, or uncertainty in your romantic past, this episode is your guide to breaking old patterns and fostering a deep, conscious connection with partners who embody stability and emotional security. Tune in for expert advice, personal anecdotes, and...
Published 11/28/23
Grab your FREE TICKET to the Healthy Love Show here!   I am thrilled to extend a heartfelt invitation to The Healthy Love Show: How to Get Ready Emotionally, Physically, & Spiritually for Juicy, Connected Love, where I'll be joining a panel of over 30 esteemed experts for an enriching journey toward fostering deeper, more fulfilling relationships. Throughout the 5-day summit, you'll gain exclusive access to renowned experts in the field, including distinguished names like Ken Page and...
Published 11/21/23
In this thought-provoking episode of the Conscious Love Show, delve into the profound exploration of "How the Things We Avoid Become the Ceiling on What's Possible for Us."  This episode unravels the intricate dynamics of our subconscious choices and the impact they have on our personal growth and fulfillment. Discover the hidden barriers that often arise from avoidance and learn how these unaddressed aspects of our lives can inadvertently set limits on our potential. In this episode, Shane...
Published 11/14/23
In this week's episode, we embark on a journey of understanding the profound support that the universe offers us in our quest for conscious, loving relationships. Join us as we delve into the spiritual aspects of connection, trust, and surrender, and learn practical tools to tap into this boundless support. Discover how aligning with the universe's energy can lead to deeper, more fulfilling relationships and a profound sense of purpose. And how you are always supported in creating what you...
Published 11/07/23
In this powerful episode, we delve deep into the art of resilience and maintaining an open heart, even in the most challenging circumstances. Join us as we explore practical strategies, heart-centered practices, and inspiring stories that will empower you to navigate life's darkest moments with grace and love. Discover how to find light in the midst of darkness and cultivate a spirit that not only survives but thrives. Tune in for an episode that will touch your soul and leave you with a...
Published 10/31/23
How does one truly find love in this crazy world?   Many people have answered this question with different methods and strategies and if you've tried them, they've likely failed you time and again. Because this question isn't strategic, it's spiritual.   In this episode, I'm addressing this question from a spiritual perspective, honoring the truth of who we are and our true creative ability.  It's not for the feint of heart, but if you have an open mind, this episode might change your life...
Published 10/24/23
In this INTERVIEW with life coach Lindsey Marie Barber, she shares her take on men after years of working with them intimately. If you want the inside scoop on any of the topics below, then you won’t want to miss this … What do men really WANT? What are men hesitant about or fearful toward in relationships? The real reason why men GHOST! What challenges do men face in communicating? How are men just like women in their deepest DESIRES? How are the stories you tell about men blocking you from...
Published 10/17/23
Wondering where all the good men are?  I have the answer.  After coaching women for the greater part of the last decade, I can't tell you how many times I've heard the phrase, "There are no good men out there!"  And yet, just last week I was at the wedding of a great man, who at 35 years old is committing his life to the woman of his dreams and they are building a home and family together.  So the fact remains that good men are out there, they just seem to be hard to find.  So where are they...
Published 10/10/23
We've all been there, devastated by the loss of someone we love and finding it impossible to see a future without them.  Some of us have been stuck in this for more than a decade and in truth, there are some people who never recover from it.  But others are able to move through it quite quickly and even come out better on the other side of it.  In truth there are two ways of going through this and while neither of them are particularly fun, one leads to a bright future with more love in it...
Published 10/03/23
You are WORTHY! You are worthy of the juiciest life and love that you can imagine and then some! Today's episode is a reminder of that for you.  This episode is all about revealing the most critical prerequisite to manifesting your deepest, most heartfelt desires. You can have them. You deserve them. In this episode, let me show you how!  Enjoy 3 
Published 09/26/23
What if you could feel completely at ease, comfortable, and safe inside your own body no matter what was going on around you? What if you had a way of showing up to all your life circumstances feeling confident in yourself, great about who you are, and optimistic about what is possible? That's what I'm offering in today's episode.  It's a practice I've been deeply working with for the last year that has completely changed my life.  This has allowed me to take on new levels of relationship,...
Published 09/19/23
Nobody likes change...  Is that the truth?  Or is it a limiting perception we've developed based on fear?  Things that change in our lives are always changing for the better but our limited perspectives don't always allow us to see that.  Often, we fear the very thing that is bringing us everything our heart's desire and we do everything we can to stop it from happening. In this episode, I 'll share how you can work with change to navigate the flows of life and allow them to bring you to...
Published 09/12/23
To answer some of my most asked questions, I'm doing a deep dive on what happens for men and why they suddenly seem to lose interest, disappear, and ghost without a word. Bringing back one of my most popular episodes from several months ago, we explore the process of a man's development to undo his toxic, non-committal programming and become ready for conscious love.  A must listen.  Enjoy 3     
Published 09/05/23
The confusion stops HERE! Join me as I interview relationship and personal development coach, Ismael Gomez III as we unveil clarity around the many things men say that confuse women!!! Ismael has a number of years of experience and between the two of us, and being men ourselves, we've heard and/or experienced it all.  You'll get a better understanding of why men DO and SAY the things that they do. This will help you to understand where your partner is really at in your relationship, what men...
Published 08/29/23
When is it time to have "the talk"?  How do you know where this relationship is going or when you will get there?  What is a realistic timeline to expect to move into deeper levels of commitment with someone and how do you know if this relationship is actually going there or not?  These are the questions I'm answering in today's podcast.  As we discuss the natural timeline along which a conscious relationship unfolds, you'll be able to identify which stage you are in if you're currently...
Published 08/22/23
We've all done it.  We meet someone, we like them, we get attached, we start dreaming, we start trying to make them ours, and we do all this before we even truly know if we want them or not.  When we struggle being alone and feel a scarcity around the potential for love, we respond to that by having unrealistic expectations for ourselves, others, and relationships as a whole.  This causes us to act out in desperate or unattractive ways and ultimately destroy the opportunities of love that do...
Published 08/15/23
Do you hate men?  Or if you're a man, do you hate women?   Your answer may be an immediate yes or no but in my experience, this conversation is much more nuanced than that just that immediate answer.  We've all had so many experiences with the opposite sex, beginning with our parents and continuing throughout all of our relationships in adolescence and adulthood.  And the truth is, whether you recognize it or not, you've probably built up some resistance and resentment against them and in the...
Published 08/08/23
In today's episode, I'm breaking down the 3 types of men you will encounter in the dating world.  Of these 3, only one shows real potential for a conscious relationship while the other two will only lead to disappointment and frustration.  In this episode, I'm sharing who these guys are, why they are the way they are, and what to do when you meet one of them.  Enjoy!  
Published 08/01/23
The term narcissist is something that we hear a lot and it is usually involving a great deal of pain.  The narcissist has become the boogeyman in the modern dating world and is often used as a catch all phrase to describe someone with inconsiderate, harmful, or abusive behavior but what is a narcissist really?  Where does narcissism come from?  And why is it so pervasive in our culture?  These are the questions this episode of the conscious love show seeks to offer.  Through this episode, you...
Published 07/25/23
Manifestation is not about what you do, it is about who you are. But in a world that is moving at a fast pace and constantly pressing us to move faster, most of us are so busy doing things that we're not even connected to who we are.  This makes love impossible. In today's episode, I'm breaking down the spiritual process to manifest love.  This process doesn't require dating apps or proving yourself to people who don't respect you.  It's simple, relatively easy, and your only opponent in this...
Published 07/18/23
The 3 Secrets to Manifesting Authentic Love | FREE WORKSHOP! This Saturday, 7/15 at 12 PM ET | Click Here to grab your Free Ticket now :)     This episode is about magic!  There is something truly magical that happens when you stop relating to others from a place of better than or less than and you begin to see yourself and everyone as equals.  I know this sounds incredibly simplistic and you probably think you already do this but I promise when you listen to this podcast, you will be...
Published 07/11/23
When it comes to love, money, or anything else, there are really only two approaches to  getting what we want from life.  One is to try to take it through force or manipulation and the other is to give so much of yourself to life that life returns the energy you've invested tenfold.  Most people live in a force/manipulation model and, in this episode, I'm going to share why that is and where that ultimately leads.  When we step into giving ourselves fully and completely to life, we can...
Published 07/04/23
The desire to love and be loved is one of the most universal human experiences and, at it's core, it is a very good thing.  But in our chaotic world, where so many of us struggle with worthiness, and we carry these heavy wounds from our past, this pure and beautiful desire has been distorted into a craving that reinforces our lack of worth and disconnects us from love rather than bringing us closer to it.  We imagine that the right person will make everything better but this is a trick of the...
Published 06/27/23
Whenever I have a client or a program graduate who is highly successful in their life and love, I always like to ask what it was that made the difference for them. I always want to find out, what was the actual shift that you needed to have to experience the results you've created?  And over the years, I've noticed a very clear pattern.  In fact, every single one of them give me some variation of the same answer and I know exactly what that answer is because it's the same thing that happened...
Published 06/20/23
Trauma goes deeper than most people think.  Because even if you came from a good home and a good family, you were born into a traumatic world.  We've inherited a world of trauma, a world with a history steeped in war, conflict, and survival of the fittest and when we experienced this world as helpless, innocent children, it was deeply hurtful to us and we built big walls of protection around ourselves. Modern dating culture is a side effect of this generational trauma and what we experience...
Published 06/13/23