Why do we get so swept up by charm and chemistry, only to find ourselves in relationships that lack true emotional depth? In this episode of The Conscious Love Show, we explore the magnetic pull of initial attraction and why it often leads us into patterns with emotionally unavailable partners. You’ll learn what emotional availability really looks like, why we unconsciously gravitate toward avoidance or inconsistency, and how to break the cycle. Together, we’ll uncover the deeper connection...

How do you show genuine interest in someone without feeling like you’re giving away all your power? In this episode of The Conscious Love Show, we explore the delicate balance between authenticity and maintaining confidence in dating. You’ll learn how to express your enthusiasm and stay true to your nature while setting healthy boundaries that keep you grounded and respected. We’ll debunk the myths about “playing hard to get” and the idea that men only “like to hunt,” offering practical...

Conscious Relationships are about being a space for two people to grow together but what rate of growth is truly acceptable?  When someone says they want to change and become better but the change doesn't seem to be happening very quickly, how much time and space should we really give? What kinds of things should we tolerate and what other things are truly deal breakers? This is such a confusing dynamic, especially when it's clouded by strong feelings for someone and a sincere desire to see...

Click here to grab your spot in the 7 Day Conscious Love Challenge   It can be so confusing when the fire that had effortlessly pulled us together in the beginning starts to fade and the relationship no longer feels the same anymore. When our partner no longer shows the attentiveness and affection that they did in the beginning and the love that made the relationship worth it in the first place feels like it's dying and no matter what we do, we can't seem to get it back.  At this point, we...

Click here to get the details for The 7 Day Conscious Love Challenge   If you’re feeling exhausted by the idea of starting over, navigating the dating pool, or investing in relationships only to face uncertainty or pain, you’re not alone. In this episode, we explore how romantic setbacks can leave you questioning whether it’s worth it and offer practical insights on how to stay open to love without compromising your healing or peace of mind. Join me as we discuss strategies for overcoming...

In this powerful episode of The Conscious Love Show, we dive deep into the journey of healing after heartbreak. Whether you’re reeling from a recent breakup or still processing old wounds, this conversation offers insight into how to move through the pain and emerge even stronger. Shane Kohler explores the emotional process of letting go, the hidden growth opportunities within heartbreak, and the essential steps to build a more secure, empowered sense of self. You’ll learn how heartbreak can...

Click here to learn more about my 8-Week Inspired Love Program beginning on October 15th.    In this powerful episode of The Conscious Love Show, we’re diving deep into a topic that touches so many women on a personal level—healing the wounds created by the unhealthy masculine. Throughout history and personal experience, women have often been left carrying emotional scars from unhealthy masculine energy, whether it stems from family, romantic relationships, or societal conditioning. While...

Learn more about my Inspired Love 8 Week Process, beginning October 15th here.   In this episode we explore the attributes that define a woman who is deeply attuned to her personal growth, emotional intelligence, and authentic self-expression. Drawing from universal spiritual principles and  practical experience, we outline the key characteristics that enable a woman to cultivate meaningful connections and embody true love. From self-awareness and vulnerability to emotional resilience and...

Click here to register for The Conscious Love Challenge beginning on October 2nd   Click here to join my 8-Week Inspired Love Intensive beginning October 15th    Let's dive deep into the essential qualities that define a conscious man. In this episode, we explore the attributes that empower men to build authentic connections, embrace vulnerability, and foster healthy relationships.  We're clearly defining the qualities that not only enhance personal growth but also contribute to more...

Click here to learn more about the 8-Week Inspired Love Program starting on October 15th.   In this episode, we dive deep into the emotional wounds that shape our need to be chosen in relationships. Whether it’s from childhood abandonment, rejection, or feeling unworthy, many of us carry unresolved pain that drives us to seek validation through being selected by a partner. This unconscious desire to be chosen often leads to unhealthy dynamics, where we sacrifice our needs or stay in...

Click here to learn more about my Inspired Love 8 Week Program beginning on October 15th   Most women say they want to experience a strong masculine presence from their man and most men say they want to experience the warm, gentle feminine presence from their woman, yet we struggle so much to receive this from each other.  In dating, many women feel that it's almost impossible to have men step up and bring the strength and security they seek from the masculine while men feel that women are...

Most of us want more from our lives and relationships.  We want to experience more magic, passion, and vitality.   And while we are craving for more, we are often living in a state of mind and body that feels jaded, heavy, disconnected and alone. The pain that we've experienced in the past paints a bleak picture of the future and while, on some level, we hope to have a life that reflects our dreams one day, filled with passionate love and deep connection, that vision often feels far away and...

This episode invites you to explore the profound difference between love that is authentically expressed and the fear-based behaviors that often masquerade as love in relationships. We dive deep into what genuine love looks like—how it nurtures, heals, and strengthens the bonds between partners. Conversely, we examine the manipulative tactics and survival strategies that arise from fear and insecurity, leading to power struggles and disconnection. This episode is a journey toward...

Click here to join the 7 Day Conscious Love Challenge Click here to apply for Private Coaching with Shane   If you've experienced patterns of unfulfilling love in your life, this episode will offer you some important insight.  When we are looking for love, we are often tuning into subtle cues that reflect our past pain.  Believe it or not, this is often what generates our attraction to people. Sometimes, we are not seeking fulfilling love but rather we are seeking someone with whom we can...

Click here to join the 7 Day Conscious Love Challenge for FREE!    If you've been feeling like there aren't a lot of commitment-ready men out there, I hear you. Men crave connection and they want commitment just as much as women do but they have a very different process of getting there.  While women have often been encouraged to seek relationship and commitment from a very young age, men have often been encouraged to do the exact opposite and when they've expressed their sensitivity and need...

Understanding polarity is a profound conversation that gives us insight into attraction, sexuality, intimacy, and how relationships can develop in healthy ways and also toxic ways. The polarity of masculine and feminine energy is at the core of how we relate with each other, it drives our attractions, it informs our highest actions and also our lowest impulses.  I hope you enjoy this episode and that it helps you understand how to attract the ideal partnership you're seeking, deepen the...

Click here to book your discovery call for Inspired Love   Feminine power is an uncomfortable thing in our world.  Women are afraid to use it because of the intense backlash they get when they do and men are afraid to experience it because it shines a light on their unconscious insecurities.  Yet, conscious love can only be experienced in a relationship where the feminine power is expressed and honored by both partners.  This means there is healing that needs to happen for both men and...

Click here to book your discovery call for Inspired Love   Connection is a fundamental human need and we are in a crisis of it!  Most of us struggle to feel deeply connected and most of our relationships are surface level and don't meet our deepest needs.  In dating, we struggle to bridge the gap and feel genuinely connected to the people we date and many of us in long term relationships feel completely disconnected from our partners.  We struggle to feel seen, heard, understood and truly...

Join the 7 Day Conscious Love Challenge here!    Book your free discovery call for Inspired Love here.   Struggling with anxious attachment?  We've got you covered.     I had the pleasure of interviewing the amazing Laura Bifolchi as she shares her journey of healing anxious attachment and attracting secure love with a wonderful man who is all in!    From a life of compromising boundaries, people pleasing, and worrying about being chosen by someone, to maintaining high standards, clear...

Book Your Discovery Call for Inspired Love here.   What is a conscious relationship and what makes it different from any other relationship?   Today is Fatima and I's four year wedding anniversary, going on 8 years together, and we've learned a lot about this topic through our various adventures and challenges!  In this episode, I'm sharing our story of creating and sustaining the conscious love we have today.  The good, the bad and the ugly!  Whether you are single or in a relationship, your...

Click here to book your Free Intro Call for Inspired Love    Most of us don't realize how much power we actually have to move a relationship in the direction we want it to go!    When a relationship isn't meeting our needs, many of us are likely to play manipulative games, withhold love, fawn and pander, some of us even going so far as to lie, cheat, or end the relationship altogether simply because we don't know how to communicate in a way that will motivate our partner to step up for...

Click here to book your Free Intro Call for Inspired Love    Do you want the man you're dating to plan better dates and show more initiative to move the relationship forward?  Would you like men on dating apps to take action and ask you out or follow up more often?  Would you like to get approached more in the real world, make connections at the gym or at your favorite coffee shop?    If you're looking for a simple way to motivate men to take action with you, this episode has the...

Click here to book your Free Intro Call for Inspired Love  What makes the difference between good sex and Great sex?  This episode is all about that.  I've found, in my many years doing relationship and intimacy work, that most people, both single and in long term relationships are missing out on so much in their sex lives.  Single people often feel disillusioned by their sexual experiences, feeling they are short lived and many times not even that good to begin with while married couples...

Click here to book your Free Intro Call for Inspired Love    Every so often I like to include a magical story of transformation and conscious love on the show, this is one of those episodes.   In this week's episode, I interview Stephanie Menezes, a friend and graduate of The Inspired Love Program as she shares her journey to the conscious partnership she's created with her incredible man, Patrick.     Speaking into all of the ups and downs along the way, she highlights important lessons she...