Episodes
Embracing God's transformative power is not just a matter of religious devotion; it is a lifeline for fathers in the midst of divorce's tumult. It is an invitation to surrender our burdens, our fears, and our uncertainties to the One who holds the universe in His hands. And in embracing this invitation, fathers find not just survival, but true and lasting flourishing, as we journey through divorce and emerge on the other side, renewed, restored, and deeply rooted in the love and grace of God....
Published 05/13/24
Clinical psychologist and author of The Tactical Guide To Woman: How Men Can Manage Risk In Dating And Marriage, Dr. Shawn T. Smith joins the show. We discuss the false narrative of "toxic" masculinity and how divorced fathers can learn from the end of their marriage and not make the same mistakes in the future.Join The Divorce Dadvocate Membership Community - FULL Episodes - Live Meetings – FREE Workshops & Courses – Private Discussion Groups & MORE! - https://thedivorceddadvocate.co...
Published 05/06/24
Divorce is often described as one of life's most stressful events, and for fathers navigating separation, the journey can be particularly challenging. Amidst legal battles, emotional upheaval, and the complexities of co-parenting, there's an additional hurdle: therapy. In recent times, therapy has increasingly become a battleground against divorcing fathers, perpetuating stereotypes and complicating their path towards healing. Let's delve into how therapy can inadvertently become a weapon, ta...
Published 04/29/24
As a divorced dad, navigating the aftermath of a failed marriage can feel like traversing uncharted waters. Yet, amidst the challenges and heartaches lies an invaluable opportunity for growth and self-reflection. One of the most crucial aspects of this journey is understanding your role in the relational dynamics that led to the breakdown of your marriage. By acknowledging and learning from these dynamics, you pave the way for healthier co-parenting and personal growth. Here are ten key point...
Published 04/22/24
Divorce can be a tumultuous journey, especially for fathers who were once co-dependent in their marriages. The aftermath often leaves them grappling with a sense of identity, particularly if they were accustomed to being the "nice guy" who prioritized their partner's needs over their own. However, post-divorce life offers an opportunity for growth and self-discovery. It's a chance to break free from old patterns and embrace a healthier, more empowered way of living. In this guide, we'll...
Published 04/15/24
Divorce is often a tumultuous time for families, especially when children are involved. While both parents may strive to prioritize the well-being of their children, sometimes dynamics can become strained, leading to one parent feeling alienated from their child. Unfortunately, it's not uncommon for mothers to inadvertently or intentionally alienate their children from their fathers during divorce proceedings. Here are the top 10 ways this can happen: Join The Divorce Dadvocate Membership...
Published 04/08/24
Divorce, with its seismic impact, fractures the bedrock of familial unity, leaving behind a landscape strewn with the debris of dashed dreams and shattered aspirations. For fathers, tasked with navigating these tempestuous waters, the journey through divorce can resemble a Herculean odyssey, fraught with the weight of grief, guilt, and relentless uncertainty. Yet, amidst the crucible of anguish and upheaval, lies an unexpected crucible of transformation – a beacon of redemption beckoning...
Published 04/01/24
Clinical neuroscientist, inspirational speaker, best-selling author, and international coach, Dr. Ali Lankerani, affectionately known as Dr. L, The Parent Whisperer, joins Jude to talk about his mission to support, inspire, and empower as many people as possible to step into their thrive and leave a legacy. Tune in and learn his 4 steps for accomplishing this. Join The Divorce Dadvocate Membership Community - FULL Episodes - Live Meetings – FREE Workshops & Courses – Private Discussion...
Published 03/25/24
Divorce can be tough, especially when it comes to managing finances and maintaining a sense of normalcy for your children. But just because money might be tight doesn't mean you can't create unforgettable memories with your kids. With a little creativity and planning, divorced dads can still enjoy quality time with their children through budget-friendly vacations. Here are some inexpensive alternatives that promise adventure without breaking the bank. Join The Divorce Dadvocate Membership...
Published 03/20/24
Divorce proceedings can be emotionally and legally complex, especially when children are involved. For dads navigating the divorce process, effective communication and preparation with your attorney are crucial for achieving the best outcome. Listen in to learn some essential tips to help you prepare your attorney for trial. Join The Divorce Dadvocate Membership Community - FULL Episodes - Live Meetings – FREE Workshops & Courses – Private Discussion Groups & MORE! -...
Published 03/11/24
Divorce can be a devastating and emotionally challenging experience for anyone involved, and for fathers, the shock of being served divorce papers can feel particularly overwhelming. Suddenly, your world may seem to be turned upside down, leaving you feeling lost and uncertain about the future. While there's no denying that this is a difficult time, there are steps you can take to mitigate the shock and begin to navigate the process of divorce with resilience and strength. Join The Divorce...
Published 03/04/24
 In the journey of parenthood, fathers often play a pivotal but sometimes overlooked role. While the spotlight often shines on maternal care, the influence of fathers on their children's lives is equally significant. Research over the years has underscored the unique contributions fathers make to their children's well-being and development. Here are 10 reminders that highlight just how important you, as a father, truly are. Join The Divorce Dadvocate Membership Community - FULL Episodes -...
Published 02/26/24
Divorce is a challenging journey, especially when it comes to navigating the complex issues of asset separation, parenting arrangements, and household responsibilities. For dads going through this process, it's crucial to protect themselves and their interests while also prioritizing their well-being and maintaining a healthy environment, particularly if still living under the same roof. In this episode, we'll discuss practical strategies for dads to safeguard their rights and mitigate...
Published 02/19/24
What is Post Betrayal Syndrome? Listen in as Dr. Debi Silber the founder of the Post Betrayal Transformation Institute, holistic psychologist, author, and health, mindset and personal development expert joins the show to explain. She shares the 5 stages we'll go through in order to fully heal from betrayal. Join The Divorce Dadvocate Membership Community - FULL Episodes - Live Meetings – FREE Workshops & Courses – Private Discussion Groups & MORE! -...
Published 02/12/24
Divorce is undoubtedly one of life's most challenging experiences, often leaving individuals grappling with feelings of loneliness and uncertainty about the future. However, amidst the pain and emotional turmoil, there lies an opportunity for personal growth and self-discovery. In this episode, we'll explore ten practical ways to combat loneliness and rebuild yourself during a divorce Join The Divorce Dadvocate Membership Community - FULL Episodes - Live Meetings – FREE Workshops &...
Published 02/05/24
Hear an inspiring message from Shawn Reinsel who shares his divorce experience and how through it he was able to find a new way of relating to God that's rooted and grounded in His abundant, life-giving grace. Join The Divorce Dadvocate Membership Community - FULL Episodes - Live Meetings – FREE Workshops & Courses – Private Discussion Groups & MORE! - https://thedivorceddadvocate.com/membership-tiers/ How Are You Adjusting To Your Divorce? Find out in this quiz -...
Published 01/29/24
Jude joins Kirk and Jason on The Mad Men of Masculinity Show and discusses fathering through divorce. Join The Divorce Dadvocate Membership Community - FULL Episodes - Live Meetings – FREE Workshops & Courses – Private Discussion Groups & MORE! - https://thedivorceddadvocate.com/membership-tiers/ How Are You Adjusting To Your Divorce? Find out in this quiz - http://www.thedivorceddadvocate.com/divorce-quiz.html *FREE Dads Guide To Divorce* How to survive and thrive during and after...
Published 01/22/24
Are you a nice guy? If so, you are probably codependent. In this episode Jude defines codependency, gives examples, and shares tips for how to stop being codependent. Alicia Munoz's Article - How Do You Overcome Codependency? A Therapist's Guide - https://us02web.zoom.us/j/3104353333#success No More Mr. Nice Guy - Dr. Robert Glover - https://tinyurl.com/5995594v Join The Divorce Dadvocate Membership Community - FULL Episodes - Live Meetings – FREE Workshops & Courses – Private...
Published 01/15/24
Going through a divorce is undoubtedly one of life's toughest challenges, and for dads navigating this difficult terrain, the importance of community cannot be overstated. Instead of self-isolating during divorce, it's crucial for divorced or divorcing dads to surround themselves with a supportive community. In this episode, we'll explore 10 reasons why building and maintaining connections during this tumultuous time is not just beneficial for fathers but also for their children. We'll...
Published 01/08/24
As the clock strikes midnight and we bid farewell to the old year, it's time for divorced dads to embrace a new chapter in their lives. The journey post-divorce can be challenging, but the start of a new year offers a perfect opportunity for self-reflection and personal growth. Here are 10 empowering New Year's resolutions tailored for divorced dads, aimed at fostering a positive and fulfilling year ahead. Join The Divorce Dadvocate Membership Community - FULL Episodes - Live Meetings – FREE...
Published 01/02/24
The holidays can be a beautiful time of the year, but they can also be challenging when boundaries are being overstepped by friends and family members. Listen in and learn some tips for setting healthy boundaries with friends and family during the holidays. Join The Divorce Dadvocate Membership Community - FULL Episodes - Live Meetings – FREE Workshops & Courses – Private Discussion Groups & MORE! - https://thedivorceddadvocate.com/membership-tiers/ How Are You Adjusting To Your...
Published 12/25/23
In this episode, we'll explore practical ways divorced or divorcing dads can discipline their children authoritatively using the principles of Love and Logic. This approach emphasizes setting clear boundaries with empathy and love, allowing children to learn from their mistakes, in stark contrast to the harsh and rigid authoritarian style. Let's delve into how Love and Logic can be a game-changer, promoting a healthy and balanced environment for your children amid the challenges of...
Published 12/18/23
The end of a marriage is a profound life event that ripples through various aspects of one's existence, not sparing even the social fabric woven through friendships. Unfortunately, these connections are not impervious to the seismic shifts brought about by divorce. In the wake of this transformative experience, friendships may encounter strain, and in some instances, reach a point of dissolution. Let's dive into the reasons behind these challenges, accompanied by some eye-opening...
Published 12/12/23
Fathers, often unsung heroes in the narrative of child development, play a pivotal role in shaping the health and well-being of their offspring. Scientific studies provide robust evidence that highlights the profound impact fathers have on the journey to healthy adulthood. Let's explore 10 reasons, each rooted in concrete statistics from reputable studies, that underscore the crucial role dads play, complemented by real-world examples that breathe life into the numbers. Join The Divorce...
Published 12/04/23