Episodes
The holidays can be a beautiful time of the year, but they can also be challenging when boundaries are being overstepped by friends and family members. Listen in and learn some tips for setting healthy boundaries with friends and family during the holidays. Join The Divorce Dadvocate Membership Community - FULL Episodes - Live Meetings – FREE Workshops & Courses – Private Discussion Groups & MORE! - https://thedivorceddadvocate.com/membership-tiers/ How Are You Adjusting To Your...
Published 12/25/23
In this episode, we'll explore practical ways divorced or divorcing dads can discipline their children authoritatively using the principles of Love and Logic. This approach emphasizes setting clear boundaries with empathy and love, allowing children to learn from their mistakes, in stark contrast to the harsh and rigid authoritarian style. Let's delve into how Love and Logic can be a game-changer, promoting a healthy and balanced environment for your children amid the challenges of...
Published 12/18/23
The end of a marriage is a profound life event that ripples through various aspects of one's existence, not sparing even the social fabric woven through friendships. Unfortunately, these connections are not impervious to the seismic shifts brought about by divorce. In the wake of this transformative experience, friendships may encounter strain, and in some instances, reach a point of dissolution. Let's dive into the reasons behind these challenges, accompanied by some eye-opening...
Published 12/12/23
Fathers, often unsung heroes in the narrative of child development, play a pivotal role in shaping the health and well-being of their offspring. Scientific studies provide robust evidence that highlights the profound impact fathers have on the journey to healthy adulthood. Let's explore 10 reasons, each rooted in concrete statistics from reputable studies, that underscore the crucial role dads play, complemented by real-world examples that breathe life into the numbers. Join The Divorce...
Published 12/04/23
Divorce is a roller coaster ride that nobody really wants a ticket for, but life happens, and here you are, a dad on the wild journey of splitting assets and emotions. While it might seem like a never-ending tunnel of paperwork and negotiations, there's room for humor along the way. So, buckle up, fellow dads, as we explore the hilarious milestones you'll encounter on this bumpy ride through divorce! Join The Divorce Dadvocate Membership Community - FULL Episodes - Live Meetings – FREE...
Published 11/27/23
Preparing for divorce mediation is important. Listen in to hear the ultimate list of steps you need to take to prepare for divorce mediation. Join The Divorce Dadvocate Membership Community - FULL Episodes - Live Meetings – FREE Workshops & Courses – Private Discussion Groups & MORE! - https://thedivorceddadvocate.com/membership-tiers/ How Are You Adjusting To Your Divorce? Find out in this quiz - http://www.thedivorceddadvocate.com/divorce-quiz.html *FREE Dads Guide To Divorce* How...
Published 11/20/23
As you successfully adjust to the crisis of divorce you will feel better about yourself. Jude discusses that you were born with 50% of your self-worth and the other 50% you learned growing up. Tune in to learn 11 steps to an improved self-worth. Join The Divorce Dadvocate Membership Community - FULL Episodes - Live Meetings – FREE Workshops & Courses – Private Discussion Groups & MORE! - https://thedivorceddadvocate.com/membership-tiers/ How Are You Adjusting To Your Divorce? Find...
Published 11/13/23
A narcissistic smear campaign is a narcissistic manipulation tactic used to harm a person’s reputation and isolate them from their support network. This is a common behavior for those with narcissistic personality disorder (NPD) when they realize they have lost control over a person and often happens at the conclusion of a relationship. Listen in and learn their tactics and how to deal with them. (Source: choosingtherapy.com by Kaytlyn Gillis) Join The Divorce Dadvocate Membership Community -...
Published 11/06/23
Love and Logic is a process by which children grow through their mistakes and learn from the consequences of their choices. Listen in and learn the 2 basic rules and 8 skills of Love and Logic parenting. Join The Divorce Dadvocate Membership Community - FULL Episodes - Live Meetings – FREE Workshops & Courses – Private Discussion Groups & MORE! - https://thedivorceddadvocate.com/membership-tiers/ How Are You Adjusting To Your Divorce? Find out in this quiz -...
Published 10/30/23
While I understand discussing the end of a marriage is awkward for some people, there’s a right and wrong way to address the situation. In my experience, here are some questions that should never come out of your mouth when talking to a newly separated or divorced dad. Join The Divorce Dadvocate Membership Community - FULL Episodes - Live Meetings – FREE Workshops & Courses – Private Discussion Groups & MORE! - https://thedivorceddadvocate.com/membership-tiers/ How Are You Adjusting...
Published 10/23/23
The success of a co-parenting arrangement hinges on the ability of parents to exhibit mutual respect with one another. Children “learn what they live,” and if they witness both parents collaborating in healthy ways, even while living apart, this can have a lasting influence on their ability to manage their own relationships. Listen in to learn the benefits and how to set healthy co-parenting boundaries. Join The Divorce Dadvocate Membership Community - FULL Episodes - Live Meetings – FREE...
Published 10/16/23
When parents cannot agree on the terms of child custody or how decisions will be made regarding the parties’ children, hiring a parenting coordinator may be a good idea. However, there are pros and cons to a parenting coordinator. Listen in as Jude shares the benefits and potential drawbacks of hiring or appointing a parenting coordinator. Join The Divorce Dadvocate Membership Community - FULL Episodes - Live Meetings – FREE Workshops & Courses – Private Discussion Groups & MORE! -...
Published 10/09/23
Boys and men today are facing a crisis of masculinity. To solve this crisis, positive examples are needed. Listen in as Jude shares how you can be this positive example even while you are experiencing the challenge of divorce. Join The Divorce Dadvocate Membership Community - FULL Episodes - Live Meetings – FREE Workshops & Courses – Private Discussion Groups & MORE! - https://thedivorceddadvocate.com/membership-tiers/ How Are You Adjusting To Your Divorce? Find out in this quiz -...
Published 10/02/23
Divorce is stressful. Stress can lead to anxiety and sadness or depression. It is critical that you are able to manage this during your divorce so that you are capable of making smart decisions that will impact you and your children's lives for years to come. Listen in to learn 7 ways to manage sadness & anxiety during your divorce. Join The Divorce Dadvocate Membership Community - FULL Episodes - Live Meetings – FREE Workshops & Courses – Private Discussion Groups & MORE! -...
Published 09/25/23
Listen in as Jude is joined by spiritual therapist and author Wendy Watson who shares details about her book Verbal Turbulence: The 70/20/10 Rule and how to identify the messages we are supposed to be in tune with and what to do with them. Wendy's website - http://TBRSpiritualHealth.com Join The Divorce Dadvocate Membership Community - FULL Episodes - Live Meetings – FREE Workshops & Courses – Private Discussion Groups & MORE! -...
Published 09/18/23
The Stoic philosophy finds its origins in the ancient wisdom of Epictetus, Seneca, and Marcus Aurelius. The philosophy offers a path to which one can always return to overcome the challenges of life like divorce. Listen as Jude shares this philosophy to developing perseverance, build your mental strength and discover your purpose. Join The Divorce Dadvocate Membership Community - FULL Episodes - Live Meetings – FREE Workshops & Courses – Private Discussion Groups & MORE! -...
Published 09/11/23
Dr. Eric Goodman joins the show to share the BANK system for transformational change in understanding and conducting relationships. Listen in as he shares the program that will help strengthen your relationships and communication with your children and others. Dr. Goodman's Links: Claim Your Complimentary Personality Report ($99 value) In Less Than 90 Seconds: https://crackmycode.com/communicate/ I’d invite you to subscribe to my LinkedIn Newsletter, Confidence in Leadership by clicking...
Published 09/04/23
Clinical psychologist and author of The Tactical Guide To Woman: How Men Can Manage Risk In Dating And Marriage, Dr. Shawn T. Smith joins the show. We discuss the false narrative of "toxic" masculinity and how divorced fathers can learn from the end of their marriage and not make the same mistakes in the future. Join The Divorce Dadvocate Membership Community - Live Meetings – FREE Workshops & Courses – Private Discussion Groups & MORE! -...
Published 08/28/23
The authoritative parenting style is an approach to child-rearing that combines warmth, sensitivity, and the setting of limits. The result is kids raised by authoritative parents are more likely to become independent, self-reliant, socially accepted, academically successful, and well-behaved. Listen in to learn why dads are an important part of this parenting style. Join The Divorce Dadvocate Membership Community - Live Meetings – FREE Workshops & Courses – Private Discussion Groups...
Published 08/21/23
When working with fathers entering into divorce or who have recently divorced, there is a 5-step process through which I assist them in identifying and implementing an action plan for their lives. Throughout this Dads' Guide to Divorce series, I will be sharing the specific process with detailed ways in which you can utilized it in order to achieve an amazing life for you and your children. This week's show features Step 1 - Clarifying Your Vision and Direction. In it he gives you a simple...
Published 08/14/23
Gender bias in family law court is real. Listen in to learn what it is, how to spot it and what to do when it rears its ugly head in your divorce. Join The Divorce Dadvocate Membership Community - Live Meetings – FREE Workshops & Courses – Private Discussion Groups & MORE! - https://thedivorceddadvocate.com/membership-tiers/ How Are You Adjusting To Your Divorce? Find out in this quiz - http://www.thedivorceddadvocate.com/divorce-quiz.html *FREE Dads Guide To Divorce* How to...
Published 08/07/23
Are you experiencing divorce from a narcissistic ex? Attempting to co-parent with a narcissistic ex? Duane Robert the founder of DadSurvivingDivorce.com and the DSD podcast joins Jude to talk about how to help men survive a narcissistic divorce. Topics discussed include: What is narcissism? What are signs of a narcissistic ex? Strategies to deal with a narcissistic ex! Join The Divorce Dadvocate Membership Community - Live Meetings – FREE Workshops & Courses – Private Discussion Groups...
Published 07/31/23
Listen in to the semi monthly Divorce Support For Dads group meeting. Topics discussed are authoritarian vs. authoritative parenting, how to adjust to your new living space, guilt about parenting, and more. Join The Divorce Dadvocate Membership Community - Live Meetings – FREE Workshops & Courses – Private Discussion Groups & MORE! - https://thedivorceddadvocate.com/membership-tiers/ How Are You Adjusting To Your Divorce? Find out in this quiz -...
Published 07/24/23
Some father advocates would say that almost every social ill faced by America’s children is related to fatherlessness. Tune in and listen to why it is critical for dads to fight for parenting time with their children and the consequences of not doing so. Join The Divorce Dadvocate Membership Community - Live Meetings – FREE Workshops & Courses – Private Discussion Groups & MORE! - https://thedivorceddadvocate.com/membership-tiers/ How Are You Adjusting To Your Divorce? Find out in...
Published 07/17/23
While a parenting plan should be tailored to match what your family needs in a post-divorce situation the family court will need to see certain pieces in place before accepting your plan. Listen in as Jude shares some common parenting plan components and some pitfalls to avoid. Join The Divorce Dadvocate Membership Community - Live Meetings – FREE Workshops & Courses – Private Discussion Groups & MORE! - https://thedivorceddadvocate.com/membership-tiers/ How Are You Adjusting To...
Published 07/10/23