#032: Here's why it's never too late to jumpstart your sex life and master the BDSM lifestyle. Too many older kinksters worry that they're too late to the game, are discouraged by their age, or think they're too far behind to ever catch up. The truth is age is just a number, and you're never too old to be your best Dom or sub self! Listen in and get ready to keep learning new things and experiencing new adventures, no matter how old you are!– Access the free Resource Library: https://domsubli...

#031: Is age really just a number? Join host Alesandra as she delves into the complexities of age gap relationships within BDSM. This episode uncovers myths, explores challenges, and celebrates the unique benefits of significant age differences in Dom/sub relationships. Key topics include consent legality, power dynamics, and personal anecdotes from Alesandra's life. Tune in and shift your perspective on age gaps in BDSM!– Free BDSM contract: https://domsubliving.com/contract– Show notes and ...

#030: Struggling with your mental health? You're definitely not in this alone. Your host, Alesandra, has been there and is now sharing her raw take on finding balance with help from the world of BDSM. This chat's packed with real talk about coping mechanisms, the power of a structured dynamic, and even how Alesandra found unexpected support with ketamine therapy. It's Mental Health Awareness month, and it's time to shed light on the shadows of mental health in BDSM communities!– Free Kink Per...

Ready to unravel the intricacies of BDSM and discover the profound connection it cultivates? Listen in as Suzii from Just Press Foreplay interviews Alesandra in this raw episode. Unpack the complexities of consent, communication, and care in BDSM. From boundary negotiations to the spiritual intertwining of dominance and submission, Alesandra and Suzii dissect the nuances of power play and the catharsis of kink exploration.– Suzii's Just Press Foreplay podcast: https://justpressforeplay.com– S...

Are you the sub you want to be? Dive into the 4 key pillars that separate a good sub from a great one in this episode. Join host Alesandra to uncover how submissives can better serve their Dominants. This episode is packed with actionable tips for enhancing your submission in relationships. To elevate your submission even more, be sure to grab our "How to Be a Good Sub Cheat Sheet"!– Free "How to Be a Good Sub" Cheat Sheet: https://domsubliving.com/sub– Show notes and more: https://domsublivi...

#027: Ever felt lost in your BDSM journey? Dive deep with Alesandra as she uncovers the red and green flags in seeking a BDSM mentor. From identifying qualities of a credible guide to the transformative power of mentorship, Alesandra offers practical advice on navigating the lifestyle with confidence, and offers options for personalized mentorship. Take control of your journey today! – Access the free Resource Library: https://domsubliving.com/free – Show notes and more:...

#026: Are you curious about joining the kink community? Join Alesandra as she uncovers how to find kinky friends at local munches and dungeons. Discover intimate gathering spots, learn BDSM etiquette, and find out how larger events foster connections. This is your personal invitation to learn how to engage with the BDSM community for ongoing education and connection. – Grab your ticket to the Dom/sub Dynamics Virtual Summit: https://domsubdynamics.com – Show notes and more:...

#025: Ever heard some "foolish" BDSM tips? Let's clear the air! Join host Alesandra as she debunks dangerous advice and delves into the murky waters of BDSM myths. We cover the importance of personal limits, dispel the notion of power imbalance, and reject gatekeeping in kink practices. Listen in and discover why there's no 'one-size-fits-all' in Dom/sub dynamics. – Dom/sub Dynamics Summit: https://domsubdynamics.com – Show notes and more: https://domsubliving.com/025

#024: Ever wondered what BDSM is REALLY like, beyond the dungeon drama? Alesandra's here to spill the tea. She's peeling back the curtains on the nitty-gritty of power play. Think honest chats about trust, tricky emotions, and managing kinks while juggling real life. Jump into this raw conversation about love, leather, and everything in between. Click play and let's get real about BDSM! – Dom/sub Dynamics summit: https://domsubdynamics.com – Show notes and more: https://domsubliving.com/024

#023: Ever wonder if you're a switch in BDSM? Get the juicy details on embracing both dominance and submission! Listen as host Alesandra breaks down the ins and outs of being a switch in the BDSM community, debunks misconceptions, and shares signs that might point to a flair for both dominance and submission. Don't miss out on embracing your personal desires and exploring the kink spectrum.  – Kink Personality Type Quiz: https://domsubliving.com/quiz – Show notes and more:...

#022: Ready to elevate your dominance game? Dive into the 4 key pillars that separate a good Dom from a great one in this episode. Join host Alesandra to uncover how Doms can enhance their relationships. this episode is packed with actionable tips for enhancing your dominance in relationships. To elevate your dominance game even more, be sure to grab our "How to Be a Good Dom Quick Start Guide"! – Free "How to Be a Good Dom" Quickstart Guide: https://domsubliving.com/Dom – Show notes and...

#021: We're diving into the world of Tradwife dynamics in relation to BDSM, as we uncover their similarities and differences. Join host Alesandra and she goes deep into the heart of the Tradwives lifestyle, discussing submission, empowerment, communication, and consent. Discover the appeal of 1950's submissive kink, and the importance of informed and consensual relationships. Whether you're into BDSM, curious about Tradwife dynamics, or simply want to explore empowering Dom/sub relationships,...

#020: Do you struggle with maintaining daily intensity in your BDSM relationship? Join Alesandra as she dives deep into unlocking the secrets of daily consistency in Dom/sub dynamics. As a full-time collared submissive and a mom of two, Alesandra discusses practical tips for integrating BDSM into daily life. Strengthen your Dom/sub relationship and don't miss out on this insightful episode! – Access the free Resource Library: https://domsubliving.com/free – Show notes and more:...

#019: Discover the 5 crucial newbie mistakes in BDSM as host Alesandra reveals her embarrassing but invaluable experiences in this candid episode. Listen in as she walks through her real-life blunders, and bares it all to help fellow enthusiasts avoid these common mistakes. These insights are a must for any newbie (or veteran) in the BDSM scene. – Take the Kink Personality Quiz: https://domsubliving.com/quiz – Show notes and more: https://domsubliving.com/019

#018: Having trouble getting your partner on board with BDSM? Let's figure out how to make it a joint adventure filled with excitement and fulfillment! Your host, Alesandra, dives into the challenges of getting your partner interested in BDSM, highlighting the importance of communication, mutual benefits, and taking it slow. She also emphasizes the need for patience and mutual respect in this journey. Tune in and gain valuable insights for kinksters looking to spice up their relationships. –...

#017: Are you struggling to find a legitimate Dom or sub partner? In this episode, we dive into the secrets of navigating the BDSM dating scene. Alesandra provides guidance on finding a genuine partner, addressing past relationships, creating a wish list, vetting potential partners, and authentically presenting yourself. She also shares more about her best-selling course, 4 Steps to Finally Find Your Perfect Partner course, so you can find your perfect match fast! – 4 Steps to Finally Find...

#016: How did this sub go from a sexless marriage to embracing the BDSM lifestyle? Leann Herron's journey is nothing short of inspiring. Leann is a kink-informed relationship coach, and also a Dom Sub Living student! On this episode she dishes with Alesandra on safe kink exploration, overcoming mindset hurdles, and practical tips for mastering the Dom/sub dynamic. Listen to this intimate interview to delve deeper into Leann's valuable insights and overcome your own struggles on your journey...

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#014: Strengthen your long-distance BDSM relationship with our expert tips! Join host Alesandra as she shares her experience and offers valuable hacks to make your long-distance dynamic a success. She discusses punishments, virtual scenes, and more! Follow along with our free worksheets so you can create your own, personalized LDR action plan. – Grab your free worksheets: https://domsubliving.com/LDR – Show notes and more: https://domsubliving.com/014

#013: Stay ahead of the curve with our latest BDSM insights! As the kink community evolves, what new trends are emerging? Listen as host Alesandra discusses exciting trends in the community and offers valuable predictions for the upcoming year. Staying informed on the evolving trends in BDSM will help you on your journey to becoming the best Dom or sub you can be. – Access the free Resource Library: https://domsubliving.com/free – Show notes and more: https://domsubliving.com/013

#012: Join Alesandra as she reflects on the good, the bad, and the ugly moments of her life, love, and BDSM journey in this candid and emotional episode. Listen as she shares the challenges she and her partner have overcome, including health struggles, relationship dynamics, and the impact of long-distance work commitments. She also opens up about navigating toxic friendships, her commitment to sobriety, and the exciting plans ahead for Dom Sub Living. – Sign up for our newsletter:...

#011: Hop on with Alesandra as she previews the upcoming year for Dom Sub Living. Alesandra, a prominent figure in the BDSM community and the podcast's energetic host, highlights her plans for 2024. She discusses podcast updates, the launch of a new channel, free online events, and the famous Kink Bundle. Subscribe to the podcast and stay updated on all the exciting new developments for 2024! – Sign up for updates from us: https://domsubliving.com/signup – Show notes and more:...

#010: Discover the untold truths and personal experiences of prominent figures in the BDSM community in our groundbreaking roundup episode. Join host Alesandra as she shares her raw, honest insights alongside experienced guests. These real-life kinksters delve into crucial topics, like the need for community, the essence of communication, and dispelling misconceptions. Tune in and absorb the wisdom these amazing guests have to offer. – Grab your free gift: https://domsubliving.com/gift – Show...

#009: Are you struggling with a failing D/s relationship? Tune in as Alesandra delves into the common pitfalls and offers expert advice for reigniting your dynamic. In this episode. Alesandra shines a light on the intricacies of D/s relationships, offering her expertise in mastering and living the BDSM lifestyle. She also addresses the complexities of failing D/s relationships, tackles issues of self-blame, and shares insights on overcoming challenges such as "vanilla" life interference,...