Episodes
#011: Hop on with Alesandra as she previews the upcoming year for Dom Sub Living. Alesandra, a prominent figure in the BDSM community and the podcast's energetic host, highlights her plans for 2024. She discusses podcast updates, the launch of a new channel, free online events, and the famous Kink Bundle. Subscribe to the podcast and stay updated on all the exciting new developments for 2024! – Sign up for updates from us: https://domsubliving.com/signup – Show notes and more:...
Published 12/25/23
#010: Discover the untold truths and personal experiences of prominent figures in the BDSM community in our groundbreaking roundup episode. Join host Alesandra as she shares her raw, honest insights alongside experienced guests. These real-life kinksters delve into crucial topics, like the need for community, the essence of communication, and dispelling misconceptions. Tune in and absorb the wisdom these amazing guests have to offer. – Grab your free gift: https://domsubliving.com/gift – Show...
Published 12/18/23
#009: Are you struggling with a failing D/s relationship? Tune in as Alesandra delves into the common pitfalls and offers expert advice for reigniting your dynamic. In this episode. Alesandra shines a light on the intricacies of D/s relationships, offering her expertise in mastering and living the BDSM lifestyle. She also addresses the complexities of failing D/s relationships, tackles issues of self-blame, and shares insights on overcoming challenges such as "vanilla" life interference,...
Published 12/11/23
#008: Are you ready to take your BDSM relationship to the next level? Join Alesandra as she reveals the crucial steps she and her partner took to establish a 24/7 total power exchange (TPE) dynamic! Alesandra discusses the use of safe words, the importance of a written contract, implementing daily and weekly check-ins, and creating a schedule with specific rituals. She emphasizes the value of open communication and invites you to explore your own desires and roles in D/s relationships. Get...
Published 12/04/23
#007: What happens when a Dom experiences doubt? Join Alesandra and her Dom, Jay, as they delve into the challenges and rewards of being a Dominant. In this episode, Jay shares insights into maintaining consistency as a Dom, managing Dom drop, and building trust in intense scenes. They discuss the importance of open communication and explore the role of discipline in a dynamic. Alesandra and Jay offer practical tips and share personal stories that will resonate with both experienced and...
Published 11/27/23
#006: Discover how to keep your Dom/sub dynamic thriving during the hectic holiday season! In this episode, Alessandra shares tips on creating meaningful traditions and rituals to maintain your D/s dynamic during the busy holiday season. Learn about real-life traditions that she and others do during this time of year to stay kinky. Get inspired and personalize these traditions to make them your own! – Access the free list of D/s Traditions: https://domsubliving.com/traditions – Share your own...
Published 11/20/23
#005: Have you ever felt too nervous to attend a BDSM event? Listen to this episode of Dom Sub Living as host Alesandra shares her personal story and busts common myths about being a part of the BDSM community. Learn how to overcome limiting beliefs and embrace your unique desires in the BDSM lifestyle. Don't let these myths hold you back! – Access the free Resource Library: https://domsubliving.com/free – Show notes and more: https://domsubliving.com/005 
Published 11/13/23
#004: Why is now the best time to start living the BDSM lifestyle? Find out on this episode of Dom Sub Living! Alesandra discusses why now is the perfect time to dive into the world of Dom/sub dynamics and BDSM. She addresses common excuses for delaying and presents three factors that make this the ideal moment to start. Alesandra highlights the increasing acceptance of alternative lifestyles, the accessibility of training and support, and the potential risks you may not have thought about...
Published 11/03/23
#003: On this personal and revealing episode, Alesandra shares her journey from a vanilla relationship to becoming a full-time submissive and BDSM instructor. Alesandra explains the reasons why people venture into BDSM, debunking myths and highlighting the importance of personal growth and self-discovery. Discover the challenges and rewards involved in D/s relationships, and why it's crucial to understand your ‘Why’ in exploring this dynamic. – Grab the free guide:...
Published 10/29/23
#002: Are you ready to unlock the power of BDSM? Dive into this episode of Dom Sub Living and discover how this lifestyle can transform your entire life. Alesandra discusses five compelling reasons why BDSM is necessary and how to incorporate it into your life. From spicing up your love life to exploring desires in a safe environment, each point invites you to discover the multiple benefits of D/s. She also introduces a free kink quiz to help you understand your personal kink identity. –...
Published 10/29/23
#001: Unlock your true potential in the world of BDSM, break free from societal expectations, and embrace the Dom/sub lifestyle! Join your kinky guide, Alesandra, a 10-year veteran of the lifestyle and founder of Dom Sub Living.  In this long-awaited episode, Alesandra shares her journey and highlights what the show is about, who it's for, and the importance of embracing BDSM as a lifestyle. Get ready for personal stories, advice, and tips on becoming the best Dom, sub, or switch you can...
Published 10/29/23