We are backkkkk my friends with Part 2 of Bag… SECURED featuring my bestie Jamie Ruiz. Tune in to hear the rest! In this episode… Modern dating Age differences in romantic relationships Secret relationships Being a girls girl The Miami Heat Dating after divorce Dating with kids Finding peace Ignoring the haters  Quotes “Women should be dating and getting to know multiple people. Dating doesn’t mean sleeping with people or hooking up with everybody. When I say I’m dating, I’m getting to know multiple people and I think that it;s really important to clarify that dating doesn’t mean sleeping with.” - Nikki Spo “It’s not the trauma that the relationship brought you, it's the trauma that led you to that relationship.” - Jamie Ruiz  “Feeling not good enough while growing up transferred into all my romantic relationships for a while.” - Nikki Spo  “I have this theory that if you can take my man, have him. If my man is snatchable, take him. I don’t want that.” - Nikki Spo “Dating since divorce has revealed to me that I still have a huge capacity for love. It did not ruin me.” - Nikki Spo  “There's something so cool about learning yourself and experiencing yourself through new people post divorce.” - Jamie Ruiz “I’m living by this new quote now and it's that ‘I’m easy to please but hard to impress.’” - Nikki Spo “I believe we can have it all when it comes to how we feel.” - Jamie Ruiz  Timestamps:  0:00 - 7:40 | Are you dating?!  7:40 - 11:20 | Age differences in romantic relationships  11:20 - 12:20 | Secret relationships  12:20 - 13:45 | Girls girl  13:45 - 19:35 | The Miami Heat  19:35 - 23:25 | Being in love since the divorce  23:25 - 27:05 | Dating with 3 kids  27:05 - 28:55 | More kids?! 28:55 - 35:10 | Going through a traumatic time period to heal 35:10 - 37:35 | Money  37:35 - 40:00 | Finding the good men  40:00 - 43:55 | What does Nikki want the people to know about her 43:55 - 50:05 | Jamie’s tarot reading  50:05 - 51:12 | Outro  – SANA SKIN STUDIO is my #1 go-to spot for self-care. My favorite facial is the Super Glow, and you can get $25 off of your first facial when you book at www.sanaskinstudio.com with my code THEKNOWGLOW. Connect with Jamie  https://www.jamieleeruiz.com/  jameslee4  Connect with Nikki  www.nikkispo.com   @nikkisappspo /  @theknowwithnikkispo  Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/the-know-with-nikki-spo/donations Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy