What is up fam! Today I am welcoming back Dr. Rachna Buxani-Mirpuri who we have heard from a few times now on the topic of narcissism. This is part three of a multi-part series in which Dr. Rachna and I are discussing the topic of narcissism. I am really honored to be able to chat with an expert like her and today we are going to be answering some of the spicy Q & A’s that have been sent in after our first two initial episodes. Let’s jump right in!   In this episode…  Rigid personality traits Vulnerable narcissism Insecurity, shame, rage  Narcissism with a friend Narcissistic boss Setting boundaries for YOURSELF VictimizingCo-parenting with a narcissist Building a sense of self  Quotes  “Not everybody who’s divorcing a narcissist knows that the person is narcissistic.” - Dr. Rachna Buxani-Mirpuri  “A lot of narcissistic characteristics are reinforced by society.” - Dr. Rachna Buxani-Mirpuri  “Narcissism inherently comes from insecurity, insecurity brings shame, and shame takes a form of rage.” - Dr. Rachna Buxani-Mirpuri  “There is no way to have a healthy relationship with a narcissist.” - Dr. Rachna Buxani-Mirpuri  “I think it takes a lot of self-reflection to ask yourself what you are really longing for in friendships and in general. Ask yourself what gives your life meaning, what gives your life purpose, and what makes you feel happy and fulfilled out of your interpersonal relationships.” - Nikki Spo   “The boundaries you set are really for yourself and not for them.” - Nikki Spo  “You have to not exist to be a part of these narcissistic relationships.” - Dr. Rachna Buxani-Mirpuri Timestamps:  0:00 - 3:00 | Intro  3:00 - 4:50 | How do narcissists react to divorce?  4:50 - 7:30 | Therapy with a narcissist  7:30 - 10:15 | How to treat someone with narcissistic personality traits  10:15 - 12:20 | Self confidence  12:20 - 15:45 | Insecurity, shame, rage  15:45 - 18:30 | Experiencing narcissism with a friend  18:30 - 21:30 | Setting boundaries for YOURSELF  21:30 - 26:55 | A narcissistic boss 26:55 - 28:10 | The word “charming” 28:10 - 32:15 | Victimizing  32:15 - 35:30 | How do you deal with narcissists who body shame you  35:30 - 40:15 | What is it like to co-parent with a narcissist  40:15 - 47:45 | How to get a narcissist to apologize  47:45 - 49:28 | Outro  –  SANA SKIN STUDIO is my #1 go-to spot for self-care. My favorite facial is the Super Glow, and you can get $25 off of your first facial when you book at www.sanaskinstudio.com with my code THEKNOWGLOW. Connect with Dr. Rachna Buxani-Mirpuri  https://buxanicare.com/rachna-buxani-mirpuri/  @bruxanicare  Connect with Nikki  www.nikkispo.com   @nikkisappspo /  @theknowwithnikkispo    Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/the-know-with-nikki-spo/donations Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy