All episodes of The Love U Podcast with Evan Marc Katz

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When you've been hurt and disappointed, it's easy to assume that the next guy is going to do the same. The problem is that not all men are bad. And if you're dating a nice, commitment-oriented guy and treat him like a composite of all the jerks you've dated in the past, you're never going to get a nice guy. In this podcast, I tell a powerful story about a client who came from an abusive background and is actively overcoming her trust issues in Love U. 🫶 Subscribe to Lovesplaining for free:...

Published 05/03/24

The Love U Podcast with Evan Marc Katz

Published 05/03/24

What to Do When He Asks Why You’re Single

You may find it annoying or triggering but it's common for men to ask you why you're still single. Instead of shutting down or overexplaining, it's important to be able to answer this question with poise and confidence. If your reflexive answer to why you're still single is "I just haven't met the right guy," you REALLY ought to listen to this. My advice will likely surprise you. 🫶 Subscribe to Lovesplaining for free: https://www.evanmarckatz.com/substack 🔥 Take my quiz to find love now:...

Published 04/26/24

Why Married Men Are a Hell No!

I know it should seem obvious but the fact that I recorded a podcast about it means that plenty of women still find married men alluring. In this episode, we'll talk about why married men are often more romantic than single men AND 4 reasons why it absolutely doesn't matter and you should run far, far away from any married guy who shows interest in you. 🫶 Subscribe to Lovesplaining for free: https://www.evanmarckatz.com/substack 🔥 Take my quiz to find love now:...

Published 04/19/24

How to Balance an Anxious/Avoidant Attachment Style

If you didn't have a healthy nuclear family with loving married parents, its likely that you formed an attachment style that is either anxious or avoidant. But what happens when your anxiety turns into avoidance, and your avoidance turns into anxiety? This is something I see with women in Love U and a phenomenon that I felt was worth airing in today's episode. Your past doesn't have to predict your future; it just takes strength to make different choices with men. 🫶 Subscribe to...

Published 04/12/24

Why Dating Is Different As You Get Older

My readers often ask me to create specific programs for them. "Why can't you create something for women in their 60's who are facing a smaller dating pool with men who are retired, widowed, unhealthy and dealing with erectile dysfunction?" The answer is that despite the unique challenges facing women of different ages, 95% of dating and relationship advice is universal. It's about confidence, communication, boundaries, beliefs, and the skill of learning to be more effective in dating. But, as...

Published 04/05/24

Are You Trying to Change Him?

You know the narrative. Men suck. There are no good ones left. They're all narcissists or losers or emotionally unavailable. The cute ones don't want to settle down. The ones who want to settle down aren't attractive. When you finally find one you like, the compromises are too great. I'm not here to argue with you. What I will say, as a happily married dating coach, is that you have two choices: accept him as he is or dump him. What you can't do is stay in a relationship with a man who you're...

Published 03/29/24

Should You Be Happy Alone?

My smart, successful clients have all loved and lost. Yet they recovered to rebuild their lives and fill it with meaningful work, travel, hobbies and friendship. Today's question is whether this is enough. Is being happy alone a condition for finding love or is a trap that allows you to stay alone indefinitely? What's the benefit of lasting love when being single is better than being in a bad relationship? In this Love U Podcast, I do my best to explain. 🫶 Subscribe to Lovesplaining for...

Published 03/22/24

Men Are About Feelings

While it’s easy to get mad at guys who overvalue...

Published 03/15/24

3 Steps to Determine If He Gets a Second Date

When you’ve had bad luck with men, it’s easy to...

Published 03/08/24

Everyone is Someone’s Second Choice

Don Miguel Ruiz wrote The Four Agreements. One of them...

Published 03/01/24

A Thought Experiment To Help You Persevere In Dating

No one wants to become a dating expert. No one...