We’ve all heard it: Do more with less. But how do you manage that without letting your work-life balance fall apart? In this episode, we tackle the listener question, “How do we keep getting told to do more with less, and why are we surprised when work-life balance is askew?” We’ll break down five strategies for becoming more effective while protecting your well-being. From working harder to optimizing efficiency and mentorship, we’ll explore what works in the short term versus the long term,...

We’ve all been there—stuck under a boss who doesn’t seem to see past your rank or give you the support you deserve. But in the military, you can’t pick your boss, and sometimes you have to make the best of a bad situation. In this episode, we’ll dive into four key strategies for navigating a difficult leadership dynamic: protecting your boss’s position even when you disagree, offering high support to build trust, practicing good followership, and knowing when to stand up for your values. Tune...

We’ve all been there—working under a boss who seems more like a villain than a leader. In this episode, we tackle the tough topic of dealing with a horrible boss. Whether they’re micromanaging, inconsistent, or just plain toxic, a bad boss can make even the best job feel unbearable. But it doesn’t have to be that way. Join us as we explore practical strategies for surviving—and even thriving—under difficult leadership. We’ll discuss how to protect your mental health, maintain your...

In this special episode, I sit down with my son, Justice Tilsher, a bestselling author and young entrepreneur, to talk about his new business and exciting podcast for aspiring writers. We dive into the world of young writers and explore how Justice is helping them finish and publish their first book. Join us for a heartfelt conversation about legacy, perseverance, and the impact of storytelling. Whether you're a young writer or simply interested in the creative process, this episode offers...

In this episode, we dive into the concept of "Silent Firing"—the subtle yet damaging practice of quietly sidelining underperforming team members without clear communication or accountability. We'll explore how this passive approach not only demoralizes the individual but also undermines the entire team's performance and culture. Discover how to recognize the signs of silent firing in your organization and learn actionable strategies to address underperformance head-on, fostering a culture of...

In leadership, the gap between theory and practice often marks the difference between success and failure. As we conclude our Basecamp series, this episode offers a deep dive into the strategies necessary to embody the qualities of effective leadership. Drawing on advanced leadership theories, such as Google's Project Oxygen and Gallup's research on leadership traits, we will explore a strategic framework for taking inventory of your leadership skills, clearly defining your objectives, and...

(Part 2) What does it take to be a leader worth following? In this episode, we’re breaking down Google’s Project Oxygen to uncover the top leadership traits that can transform any team. We’ll focus on the key behaviors that Google identified as essential: being a good coach, empowering teams, avoiding micromanagement, creating an inclusive team environment, and focusing on productive behavior and results. These aren’t just tech industry buzzwords—they’re actionable insights for military...

What does it take to be a leader worth following? In this episode, we’re breaking down Google’s Project Oxygen to uncover the top leadership traits that can transform any team. We’ll focus on the key behaviors that Google identified as essential: being a good coach, empowering teams, avoiding micromanagement, creating an inclusive team environment, and focusing on productive behavior and results. These aren’t just tech industry buzzwords—they’re actionable insights for military leaders at...

In this episode, Mark Tilsher explores the critical role of rest and downtime in enhancing team performance and leadership effectiveness. Sharing personal anecdotes and backed by research, Mark delves into why rest is essential for leaders and their teams, how to incorporate intentional rest periods, and the benefits of play and downtime in fostering a productive and happy work environment. Key Takeaways: Understanding the importance of rest for leaders and teams. How to intentionally set...

Episode Title: Description: In this episode, Mark Tilsher dives deep into the concept of assertiveness in leadership. Often mistaken for competence, assertiveness can either make or break your influence in a team setting. Mark shares personal anecdotes from his military career, backed by research and practical tips on how to harness the power of assertiveness to build relational capital and lead effectively.   Key Takeaways: Understanding the difference between assertiveness and competence....

Join us for a special Fourth of July episode of the Military Sherpa Leadership Podcast as we celebrate Independence Day with a blend of history, reflection, and gratitude. In this episode, host Mark Tilsher takes us back to July 4th, 1776, spotlighting the inspiring story of John Adams and the signing of the Declaration of Independence. Explore how themes of gratitude and patriotism can enrich your leadership journey. Discover how Adams' unwavering commitment and sense of purpose can inspire...

In this episode of the Military Sherpa Leadership Podcast, we sit down with Sydney Cox, an Air Force Development Advisor who has gained significant influence on her base by effectively utilizing Military Sherpa Coaching tools. Sydney shares her journey, revealing the strategies she employed to gain traction and trust within organizations like Military Equal Opportunity. Our discussion covers the specific tools she finds most effective, how she tailors her approach to meet the unique needs of...

Dive into the essence of true empowerment in this episode of The Military Sherpa Leadership Podcast, where we explore the top tier of the Empowerment Hierarchy. Understand why empowerment is not just about freedom, but also about fostering trust, innovation, and engagement among your team. Learn how to identify if your team is truly empowered and discover strategies to help them reach their highest potential. #Leadership #MilitarySherpa #EmpowermentHierarchy

Unpack the 'Responsible' layer of the Empowerment Hierarchy in this episode and learn how it serves as a catalyst for leadership empowerment. Master the art of fostering trust and ownership to transform your team. Tune in for a profound exploration of proactive leadership strategies.

Peel back the layers of the Accountable tier in this insightful dive into the empowerment hierarchy. Discover its role in your team’s dynamic and how to foster growth from this crucial foundation. Tune in and transform accountability into a stepping stone for leadership excellence.

Embark on a strategic journey beyond toxic followership. Discover the Empowerment Hierarchy and envision a military leadership culture where empowerment and trust replace insecurity and control. Tune in, take notes, and prepare to elevate your team. Catch new insights every episode!

Toxicity, in its many guises, creeps silently, leaving in its wake leaders who are revered and reviled. As we journey deeper in this three-part series, we shed light on the triad of toxic traits—Insecurity, Arrogance, and Pride. These traits, often seen in toxic followers, can germinate into devastating leadership flaws. The fine line between arrogance and pride, where one stems from overconfidence and the other from sensitivity, can be perplexing. Yet, by recognizing, understanding, and...

In this thought-provoking episode of The Military Sherpa Leadership Podcast, we embark on a journey of transformation, leaving traditional New Year's resolutions behind. Instead, we delve into the power of envisioning your future, guided by a seasoned veteran's wisdom. Join us as we explore how shifting from resolutions to vision can reshape your life, business, and impact on others.

Welcome to a special Thanksgiving edition of The Military Sherpa Leadership Podcast. As we gather with family and friends, it's essential to remember those who've served and continue to serve our nation, often far from their homes and loved ones during this season. Today, I'll share with you a touching story from our nation's history, reflecting the true essence of Thanksgiving.

Every military unit fears toxic leadership, but how often do we trace its roots? This is the first episode in a three-part series that dives deep into the emergence of toxic leaders. It's an unsettling truth—these leaders often rise from the ranks of toxic followers. By understanding and addressing the three core traits that fuel toxicity, we can initiate transformative change, fostering healthier leadership for tomorrow. Dive in, as we unravel the markers of a budding toxic leader and...

Delve into the roots of toxic leadership in this eye-opening episode. Discover the signs of toxic followership, and learn actionable strategies for nurturing a healthier leadership culture. Tune in for transformative insights every week.

Delve into a visionary blueprint for a transformed Department of Defense (DoD). Understand the peace index's unparalleled significance for service members on the cusp of transitioning and its potential to rewrite the narrative of post-military life. Let's explore together the profound implications of prioritizing peace and holistic well-being in our military ecosystem.

In this episode of The Military Sherpa Leadership Podcast, we delve into the art of leadership and the power of saying no strategically. With a focus on simplifying the coaching process for military leaders, we explore how the ability to say no can enhance leadership effectiveness and foster high-performing teams. Join us as we discuss the importance of discernment, facilitation, and guarding the institution from failure. Discover how strategic use of yes and no can steer your team towards...

Join us for an insightful episode of The Military Sherpa Leadership Podcast as we explore the fascinating question: Is there a correlation between mental health DSM and the 5 Voices? Dive into the overlaps and distinctions between these two domains, gaining valuable insights into human behavior and relationships. Discover how specific voices may resemble certain mental health conditions and explore the importance of leveraging the 5 Voices framework as a relationship hack. Tune in for...