On this episode of the Nutritional Therapy and Wellness Podcast, host Jamie Belz talks with Miles Welch, Founder and CEO of North Star Training Solutions, about the importance and difficulties of being a good leader - for ourselves. Miles is a leadership expert who is passionate about helping business owners build their leadership bench and develop their leadership potential. He has impacted thousands of executives, entrepreneurs, and business owners through his speaking and coaching, as well as the industry-leading developmental programming he has designed. Miles's varied leadership assignments include serving as a Platoon Sergeant in the United States Marine Corps, pastoring one of the largest churches in the United States, serving as the Executive Director of the John Maxwell Leadership Center, and launching two successful businesses. Miles and his family live in the Atlanta area. During their conversation, Jamie and Miles cover many topics in relation to building resilience and having the discipline to level-up and ultimately succeed in all areas of life. 04:07 Entropy 06:25 Busyness 07:12 Resilience and the difference between pressure and stress 10:53 The shame of not "succeeding" 14:56 The key to high performance 15:14 Midlife Crisis 16:25 Doing a life audit and recalibration 21:18 Tips on resilience and holding yourself accountable 22:28 Staying up late versus getting up early 23:12 Stream of consciousness writing 25:09 Television detox 26:36 Journaling, reading (growing/learning) and Miles's morning routine 29:44 The reshaping of friendships as life gets busy - kids' activities and youth sports 33:12 Miles's evening routing 34:10 Quit eating earlier in the evening - the blood sugar rollercoaster - craving carbs at night - blood sugar's impact on sleep - waking up in the night 36:46 The upward or downward spiral of wellness and healthy versus unhealthy habits 37:26 Having accountability partners 37:45 Miles's primary core values #1 38:54 Hiding things in life - vulnerability - talking with others - working with a counselor 40:36 Life hack for "receiving counseling from Brene Brown and other high-level professionals" 42:05 The three-pronged system for working through being "stuck" in life 44:30 Wisdom and the benefit of having mentors 45:53 Miles's primary core values #2 46:47 Miles's primary core values #3 46:58 Having a life that is integrated - having a surrendered relationship with the truth 47:39 Miles's primary core values #4 49:42 The hardest challenge in leading yourself 51:08 The lie we tell ourselves about "the season coming" when everything will be different or easier - not living in the now 53:43 Don't squander another minute, hour, day, week, month, year, decade… 54:18 The upward spiral or the downward spiral 54:36 The best pre-workout 55:48 Being kind to yourself 57:24 Getting better at failing 58:37 Bounce-back rate - falling off the wagon - small vices 59:54 Miles's favorite self-improvement resources   Email Miles Welch: [email protected] Website: https://northstartraining.com/ Socials: https://www.linkedin.com/in/themileswelch/ https://www.instagram.com/themileswelch/ Books mentioned: Developing the Leader Within You - John Maxwell The Endurance: Legendary Antarctic Expedition - Caroline Alexander The Greatest Generation - Tom Brokaw ________________________________________   Thanks for listening! If you like what you're hearing, please don't forget to subscribe and give us those five start ratings!   Email Jamie: [email protected] Connect with us online: www.Nutritionaltherapy.com