Dr Kirk Honda discusses borderline personality and partner abuse while reacting to the reality TV show, Love Is Blind. This episode is sponsored by BetterHelp. Give online therapy a try at betterhelp.com/KIRK to get 10% off your first month. 00:00 Chapter 10 - Apologies 23:45 Chapter 11 - Desperate love 51:06 Chapter 12 - Hard lines & justifications Become a member: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCOUZWV1DRtHtpP2H48S7iiw/join Become a patron:...

Dr Kirk Honda discusses borderline personality and partner abuse while reacting to the reality TV show, Love Is Blind. This episode is sponsored by BetterHelp. Give online therapy a try at betterhelp.com/KIRK to get 10% off your first month. 00:00 Chapter 7 - Comparing and contrasting Love is Blind couples 50:12 Chapter 8 - Subtle parts of abuse 1:25:27 Chapter 9 - Jealousy Become a member: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCOUZWV1DRtHtpP2H48S7iiw/join Become a patron:...

Dr Kirk Honda discusses borderline personality and partner abuse while reacting to the reality TV show, Love Is Blind. This episode is sponsored by BetterHelp. Give online therapy a try at betterhelp.com/KIRK to get 10% off your first month. 00:00 Introducing Love is Blind work 16:35 Chapter 1 - Patterns of escalation 54:12 Chapter 2 - Exerting control 1:32:11 Chapter 3 - Abusive cycle 2:17:27 Chapter 4 - Absolute thinking & respect 2:34:47 Chapter 5 - Abandonment & betrayal 3:09:00...

[Rerun] Dr. Kirk Honda analyzes Tyrion Lannister from Game of Thrones. This episode is sponsored by BetterHelp. Give online therapy a try at betterhelp.com/KIRK to get 10% off your first month. Become a member: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCOUZWV1DRtHtpP2H48S7iiw/join Become a patron: https://www.patreon.com/PsychologyInSeattle Email: https://www.psychologyinseattle.com/contact Website: https://www.psychologyinseattle.com Merch:...

[Rerun] Dr. Kirk Honda analyzes Theon Greyjoy from Game of Thrones. This episode is sponsored by BetterHelp. Give online therapy a try at betterhelp.com/KIRK to get 10% off your first month. Become a member: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCOUZWV1DRtHtpP2H48S7iiw/join Become a patron: https://www.patreon.com/PsychologyInSeattle Email: https://www.psychologyinseattle.com/contact Website: https://www.psychologyinseattle.com Merch:...

Humberto and Dr Kirk discuss the difference between abuse and exploration in childhood. This episode is sponsored by BetterHelp. Give online therapy a try at betterhelp.com/KIRK to get 10% off your first month. 00:00 Where is the line between sexual exploration and abuse? 45:44 Is the omission of infidelity harmful? Become a member: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCOUZWV1DRtHtpP2H48S7iiw/join Become a patron: https://www.patreon.com/PsychologyInSeattle Email:...

Humberto and Dr Kirk discuss what grooming is exactly. From our sponsor, BetterHelp: Need a therapist? Try BetterHelp! https://www.betterhelp.com/kirkGet started today and enjoy 10% off your first month. Discount code “KIRK" will be automatically applied. 00:00 Power imbalance in management/abuse of the power dynamic 16:29 How do I know if I'm being groomed as an adult? 22:36 What is the definition of grooming? 49:10 Am I having my needs met or being abused? 1:02:15 Are these red flags of...

Dr Kirk Honda answers patron emails and takes random psychological tests. From our sponsor, BetterHelp: Need a therapist? Try BetterHelp! https://www.betterhelp.com/kirkGet started today and enjoy 10% off your first month. Discount code “KIRK" will be automatically applied. 00:00 How do we identify our needs? 04:10 Where does the pleasure for sadists come from? 08:57 Is it possible to treat sadists? 14:07 OPP 18:10 Can my therapist also be my supervisor? 21:52 Is it weird to not experience...

[Rerun] Dr. Kirk Honda talks analyzes Sandor Clegane (The Hound) from Game of Thrones. From our sponsor, BetterHelp: Need a therapist? Try BetterHelp! https://www.betterhelp.com/kirkGet started today and enjoy 10% off your first month. Discount code “KIRK" will be automatically applied. Become a member: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCOUZWV1DRtHtpP2H48S7iiw/join Become a patron: https://www.patreon.com/PsychologyInSeattle Email: https://www.psychologyinseattle.com/contact Website:...

[Rerun] Dr. Kirk Honda analyzing Cersei Lannister from Game of Thrones. From our sponsor, BetterHelp: Need a therapist? Try BetterHelp! https://www.betterhelp.com/kirkGet started today and enjoy 10% off your first month. Discount code “KIRK" will be automatically applied. Become a member: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCOUZWV1DRtHtpP2H48S7iiw/join Become a patron: https://www.patreon.com/PsychologyInSeattle Email: https://www.psychologyinseattle.com/contact Website:...

Dr Kirk Honda answers patron emails and takes random psychological tests. From our sponsor, BetterHelp: Need a therapist? Try BetterHelp! https://www.betterhelp.com/kirkGet started today and enjoy 10% off your first month. Discount code “KIRK" will be automatically applied. 00:00 How does recognizing our attachment style influence us? 07:23 Is BPD only treatable through psychiatry & medication? 14:00 Is the Hero Journey Club therapy? 27:34 OPP 30:05 How can I support a friend with...

Dr Kirk Honda interviews Dan Koch (from the You Have Permission Podcast) about his new psychometric survey that measures religious abuse. From our sponsor, BetterHelp: Need a therapist? Try BetterHelp! https://www.betterhelp.com/kirkGet started today and enjoy 10% off your first month. Discount code “KIRK" will be automatically applied. 00:00 Introducing Dan Koch & liberal christianity  12:51 How do some fall victim to the culture war? 25:10 What is spiritual abuse? 29:14 Koch's...

Dr Kirk Honda answers patron emails. From our sponsor, BetterHelp: Need a therapist? Try BetterHelp! https://www.betterhelp.com/kirkGet started today and enjoy 10% off your first month. Discount code “KIRK" will be automatically applied. 00:00 Is the DSM sponsored by big pharma? 33:02 OPP 35:32 How can I support someone in a DV situation?  48:36 OPP2 53:30 Is love bombing only associated with NPD? 1:02:43 Recommending Blue-eyed Samurai 1:03:12 Possibilities for living with chronic pain...

[Rerun] Dr. Kirk Honda talks for hours about Ramsay Bolton. From our sponsor, BetterHelp: Need a therapist? Try BetterHelp! https://www.betterhelp.com/kirkGet started today and enjoy 10% off your first month. Discount code “KIRK" will be automatically applied. Become a member: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCOUZWV1DRtHtpP2H48S7iiw/join Become a patron: https://www.patreon.com/PsychologyInSeattle Email: https://www.psychologyinseattle.com/contact Website:...

[Rerun] Dr. Kirk analyzes Joffrey Baratheon from Game of Thrones. From our sponsor, BetterHelp: Need a therapist? Try BetterHelp! https://www.betterhelp.com/kirkGet started today and enjoy 10% off your first month. Discount code “KIRK" will be automatically applied. Become a member: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCOUZWV1DRtHtpP2H48S7iiw/join Become a patron: https://www.patreon.com/PsychologyInSeattle Email: https://www.psychologyinseattle.com/contact Website:...

Dr Kirk Honda answers patron emails. From our sponsor, BetterHelp: Need a therapist? Try BetterHelp! https://www.betterhelp.com/kirkGet started today and enjoy 10% off your first month. Discount code “KIRK" will be automatically applied. 00:00 Where should I look to work with NOMAPs? 01:54 Debunking birth order & understanding sadism  15:30 OPP 16:25 Can IFS therapy be helpful with borderline? 25:40 Using children in content creation 37:43 Parentification & attuning to multiple...

Bob and Kirk answer patron emails. From our sponsor, BetterHelp: Need a therapist? Try BetterHelp! https://www.betterhelp.com/kirkGet started today and enjoy 10% off your first month. Discount code “KIRK" will be automatically applied. 00:00 Self-esteem & nudity anxiety 39:26 OPP41:45 54321 grounding & relaxation anxiety 54:56 OPP255:38 If diseases went to therapy, which one is emotionally healthy? 58:51 What are Dr. Kirk and Bob's favorite comfort foods? 1:04:45 What would a...

Dr Kirk Honda answers patron emails. From our sponsor, BetterHelp: Need a therapist? Try BetterHelp! https://www.betterhelp.com/kirkGet started today and enjoy 10% off your first month. Discount code “KIRK" will be automatically applied. 00:00 Is there a connection between childhood sexual abuse and obesity? 04:15 How was the ACE test developed? 28:42 The original ACE test questions 43:17 What is correlated with ACE? 1:08:01 What could trauma recovery look like?  Become a member:...

[Rerun] Dr. Kirk Honda and Humberto talk about the mental syndromes within particular cultures. From our sponsor, BetterHelp: Need a therapist? Try BetterHelp! https://www.betterhelp.com/kirkGet started today and enjoy 10% off your first month. Discount code “KIRK" will be automatically applied. Become a member: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCOUZWV1DRtHtpP2H48S7iiw/join Become a patron: https://www.patreon.com/PsychologyInSeattle Email:...

[Rerun] How can we get our cuddling needs met? Dr. Kirk interviews Erez Benari about his cuddling club, Spoonz. They also talk about polyamory and the sex positive culture movement in Seattle. From our sponsor, BetterHelp: Need a therapist? Try BetterHelp! https://www.betterhelp.com/kirkGet started today and enjoy 10% off your first month. Discount code “KIRK" will be automatically applied. Become a member: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCOUZWV1DRtHtpP2H48S7iiw/join Become a patron:...

Rebecca-sode! We talk about Love Is Blind Season 6. From our sponsor, BetterHelp: Need a therapist? Try BetterHelp! https://www.betterhelp.com/kirkGet started today and enjoy 10% off your first month. Discount code “KIRK" will be automatically applied. 00:00 How far in Love is Blind did Rebecca get? 07:06 Has Rebecca watched any other shows like this?  26:41 OPP  31:42 Did Jimmy choose wrong?  35:53 What did Rebecca think of Matthew? 43:37 Why would Sarah DM Jeremy? 50:12 Does Rebecca love...

Humberto and Dr Kirk talk about the podcast. From our sponsor, BetterHelp: Need a therapist? Try BetterHelp! https://www.betterhelp.com/kirkGet started today and enjoy 10% off your first month. Discount code “KIRK" will be automatically applied. 00:00 Reading Anna's poem 01:48 Ideas for Humberto's merch 18:08 OPP 20:38 Dreams about Dr. Kirk & Humberto 24:36 Does Dr. Kirk meet fans? 41:37 OPP2 43:11 Has the podcast always been influenced by listeners?  1:20:46 How has the podcast...

Bob and Dr Kirk answer patron emails. From our sponsor, BetterHelp: Need a therapist? Try BetterHelp! https://www.betterhelp.com/kirkGet started today and enjoy 10% off your first month. Discount code “KIRK" will be automatically applied. 00:00 Can I ask for my therapeutic notes? 15:19 Creepy teacher & crossing boundaries 39:08 Are there couples that present as borderline when together? 55:38 OPP  59:04 Have Dr. Kirk or Bob had any inspirational interactions with clients? 1:03:25 Why do...

[Rerun] Are people lying more often these days? If so, why? What does the research show? Dr. Kirk and Humberto discussing lying. From our sponsor, BetterHelp: Need a therapist? Try BetterHelp! https://www.betterhelp.com/kirkGet started today and enjoy 10% off your first month. Discount code “KIRK" will be automatically applied. Become a member: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCOUZWV1DRtHtpP2H48S7iiw/join Become a patron: https://www.patreon.com/PsychologyInSeattle Email:...