[Rerun] Dr. Kirk Honda talks about marital conflict and Gottman's Four Horsemen. This episode is sponsored by BetterHelp. Give online therapy a try at betterhelp.com/KIRK to get 10% off your first month. Become a member: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCOUZWV1DRtHtpP2H48S7iiw/join Become a patron: https://www.patreon.com/PsychologyInSeattle Email: https://www.psychologyinseattle.com/contact Website: https://www.psychologyinseattle.com Merch:...

Dr Kirk answers patron emails. This episode is sponsored by BetterHelp. Give online therapy a try at betterhelp.com/KIRK to get 10% off your first month. 00:00 What is Dr. Kirk's model of supervision? 02:07 How do I tell a friend that I have a life-threatening condition? 08:43 Dependent personality spectrum 12:18 Why do I want to cheat? 20:35 OPP 2022 21:30 Psychology "Hacks" 28:03 Grey Rocking 36:25 Mug-level OPP 2022 37:50 Can I report a therapist friend? 41:04 How do I accept an...

Dr Kirk talks about online bullying and dealing with negative comments. This episode is sponsored by BetterHelp. Give online therapy a try at betterhelp.com/KIRK to get 10% off your first month. 00:00 Intro 01:56 Who Trolled Amber?  07:36 Cancellation trauma 24:17 Negative online feedback 47:57 Online mob mentality & balancing feedback Become a member: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCOUZWV1DRtHtpP2H48S7iiw/join Become a patron: https://www.patreon.com/PsychologyInSeattle Email:...

[Rerun] Dr. Kirk Honda talks with coaching trainer Mike Bundrant about the difference between coaching and counseling. This episode is sponsored by BetterHelp. Give online therapy a try at betterhelp.com/KIRK to get 10% off your first month. Become a member: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCOUZWV1DRtHtpP2H48S7iiw/join Become a patron: https://www.patreon.com/PsychologyInSeattle Email: https://www.psychologyinseattle.com/contact Website: https://www.psychologyinseattle.com Merch:...

Dr K (HealthyGamer) interviews Dr Kirk Honda about avoidant and schizoid personality disorder. This episode is sponsored by BetterHelp. Give online therapy a try at betterhelp.com/KIRK to get 10% off your first month. 00:00 Introducing HealthyGamer 06:11 Collaboration intro 13:19 What is a personality disorder?  15:51 What happens in avoidant personality disorder?  27:17 Establishing trust and safety 32:35 Common experiences of avoidant personality disorder 1:05:18 Confronting...

[Rerun] Dr Kirk Honda talks about therapist difficulties. (Intro) The full episode is available to patrons of the podcast. This episode is sponsored by BetterHelp. Give online therapy a try at betterhelp.com/KIRK to get 10% off your first month. Become a member: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCOUZWV1DRtHtpP2H48S7iiw/join Become a patron: https://www.patreon.com/PsychologyInSeattle Email: https://www.psychologyinseattle.com/contact Website: https://www.psychologyinseattle.com Merch:...

Dr Kirk discovers he has dyslexia. This episode is sponsored by BetterHelp. Give online therapy a try at betterhelp.com/KIRK to get 10% off your first month. 00:00 Dr. Kirk's dyslexia 05:07 Reading slowly 33:43 Visual & audio media 53:11 International Dyslexia Association screener criteria 1:10:19 Reading aloud 1:19:42 AP English 1:28:38 Final criterion  1:35:06 Other realizations Become a member: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCOUZWV1DRtHtpP2H48S7iiw/join Become a patron:...

Dr Kirk and Humberto answer patron emails. This episode is sponsored by BetterHelp. Give online therapy a try at betterhelp.com/KIRK to get 10% off your first month. 00:00 What is online cheating?  17:02 Compulsive porn use 23:54 TW Sexual abuse  26:33 What is The Ick 49:46 Walkaway Wife Syndrome 1:07:18 Is asking for a sexless relationship possible?  1:15:05 Upcoming Election Day Become a member: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCOUZWV1DRtHtpP2H48S7iiw/join Become a patron:...

[Rerun] Dr Kirk Honda and Humberto analyze the main character in Nightcrawler regarding psychopathic and sadistic personality. This episode is sponsored by BetterHelp. Give online therapy a try at betterhelp.com/KIRK to get 10% off your first month. Become a member: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCOUZWV1DRtHtpP2H48S7iiw/join Become a patron: https://www.patreon.com/PsychologyInSeattle Email: https://www.psychologyinseattle.com/contact Website:...

Dr Kirk and Humberto discuss the psychological model proposed in Inside Out 2. This episode is sponsored by BetterHelp. Give online therapy a try at betterhelp.com/KIRK to get 10% off your first month. 00:00 Witnessing childhood 10:06 Transitionary periods  24:18 Stable personality points 36:17 Anxiety vs. Fear 1:03:01 Sense of self & schemas 1:39:46 Rating & sequel possibilities Become a member: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCOUZWV1DRtHtpP2H48S7iiw/join Become a patron:...

[Rerun] What do you do when you have feelings for your therapist? Falling in love? Wanting to be adopted? Dr. Kirk Honda answers a number of emails on this topic. This episode is sponsored by BetterHelp. Give online therapy a try at betterhelp.com/KIRK to get 10% off your first month. Become a member: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCOUZWV1DRtHtpP2H48S7iiw/join Become a patron: https://www.patreon.com/PsychologyInSeattle Email: https://www.psychologyinseattle.com/contact Website:...

Kids or no kids? How do we decide? Dr Kirk interviews fellow therapist Jess Flynn about her decision to not have children. Jess Flynn can be found at: https://jess-flynn-therapy.clientsecure.me/ This episode is sponsored by BetterHelp. Give online therapy a try at betterhelp.com/KIRK to get 10% off your first month. 00:00 Introducing Jesamie & mortality 09:32 Respectfully childless 14:15 Jesamie's background 27:26 Discussing children 38:12 Religion & ego death  1:11:47 Questioning...

Bobcast! Dr Kirk and Bob review a case in which a therapist was convicted of fraud. This episode is sponsored by BetterHelp. Give online therapy a try at betterhelp.com/KIRK to get 10% off your first month. 00:00 Relational therapist fraud 06:43 Bob's bathroom remodel 08:35 Moving from therapy to coaching  28:01 "Misleading wording"  34:57 Conviction and reprimand 41:10 Therapist deception 1:01:59 Damage to the therapeutic relationship 1:13:31 Idioms & dyslexia Become a member:...

[Rerun] Bob tells us about how to use emotionally focused therapy to help clients recover from past relational traumas and Dr. Kirk rambles about random stuff. Is EFIT similar to Gestalt? Is the EFIT training worth it? Let’s find out. This episode is sponsored by BetterHelp. Give online therapy a try at betterhelp.com/KIRK to get 10% off your first month. Become a member: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCOUZWV1DRtHtpP2H48S7iiw/join Become a patron:...

Rebeccasode! Dr Kirk and Rebecca answer patron emails. This episode is sponsored by BetterHelp. Give online therapy a try at betterhelp.com/KIRK to get 10% off your first month. 00:00 Mormon therapist discomfort 08:43 Rebbeca-sode gifts 14:19 Menopause & aging health  35:10 How to prepare for parenting 47:20 Is daycare harmful? 1:11:40 Compassion fatigue 1:16:09 Systemic oppression of minority groups  Become a member:...

[Rerun] Dr. Kirk Honda talks about how to use social media to build an audience and enhance your clinical practice. This episode is sponsored by BetterHelp. Give online therapy a try at betterhelp.com/KIRK to get 10% off your first month. Become a member: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCOUZWV1DRtHtpP2H48S7iiw/join Become a patron: https://www.patreon.com/PsychologyInSeattle Email: https://www.psychologyinseattle.com/contact Website: https://www.psychologyinseattle.com Merch:...

Dr. Kirk Honda interviews Dr. Jordan Allen, associate professor at Utah Valley University, about communication and other topics. Dr. Jordan Allen can be found at @CommunicationCrackdown on Instagram and TikTok. This episode is sponsored by BetterHelp. Give online therapy a try at betterhelp.com/KIRK to get 10% off your first month. 00:00 Introducing Dr. Jordan Allen01:04 Communication myths 20:36 Layers of communication  37:23 Family estrangement  49:06 Flexible communication 53:31...

Antioch Student, Andres Valdivieso, asks Dr Kirk about advice for grad school and novice clinicians. This episode is sponsored by BetterHelp. Give online therapy a try at betterhelp.com/KIRK to get 10% off your first month. 00:00 Introducing Andres03:10 Dr. Kirk's top 3 graduate school tips  33:46 Learning in graduate school  42:20 Why did Dr. Kirk get a PsyD instead of a PhD 45:17 Should I start in an agency or private practice? 50:24 Why does Dr. Kirk do the podcast and YouTube...

[Rerun] Are humans naturally monogamous? What about other primates? What does the data tells us? Dr. Kirk Honda and Humberto discuss the science and the culture. This episode is sponsored by BetterHelp. Give online therapy a try at betterhelp.com/KIRK to get 10% off your first month. Become a member: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCOUZWV1DRtHtpP2H48S7iiw/join Become a patron: https://www.patreon.com/PsychologyInSeattle Email: https://www.psychologyinseattle.com/contact Website:...

Rebeccasode! Dr Kirk and Rebecca answer patron emails. This episode is sponsored by BetterHelp. Give online therapy a try at betterhelp.com/KIRK to get 10% off your first month. 00:00 Rethinking Christmas 12:07 Body memories and trauma  42:35 Coping with the death of an abuser 50:42 Substance use addiction in a relationship Become a member: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCOUZWV1DRtHtpP2H48S7iiw/join Become a patron: https://www.patreon.com/PsychologyInSeattle Email:...

[Rerun] How do you have more charisma? What exactly is charisma? Did we evolve charisma? How is charisma used for evil? Dr. Kirk Honda and Humberto explore these questions and more. This episode is sponsored by BetterHelp. Give online therapy a try at betterhelp.com/KIRK to get 10% off your first month. Become a member: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCOUZWV1DRtHtpP2H48S7iiw/join Become a patron: https://www.patreon.com/PsychologyInSeattle Email:...

Dr Kirk Honda and Humberto explore hypotheses regarding the psychology of Elon Musk. This episode is sponsored by BetterHelp. Give online therapy a try at betterhelp.com/KIRK to get 10% off your first month. 00:00 The Dave Chappelle Show06:34 Elon's stalker  11:44 Elon's emotional suffering Become a member: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCOUZWV1DRtHtpP2H48S7iiw/join Become a patron: https://www.patreon.com/PsychologyInSeattle Email:...

Dr Kirk Honda and Humberto explore hypotheses regarding the psychology of Elon Musk. This episode is sponsored by BetterHelp. Give online therapy a try at betterhelp.com/KIRK to get 10% off your first month. 00:00 The Twitter spiral 04:32 Relationship with Amber Heard Become a member: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCOUZWV1DRtHtpP2H48S7iiw/join Become a patron: https://www.patreon.com/PsychologyInSeattle Email: https://www.psychologyinseattle.com/contact Website:...

[Rerun] Dr. Kirk Honda and Humberto talk about incels (involuntary celibates). This episode is sponsored by BetterHelp. Give online therapy a try at betterhelp.com/KIRK to get 10% off your first month. Become a member: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCOUZWV1DRtHtpP2H48S7iiw/join Become a patron: https://www.patreon.com/PsychologyInSeattle Email: https://www.psychologyinseattle.com/contact Website: https://www.psychologyinseattle.com Merch:...