All episodes of Psychology In Seattle Podcast

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Procrastination, Perfectionism, Podcasting, and Parasociality

Dr Kirk and Humberto explore creativity, along with procrastination, perfectionism, podcasting, and parasocial relationships. From our sponsor, BetterHelp: Need a therapist? Try BetterHelp! https://www.betterhelp.com/kirkGet started today and enjoy 10% off your first month. Discount code “KIRK" will be automatically applied. 00:00 Defining guilt and shame 29:47 What inspired Dr. Kirk to keep podcasting? 41:31 Humberto's piano album & studio pains 48:39 Humberto & Dr. Kirk's share...

Published 03/22/24

I am from...

Dr Ann Blake tells Dr Kirk about the therapeutic value of writing where we are from. From our sponsor, BetterHelp: Need a therapist? Try BetterHelp! https://www.betterhelp.com/kirkGet started today and enjoy 10% off your first month. Discount code “KIRK" will be automatically applied. https://FactorMeals.com/Seattle50 00:00 Land acknowledgment 02:58 What is the "I'm from" poem? 05:19 How did it feel to write this poem? 12:14 Dr. Kirk & Dr. Ann's genealogy work 22:57 An example of the...

Published 03/20/24

Fixing Narcissism

Dr Kirk Honda is interviewed on the Adult Child Podcast, hosted by Andrea Ashley, regarding how to treat NPD. From our sponsor, BetterHelp: Need a therapist? Try BetterHelp! https://www.betterhelp.com/kirkGet started today and enjoy 10% off your first month. Discount code “KIRK" will be automatically applied. https://FactorMeals.com/Seattle50 00:00 Introducing the Adult Child podcast 03:36 What has Dr. Kirk covered recently? 05:20 Complex trauma in adulthood 13:59 Does Dr. Kirk do inner...

Published 03/18/24

Liberal Christianity (2020 Rerun)

[Rerun] Can a Christian be progressive? Dr. Kirk talks with Dan Koch from the You Have Permission Podcast. From our sponsor, BetterHelp: Need a therapist? Try BetterHelp! https://www.betterhelp.com/kirkGet started today and enjoy 10% off your first month. Discount code “KIRK" will be automatically applied. https://FactorMeals.com/Seattle50 Become a member: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCOUZWV1DRtHtpP2H48S7iiw/join Become a patron: https://www.patreon.com/PsychologyInSeattle Email:...

Published 03/17/24

Being Mixed Race (Hapa) (2020 Rerun)

[Rerun] Dr. Kirk talks about his experience of being mixed race. From our sponsor, BetterHelp: Need a therapist? Try BetterHelp! https://www.betterhelp.com/kirkGet started today and enjoy 10% off your first month. Discount code “KIRK" will be automatically applied. https://FactorMeals.com/Seattle50 Become a member: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCOUZWV1DRtHtpP2H48S7iiw/join Become a patron: https://www.patreon.com/PsychologyInSeattle Email:...

Published 03/16/24

Hollywood Racism Yammerings

Humberto and Kirk provide the top-20 movie lists for Hispanic-Americans, Asian-Americans, Black-Americans, White-Americans, and women-focused movies. Then they yammer about AI and the end of the world. From our sponsor, BetterHelp: Need a therapist? Try BetterHelp! https://www.betterhelp.com/kirkGet started today and enjoy 10% off your first month. Discount code “KIRK" will be automatically applied. https://FactorMeals.com/Seattle50 00:00 How does ChatGPT create the lists? 03:25 ChatGPT's...

Published 03/15/24

Psychology Movies Yammering

Humberto and Kirk list the top 20 psychology movies. From our sponsor, BetterHelp: Need a therapist? Try BetterHelp! https://www.betterhelp.com/kirkGet started today and enjoy 10% off your first month. Discount code “KIRK" will be automatically applied. https://FactorMeals.com/Seattle50 00:00 How accurate is ChatGPT? 01:15 A Beautiful Mind & Good Will Hunting 16:50 Shutter Island 24:04 Buffy & spoiler alerts 33:24 Merch for Berto 34:45 OPP 37:12 The Sixth Sense 46:49 Girl...

Published 03/13/24

Transphobic dating and faking Indigenous identity

Rebecca-sode! Rebecca and Kirk answer patron emails. From our sponsor, BetterHelp: Need a therapist? Try BetterHelp! https://www.betterhelp.com/kirkGet started today and enjoy 10% off your first month. Discount code “KIRK" will be automatically applied. https://FactorMeals.com/Seattle50 00:00 Sex therapy 03:21 Transphobia in dating 18:29 Is there nuance to having a preference? 27:12 How was Tulum, Mexico? 33:48 Portrait photography is hard 37:16 Why might people fake their racial...

Published 03/11/24

Narcissistic Personality Disorder and Domestic Violence (2019 Rerun)

[Rerun] How is narcissistic personality disorder connected with domestic violence? From our sponsor, BetterHelp: Need a therapist? Try BetterHelp! https://www.betterhelp.com/kirkGet started today and enjoy 10% off your first month. Discount code “KIRK" will be automatically applied. https://FactorMeals.com/Seattle50 Become a member: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCOUZWV1DRtHtpP2H48S7iiw/join Become a patron: https://www.patreon.com/PsychologyInSeattle Email:...

Published 03/10/24

The Psychology of Anna Delvey (2019 Rerun)

[Rerun] How did Anna Delvey con all the fancy people in NYC? Dr. Kirk Honda and Humberto discuss. From our sponsor, BetterHelp: Need a therapist? Try BetterHelp! https://www.betterhelp.com/kirkGet started today and enjoy 10% off your first month. Discount code “KIRK" will be automatically applied. https://FactorMeals.com/Seattle50 Become a member: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCOUZWV1DRtHtpP2H48S7iiw/join Become a patron: https://www.patreon.com/PsychologyInSeattle Email:...

Published 03/09/24

Best Movies of 2023

Kirk and Collin Miller rank the best movies of 2023. From our sponsor, BetterHelp: Need a therapist? Try BetterHelp! https://www.betterhelp.com/kirkGet started today and enjoy 10% off your first month. Discount code “KIRK" will be automatically applied. https://FactorMeals.com/Seattle50 00:00 Are there still good movies? 05:43 The Holdovers 17:28 May December 22:13 Bottoms 25:17 Talk to Me 30:09 Dr. Kirk's Oscar picks 58:00 Barbie 1:09:56 Passages 1:15:37 The Killer 1:26:51 The...

Published 03/08/24

Bob’s therapy, attractive clients, and suicidal thoughts

Bob and Kirk answer questions from patrons and YouTube members. From our sponsor, BetterHelp: Need a therapist? Try BetterHelp! https://www.betterhelp.com/kirkGet started today and enjoy 10% off your first month. Discount code “KIRK" will be automatically applied. https://FactorMeals.com/Seattle50 00:00 How can I handle feeling left out at work? 06:15 How can I express my attachment to my therapist? 09:53 How does Bob feel during therapy? 11:37 Is it okay that I feel the best when I'm...

Published 03/06/24

iDubbbz Develops Empathy

Dr Kirk Honda interviews Ian Jomha (AKA iDubbbz) about his path to becoming a controversial “anti-woke” YouTuber, how he developed empathy, and why he took down his past content and apologized. From our sponsor, BetterHelp: Need a therapist? Try BetterHelp! https://www.betterhelp.com/kirkGet started today and enjoy 10% off your first month. Discount code “KIRK" will be automatically applied. https://FactorMeals.com/Seattle50 00:00 Introducing iDubbbz 03:28 How do Dr. Kirk and iDubbbz know...

Published 03/04/24

A Therapist Kisses His Client - Chapter 2 (2016 Rerun)

[Rerun] Dr. Kirk Honda talks with Paulette about a listener who was touched by her therapist. From our sponsor, BetterHelp: Need a therapist? Try BetterHelp! https://www.betterhelp.com/kirkGet started today and enjoy 10% off your first month. Discount code “KIRK" will be automatically applied. https://FactorMeals.com/Seattle50 Become a member: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCOUZWV1DRtHtpP2H48S7iiw/join Become a patron: https://www.patreon.com/PsychologyInSeattle Email:...

Published 03/03/24

A Therapist Kisses His Client - Chapter 1 (2016 Rerun)

Published 03/02/24

Ableism, cured by loss, and eye contact

Dr Kirk Honda responds to patron emails. From our sponsor, BetterHelp: Need a therapist? Try BetterHelp! https://www.betterhelp.com/kirkGet started today and enjoy 10% off your first month. Discount code “KIRK" will be automatically applied. https://FactorMeals.com/Seattle50 00:00 Can you be cured by loss? 14:24 Examples of ableism 41:27 Parenting and ableism 1:08:47 OPP 1:11:20 Anxiety & eye contact Become a member:...

Published 03/01/24

Patriarchy, returning to abuser, and infidelity

Bob and Kirk answer questions from patrons and YouTube members. From our sponsor, BetterHelp: Need a therapist? Try BetterHelp! https://www.betterhelp.com/kirkGet started today and enjoy 10% off your first month. Discount code “KIRK" will be automatically applied. https://FactorMeals.com/Seattle50 00:00 Is a therapist an expensive friend? 16:41 OPP 17:53 Can the legal system support victims? 31:01 OPP 2 31:55 Dr. Kirk befriends the Lyft drivers 36:31 Is there a dark side to butler...

Published 02/28/24

Boundaries

Dr Kirk Honda lectures about systems theory, boundaries, routines, feedback, cybernetics, differentiation, etc. From our sponsor, BetterHelp: Need a therapist? Try BetterHelp! https://www.betterhelp.com/kirkGet started today and enjoy 10% off your first month. Discount code “KIRK" will be automatically applied. https://FactorMeals.com/Seattle50 00:00 What are boundaries & limits? 21:40 Co-opting respected terms 28:01 What was the original purpose of trigger warnings? 37:08 The rise...

Published 02/26/24

12 Ways to Overcome Anxiety (2015 Rerun)

[Rerun] Dr. Kirk Honda talks about ways to overcome anxiety. From our sponsor, BetterHelp: Need a therapist? Try BetterHelp! https://www.betterhelp.com/kirkGet started today and enjoy 10% off your first month. Discount code “KIRK" will be automatically applied. https://FactorMeals.com/Seattle50 Become a member: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCOUZWV1DRtHtpP2H48S7iiw/join Become a patron: https://www.patreon.com/PsychologyInSeattle Email:...

Published 02/25/24

Oppositional Defiant Disorder (2013 Rerun)

[Rerun] Dr. Kirk talks about oppositional defiant disorder and emotional parenting. From our sponsor, BetterHelp: Need a therapist? Try BetterHelp! https://www.betterhelp.com/kirkGet started today and enjoy 10% off your first month. Discount code “KIRK" will be automatically applied. https://FactorMeals.com/Seattle50 Become a member: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCOUZWV1DRtHtpP2H48S7iiw/join Become a patron: https://www.patreon.com/PsychologyInSeattle Email:...

Published 02/24/24

Deprogramming Abuse, Kirk Dreams, and Codependency

Dr Kirk Honda responds to patron emails. From our sponsor, BetterHelp: Need a therapist? Try BetterHelp! https://www.betterhelp.com/kirkGet started today and enjoy 10% off your first month. Discount code “KIRK" will be automatically applied. https://FactorMeals.com/Seattle50 00:00 How can I open up in therapy? 10:07 What am I feeling? 30:30 Is there a way to separate without leaving? 34:11 r/Therapist meme 43:19 OPP 44:24 Kirk dreams 1:01:54 Can someone have multiple personality...

Published 02/23/24

Touching Therapists, Butlers, and Immoral Kirk

Bob and Kirk answer questions from patrons and YouTube members. From our sponsor, BetterHelp: Need a therapist? Try BetterHelp! https://www.betterhelp.com/kirkGet started today and enjoy 10% off your first month. Discount code “KIRK" will be automatically applied. https://FactorMeals.com/Seattle50 00:00 Safety in therapy 03:30 Boundaries in therapy 09:41 Is it ok to ask for physical touch in therapy? 40:15 Recognizing and accepting your needs 1:08:42 Is it ok to go to therapy without a...

Published 02/21/24

Alena Interview

Alena Honda discusses their initial experience in grad school to become a therapist. From our sponsor, BetterHelp: Need a therapist? Try BetterHelp! https://www.betterhelp.com/kirkGet started today and enjoy 10% off your first month. Discount code “KIRK" will be automatically applied. https://FactorMeals.com/Seattle50 00:00 Introducing Alena 04:07 Why did Alena want to become a therapist? 16:55 What does Alena hope to do in the future? 20:43 When did they decide to go to grad...

Published 02/19/24

Narcissistic Personality Disorder - Chapter 2 (Deep Dive) (2018 Rerun)

[Rerun] Part 2 of Dr. Kirk’s deep dive on NPD. (Intro) From our sponsor, BetterHelp: Need a therapist? Try BetterHelp! https://www.betterhelp.com/kirkGet started today and enjoy 10% off your first month. Discount code “KIRK" will be automatically applied. https://FactorMeals.com/Seattle50 Become a member: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCOUZWV1DRtHtpP2H48S7iiw/join Become a patron: https://www.patreon.com/PsychologyInSeattle Email: https://www.psychologyinseattle.com/contact Website:...

Published 02/18/24

Narcissistic Personality Disorder - Chapter 1 (Deep Dive) (2018 Rerun)

[Rerun] Dr. Kirk does a deep dive on narcissism. From our sponsor, BetterHelp: Need a therapist? Try BetterHelp! https://www.betterhelp.com/kirkGet started today and enjoy 10% off your first month. Discount code “KIRK" will be automatically applied. https://FactorMeals.com/Seattle50 Become a member: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCOUZWV1DRtHtpP2H48S7iiw/join Become a patron: https://www.patreon.com/PsychologyInSeattle Email: https://www.psychologyinseattle.com/contact Website:...

Published 02/17/24