Episodes
Hello gorgeous lady! Today we are going to look at your marital status, your singleness, from a unique perspective.  Your singleness is foreplay!  What if where you are right now as a single lady is the foreplay that will set you up for the climax of you getting what you want? What if the exploration, pleasure and patience that is part of sexual foreplay can teach you something about how to life your life right now? Come with me in this episode as I unpack my theory that thinking about your...
Published 05/20/24
Hello gorgeous lady! Are you wondering how many more first dates you have to endure before you meet your person? Or how many more times you will be lifting that 10lb. weight at the gym before you can lift the 15lb. weight.? Whatever your desire or goal, you start out motivated and stoked to get what you want.  Then the grind sets in and you begin to wonder how much longer, how many more dates, or lifts or whatever before you finally arrive! This not knowing is uncomfortable and can even seem...
Published 05/13/24
Hello gorgeous lady! Are you wondering why it is that you are still single? Are you frustrated and getting a little desperate to change your marital status? Have you given up and worry that you have become the stereotypical cranky spinster? Are you open to considering something you may not have thought about before? If you answer ‘Yes’ or even ‘Maybe’ to any of those questions, this is the episode for you!  I happen to know for sure one of the reasons you are stuck and we will talk about it,...
Published 05/06/24
Hello gorgeous lady! Mother’s Day began more than 110 years ago.  Since that time women have shed tears on that day…tears of joy and tears of sadness. Mother’s Day can be joyful or sad and sometimes just plain old stinky depending on what is going on for you as that holiday rolls around.  Regardless if you are single with or without children, or married with or without children, it can be a challenging day. In this episode we talk about why it can be challenging and I tell you the truth about...
Published 04/29/24
Hey gorgeous, welcome to an inspiring episode of the Single Christian Woman Podcast. In this episode, we address a question that may be familiar to many women - feeling stuck in the cycle of singleness and desiring marriage.  Often, your logic gets overshadowed by the noise in your head. The thought of trying something new seems daunting and the journey towards marriage appears to be a wild rollercoaster ride.  This episode not only tackles the practical methods to gain self-confidence and...
Published 04/22/24
Hello gorgeous lady! Most little girls dream about their wedding day.  Do you still dream about your wedding day?  Do you spend anytime planning your wedding? Just because it hasn’t happened does that mean it won’t happen?  Maybe because you are still single, you are worried and have lost all confidence that you will get married and therefore have given up on your dream. In today’s episode we are going to talk all about getting you what you want!  You want to get married.  Let’s talk about...
Published 04/15/24
Hello gorgeous lady! Are you confident in your career yet feeling insecure about how that might be affecting your dating life? Do you think that perhaps the fact that you are smart and have a successful career is keeping you stuck in singleness?  Are you worried that men are intimidated by your smarts and success? Maybe you have even received feedback from a man that you are “too much”. All good questions that perhaps are causing you to wonder if you should “tone it down a bit” so that you...
Published 04/08/24
Hello my friend! Are you satisfied with your sexuality? What do you wish were different maybe better about this area of your life? What are your fears or apprehensions about it? What is the generational story about sexuality that you have adopted as your own? If you are interested in beginning an open and honest conversation about sexuality, you are right where you should be!  In today’s conversation we will begin a conversation about sexuality by helping you uncover your current beliefs...
Published 04/01/24
Hello my friend! Let’s talk about money! What do you think about money?  If you had a friend named “Money”, how would you describe your relationship with her? Is she fun, easy to be with and you love her? Or is she hard, not good enough and you ignore her? Money!  You have a relationship with her, whether or not your think you do.  Let’s dive in and take a look at your relationship with your friend, Money! Grab your diet coke, put in those earbuds and let’s talk friend to friend. What’s...
Published 03/25/24
Hello my friend! Do you know where you will be in six months? Do you know what will be different about you in six months? Do you know what you want your future to look like? In this episode we are talking all about your future and how you can confidently plan for it. And I will be helping you to discover the opinion of two people who have a lot to say about your future. Grab your diet coke, put in those earbuds and let’s talk friend to friend. What’s next? Share this episode with all your...
Published 03/18/24
Hello my friend! This episode might be a tad uncomfortable!  Warning!  LOL. Today we are going to talk about the habit most of us have of being critical of other people in our lives. Not only will we look at why we criticize others, we will look at the impact this habit has on our self-confidence. And I will teach you one of the best ways to stop criticizing and therefore improve your self-confidence. While this one may make you uncomfortable, it is important to talk about.   Let’s get after...
Published 03/11/24
Hello my friend! Do you hide in the back when pictures are taken? What do you think about what you see, when you stand naked in front of a mirror?  Do you even allow yourself to look? When you head to the beach do you enjoy the sun on your skin or are you all covered up? Today we are talking all about bodies.  What we think about our bodies.  We are going to talk about your body image and I am going to teach you 3 ways you can love your body better. This is such an important conversation. ...
Published 03/04/24
Hello my friend! I cannot wait to teach you what I am about to teach you. Most of you listening to this podcast are single for one reason or another.  And all of us regardless of marital status have felt lonely at some point. We don’t like being lonely.  I want you to consider that you aren’t really lonely at all.  What you are is just plain old BORED! What?  Bored?!  In this episode I am going to show you how it might be boredom and not loneliness that is fueling your life right now.  And I...
Published 02/26/24
Hello my friend! Do you find yourself judging and criticizing others instead of loving them? Do you find it hard to let go of habits that are keeping you stuck? Do you find that perfectionism isn’t all that helpful and is actually holding you back? If you answer yes to any of those questions, you are in the right place.  I’ve got an episode that is full of helps just for you. In this episode I share 3 happy life hacks married women want you to know.  Not only do I share their hacks but you...
Published 02/19/24
Hello my friend! Are you wondering if you are doing life right?  Do you worry about the timing of things happening or not happening in your life?  Or maybe your question is if God even loves you? One thing we know for sure about life is it is full of uncertainty.  That uncertainty is what brings forth the questions we most want answered. In this episode we are diving right into the uncertainty of life asking those questions that we all want answered. We will talk about three questions that we...
Published 02/12/24
Hey my brilliant friend! It you ask me, one of the potentially most painful holidays is just days away…Valentines Day!  As a single woman February 14th was one of my least favorite days.  Co-workers with big bouquets of roses on their desk, heart shaped boxes of candy and mushy cards everywhere.  Yet for me, nothing.  No flowers, no heart shaped boxes or mushy cards.  Just me feeling some level of loneliness. Do you know what I’m talking about?  Is your February 14th similar?  Lonely. And...
Published 02/05/24
Hey gorgeous! Have you noticed that some women seem to get whatever it is they go after?  While you, on the other hand, struggle to have the confidence to even take the first step toward your goals.  Why is it that they lucked out and were born with self-confidence and you were not? I know the answer to those questions.  And in this episode, I am going to share with you the 3 must haves for self-confidence.  And not just regular self-confidence, I’m talking rock-solid self-confidence. So,...
Published 01/29/24
Hey gorgeous! How is life going?  Is your answer to that question, “Everything is going wrong.”  Or maybe your answer is “My life is a mess right now.” If life is that way right now you, my friend, are in the right place.  This episode is all about the times when everything is going wrong.  I have 4 things for you to remember when life is hard.  My four things to remember, might challenge you a bit or at least make you think.  I invite you to listen in and consider that what I offer is worth...
Published 01/22/24
Hey gorgeous! What are we talking about today? We are going to talk about how to meet men!! It is human nature to ask “how” when you are trying to do something that is new or scary.  “How am I supposed to do that?”  You want to know the how before you even start.  You are conditioned to believe that you need to know the “how” before you start.  That belief can keep you stuck.  You don’t have to stay stuck waiting for the “how” you can unleash the power of your amazing brain to come up with...
Published 01/15/24
Hey gorgeous! Are you ready to let go of the past?  Are you wanting to step into your future yet not sure how, given how life has worked out so far? Well, in this episode I am going to teach you the ABCs of what to bring with you and what to leave behind as your let go of your past and step into your future. Not only will I teach you what to leave behind and take with you I will teach you how to do it! Let’s jump in. What’s Next: Screen shot and share this episode on Instagram.  Tag me...
Published 01/08/24
Hello my gorgeous friend! I am super excited about today’s conversation. What I am about to teach you changed my life when I learned it 4 years ago. We are going to talk about how you can create the life that you want. That may sound rather lofty…but it is possible.  You can create the life you want to live. I will teach you the 4 elements of life, how they interact and how they impact your ability to create the results you want in your life.  Spoiler alert…as you come to understand what I am...
Published 01/01/24
Hello my gorgeous friend! I am super excited about today’s conversation. We are going to talk about miracles!  Perfect conversation as today is Christmas Day 2023. We are going to dig into and answer 3 specific questions… Do you need a miracle? Do you believe the Lord can work a miracle in your life? What does it take to receive a miracle? During the episode I will share one of my own miracle stories and offer up several strategies that you can borrow to bring your own personal miracle to...
Published 12/25/23
Hello my gorgeous friend! Have you been looking at the pool of possible men and find it to be shallow? Does it seem that all of the good men are already taken?  Are you wondering if it is time to move somewhere else to find love? Great question!  This episode is all about making that very decision.  Whether or not you should stay right where you are or move, I invite you to consider 4 truths… Consider that you might be about to play wack-a-mole Your brain goes with you Whatever you decide...
Published 12/18/23
It is confession time! Time to be vulnerable and share some of the juicy details of dating. In this episode I share three of my own dating relationship stories and the three lessons I learned from those relationships.  I invite you to listen in and lean into these three lessons and then let them become 3 tips you will keep in mind on your next date. Don’t be stupid! Instead, be smart!  There is a reason that “patience” is the first attribute of Charity.  And there is a reason why we don’t get...
Published 12/11/23