In this episode, your Triggered hosts discuss another dope topic that doesn’t get talked about enough - adoption. And here to answer some of the questions many want to ask but few have the access or ability to, Alechia and Dani welcome Erin Quick - founder of PairTree and self-described modern adoption advocate.   Discussing the realities of adoption as opposed to what we may hear on the grapevine, tune in as Erin debunks common adoption misconceptions, shares her own dark days of infertility, and why her jaw-dropped when she went through the adoption process.    KEY POINTS: The jaw-dropping realities of the adoption process Steps to navigate the grief that comes with infertility Challenges of transracial adoption and resources to overcome them  Do Black families adopt? Debunking the myth  Common misconceptions around adoption What is “adoptive parent guilt”?   QUOTABLES: “When you get pregnant, and then when you lose a baby, it's one of the darkest times and it's not talked about, and it's there. When you do talk about it, you realize you're actually part of a gigantic club.” - Erin Quick   GUEST RESOURCES: Erin Quick Pairtreefamily.com IG | instagram.com/pairtreefamily FB | facebook.com/PairTreeFamily   PRODUCTS / RESOURCES: For more info, visit their website: triggeredafpodcast.com Like what you're hearing? Follow Triggered AF on their Socials and share the love! IG: instagram.com/triggeredafpc Twitter: twitter.com/triggeredafpc FB: facebook.com/triggeredafpc YouTube: youtube.com/channel/UCNxXUw6_j_pMnfd5ASIGAOQ   Stay connected with your hosts! Alechia Reese | instagram.com/alechiareese/ Dani Bourdeau | instagram.com/thedanibourdeau/         Triggered AF is edited by Instapodcasts (visit at instapodcasts.com)