In “The Road Less Traveled” episode, Caryn Ward Ross, award-winning award-winning actress, producer, and writer emphasized that sometimes you figure out who you are by figuring out who you are not. As the founder of Main Character Energy University and the creator of the transformative (Re) Write Your Life Story Method™️, she encouraged us to allow yourself the space and grace to figure out who you are not because it fine-tunes who you are supposed to be. When no one chooses you, you choose you. Failure is not final, and as long as you’re living you have another opportunity to create a life that works for you. Our pain is not just for us. When we master and come through it, we become a distribution site for healing and transformation for other people. Use your insight to hold the vision of who you are and don’t always lean into your eyesight — that’s holding the vision of who you are.    KEY POINTS: Sometimes we discover more of who we are by experiencing who we are not. When it’s now or never, choose now.  When you allow others to dictate your life, you become a supporting character in your own life.  Hold the vision of who you are! That’s insight, not eyesight.    QUOTABLES: “Sometimes we discover more of who we are by experiencing who we are not.” “If you’re not willing to fail and mess up how will you know when it looks and feels right?” “If it’s going to be then it’s up to me.” “Our pain is not just for us. When we master and come through it, we become a distribution site for healing and transformation for other people.”   Watch the episode on YouTube: https://youtu.be/mws0FYaBMvg   CONNECT WITH OUR GUEST: Caryn Ward Ross  Website | https://www.main-character-energy.com/maincharacterpower IG | https://www.instagram.com/carynwardross   CONNECT WITH YOUR HOSTS: Alechia Reese For coaching, visit: http://gotvaluenation.com Instagram | instagram.com/alechiareese LinkedIn | linkedin.com/alechiareese Dani Bourdeau For coaching, visit: http://danifostercoaching.com Instagram.com/thedanibourdeau   RESOURCES: For more info, visit: http://triggeredafpodcast.com   Like what you're hearing? Follow Triggered AF and share the love! IG: instagram.com/triggeredafpc Twitter: twitter.com/triggeredafpc FB: facebook.com/triggeredafpc YouTube: youtube.com/channel/@triggeredafpodcast   Triggered AF Podcast is produced by Triggered Media Group.