With new artwork and a brand new theme tune to boot, Sande and Lance give a glimpse of what Two Lucky B*#%*@ds Season Two is all about.  For more information about the podcast check out the show notes at https://twoluckybastards.weebly.com/ See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

In this episode Sande and Lance discuss a myriad of things that arose for each of them as they read chapters 21 & 22 of Barbara Sumner's evocative and thought provoking book Tree of Strangers, published by Massey University Press. Today's discussions are, at times, heated, animated and divergent - as Lance and Sande tackle everything from the controversial Adopted Child Syndrome, to the various ways of approaching advocacy, to the ways of water and a whole lot more. As always the...

In this episode Sande and Lance talk about a myriad of issues that came up for them as they read chapters 19 & 20 of Barbara Sumner's wonderful book Tree of Strangers, published by Massey University Press. Well, to be honest, Lance does a lot of talking and Sande graciously listens and reflects. Lance tells a bit more of his story, or what he remembers of it through the fuzziness of time. Lance also talk about things that trigger him. Plus they talk about reunions, earthquakes, cuckoos...

In this episode Sande and Lance dive into chapters 17 & 18 of Barbara Sumner's wonderful book Tree of Strangers, published by Massey University Press. They consider the impact of relinquishment, the social fabric of New Zealand during the baby scoop era, the role of narrative and rewriting our narratives, and the power of ritual in the adoptive life. As always the opinions presented on this podcast are not necessarily those of the author of Tree of Strangers, rather they are our take on...

In this episode Sande and Lance consider the ideas that have arisen for them out of chapters 15 & 16 of Barbara Sumner's wonderful book Tree of Strangers, published by Massey University Press. Today they reflect on the concept of home, and where this is for adopted people. They talk about what it mean to be grateful and or lucky, and they also consider the impact of the adoptive experience on risky behaviour. As always the opinions presented on this podcast are not necessarily those of...

Sande and Lance are back after an unexpected break to unpack the ideas that have arisen for them out of chapter 14 of Barbara Sumner's wonderful book Tree of Strangers, published by Massey University Press.In this episode they consider ideas around time, adoption language and a whole lot more. As always the opinions presented on this podcast are not necessarily those of the author of Tree of Strangers, rather they are our take on her amazing book, and the issues that it raises for us as we...

In this very short episode Sande and Lance have a very brief conversation life, death and taking care life throws you lemon.   See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

In this "unplugged" episode Sande and Lance consider the ideas that have arisen for them out of chapter 13 of Barbara Sumner's book Tree of Strangers, published by Massey University Press. They think about the impact creating the podcast has had on them and consider the place of tender resilience in the adoptive experience, the idea of names and what it means when names are changed, as well as delving into some debate around the current review of Adoption legislation in Aotearoa/New Zealand....

In this Episode Lance and Sande are joined by Jo Willis, a professional Coach, Mentor and the co-author of the adoption memoir, Awoken: Surviving and thriving through the Adoption Journey. Together they tackle the issues raised for them from chapter twelve of Barbara Sumner's Tree of Strangers. The main focus of the episode is on the difficult area of navigating relationships as adopted people, and the issues of trust and vulnerability that can get in the way of forming healthy relationships....

In this Episode Lance and Sande unpack some of the ideas that are raised for them in chapter eleven of Barbara Sumner's Tree of Strangers. Primarily they talk about the impact of trauma in the adoptive experience as well as considering the impact of trauma on relationships. If you find the episode helpful, then share it with your friends. For information about this episode, and every episode ever released, check out their webpage: https://twoluckybastards.weebly.com/ where you can find all...

In this Episode Lance and Sande springboard off ideas raised in chapter ten of Barbara Sumner's Tree of Strangers. They consider the rights of adopted persons and the implications for donor conceived people as well. They then discuss some current stories in the media around adoption, before diving into the biblical story of Abraham & Isaac and the potential role of restorative justice in the adoptive experience. If you find the episode helpful, then share it with your friends. Also check...

In this Episode Lance and Sande discuss ideas and themes raised in chapter nine of Barbara Sumner's wonderful book Tree of Strangers. Together they discuss role of fantasy and imagination in the adoptive experience, the power of tangible symbols of what has been lost. If you find the episode helpful, then share it with your friends. Also check out their webpage: https://twoluckybastards.weebly.com/ where you can find all the show notes and much more.   See acast.com/privacy for privacy and...

Sande and Lance are joined by an extra-special guest, the wonderful Barbara Sumner, the author of Tree of Strangers. Together they discuss the issues of loss, pain and hope, and consider ways in which adoptive persons can find their voice and speak out about their experiences.   See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

In this episode Sande and Lance return to the topic of myth and mythology, picked up in episode 6. However recording the episode is not as straightforward as they thought and they For up down a myriad of rabbit holes. The episode gives thought to a number of issues including adoption and faith, adoption as a political construct designed to disempower women, and (as usual) a whole lot more. For more information about the episode, and every episode released check out their webpage:...

Sande and Lance return after their long and glorious Southern Hemisphere hiatus - full of energy and life. In this episode they consider chapter six of Barbara Sumner's book Tree of Strangers and the topics that arise from it for them. They discuss adoption in myth and mythology, the role and place of the orphan archetype, and adoption fog. For more information about the episode, and every episode released check out their webpage: https://twoluckybastards.weebly.com/ where you can find all...

In this episode Sande and Lance discuss everything from the unconscious memory, the impact of infertility, the adoption industry, baby farming and infanticide and the impact this had on adoption practices, as well as the Royal Commission into Abuse in Care. A rollicking ride with a few rants along the way. Of course, don't forget to check out our webpage: https://twoluckybastards.weebly.com/ where you can find all the show notes and much more, as well as links to our FaceBoo and Patreon...

In this episode Sande and Lance discuss the sensitive issues of infertility, building family and the difficult experiences that many adoptees from the baby-scoop era had in coming to terms with what it meant to be adopted.   See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

In this episode, Lance and Sande explore chapter three of Tree of Strangers by Barbara Sumner.  They consider the big issues of identity, bloodlines, brokenness and the spirit of harlotry (whatever that might be).   Don't forget to check out our webpage: https://twoluckybastards.weebly.com/ where you can find all the show notes and much more, and like us on FaceBook.   See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

Springboarding off themes raised in chapter two of Barbara Sumner's book, Tree of Strangers, Lance and Sande consider the issues of attachment and loss as they relate to adoptees.  They also unpack notions of the divine feminine, orphans & adoption labels and a whole lot more.   Don't forget to check out our webpage: https://twoluckybastards.weebly.com/ where you can find all the show notes and much more, and like us on FaceBook.

This is episode one of Two Lucky B*#%*@ds​.  It is quite a ramble through some of the big issues for adoptees (many of which will be picked up in more details future episodes).  If you like it share it with your friends.  Also check out our webpage: https://twoluckybastards.weebly.com/ where you can find all the show notes and much more.

A taste of what Two Lucky B*#%*@ds is all about.  Sande and Lance introduce themselves, their views on how adoption impacted them, and how the podcast came about.  For more info check out the show notes at https://twoluckybastards.weebly.com/