How People-Pleasing is Killing Your Confidence
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You might not know it…but if you’re a people-pleaser, your need to be liked is seriously f*cking with your confidence. How do I know? Because once upon a time, I was also a people-pleaser. …No, seriously. I was 100% a people pleaser.  I don’t come off like one now. I’ve done a lot of f”cking work to clean up that pattern. But let me tell you…until I did, my confidence was f*cked. If you’re not willing to be totally, courageously yourself—and you’ve got a bad habit of trying to chameleon to whatever expectations or desires other people have for you—then you’re going to be in for a rude awakening when you can no longer keep up that mask. And there’s only one way to kick the habit.   WORK WITH MICHELLE:  Join The EXPERIENCE, a year-long mentorship for the woman who wants to play in the frequency of big love, epic sex and mind-blowing relationships with men…and herself: https://michellepanning.com/the-experience  Join MAIN CHARACTER ENERGY, a 6-week course on becoming the main character of your life and stepping into delusional confidence: https://michellepanning.com/main-character-energy   CONNECT WITH MICHELLE: Instagram: http://www.instagram.com/michellepanning Website: http://www.michellepanning.com
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