Forgive and forget. “Can’t we just let the past be in the past and move forward?” To someone who has been in a relationship with a narcissist or an extremely emotionally immature person, these concepts can have a negative impact, adding additional layers of guilt and shame to a situation already heavy with “what’s wrong with me?” messages. Today, Tony covers the contrasting concepts of 'acceptance' and 'forgiveness.' Explore why the nuanced understanding of acceptance, as outlined in Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT), can offer a more compassionate and realistic pathway to emotional well-being than traditional notions of forgiveness. Learn why acceptance is not just about tolerating but fully embracing your emotions, allowing you to deal with life's challenges in a healthier way.Tony then demystifies the often misunderstood terms of narcissism and emotional immaturity, emphasizing the importance of personal accountability in relationships. Discover the role of 'calm, confident energy' and how it facilitates emotional differentiation, aiding in healthier interpersonal interactions. Gain insights into the science behind mindfulness and why it's crucial for emotional clarity and self-awareness. Rounded with actionable steps to integrate these principles into your everyday life, this episode is a guide to becoming a more resilient and happier version of yourself."The ice bath that Tony mentioned in today's episode is from "The Ice Pod" company - you can find it here https://snwbl.io/pod-company/ANTHONY78737 (https://snwbl.io/pod-company/ANTHONY78737)Subscribe to Tony's latest podcast, "Waking Up to Narcissism Q&A - Premium Podcast," on the Apple Podcast App. https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/waking-up-to-narcissism-q-a/id1667287384 (https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/waking-up-to-narcissism-q-a/id1667287384)Find all the latest links to podcasts, courses, Tony's newsletter, and more at https://linktr.ee/virtualcouch (https://linktr.ee/virtualcouch)Go to http://tonyoverbay.com/workshop to sign up for Tony's "Magnetize Your Marriage" virtual workshop. The cost is only $19, and you'll learn the top 3 things you can do NOW to create a Magnetic Marriage. You can learn more about Tony's pornography recovery program, The Path Back, by visiting http://pathbackrecovery.com Tony mentioned a product that he used to take out all of the "uh's" and "um's" that, in his words, "must be created by wizards and magic!" because it's that good! To learn more about Descript, click here https://descript.com?lmref=bSWcEQ