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“This podcast has been life changing for me. I truly never knew what I didn't know and am sadden that I didn’t know I had developed so many emotionally immature practices in my marriage. Each episode has contained so many aha moments that help me make positive healthy changes and help me grow...”Read full review »
Agehushs via Apple Podcasts ·
United States of America ·
10/28/24
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“This podcast has helped me so much with accepting my situation and finding some acceptance and peace. Thank you so much for everything and please keep the episodes coming. I rely on these more than you know.”
Kickgreyest via Apple Podcasts ·
United States of America ·
07/23/24
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“Clear explanations with helpful advice. After 40 years of futile attempts to “fix” the marriage I am finally focussing on myself instead. It’s good to know what seemed so uniquely complicated in our relationship can be identified so accurately as parts of a recognizable syndrome.”
iwantedthefamily via Apple Podcasts ·
United States of America ·
07/22/24
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“I’d be utterly lost without this podcast. I've learned so much, had so many epiphanies, and I'm learning that I do actually need counselling.”Read full review »
Susan-Marie via Apple Podcasts ·
Great Britain ·
05/14/24
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“This podcast is helping me so much. I have recently realized that I have been in toxic relationships my whole life and this podcast and other materials have helped me to discover WHY. Something I have been wondering my whole life! I listen to this podcast when I feel myself getting back into...”Read full review »
New mom 33 via Apple Podcasts ·
United States of America ·
04/17/24
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“The emotional whiplash episode was so validating. It really hit home.”
JenTris4Water via Apple Podcasts ·
United States of America ·
01/18/24
“Listening to this podcast has opened up my eyes to the narcissists in my family. It has been like a guidebook & helped me learn. Learn how to communicate with them & how to avoid confrontation. I don’t take a lot of things as personally as I used to.”
JesseSVA via Apple Podcasts ·
United States of America ·
12/12/23
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“He is excellent. Breaking things down into what I call “Anna terms”. I have come so far in not only finding out what kind of person I was with. But also opening my eyes to my “faults” for a lack of better terms. I am becoming whole, finally. I watch myself or see myself failing back into old...”Read full review »
Believe in life after narc via Apple Podcasts ·
United States of America ·
12/09/23
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“Tony is a wonderful podcast host and his humour is so appreciated as he talks about such a heavy topic. He does so with a perfect balance. I have leant so much from this podcast whilst waking up to the abuse in my own life. It has been invaluable. I love all the tangents he goes on, and all his...”Read full review »
MAN but no man via Apple Podcasts ·
Norway ·
12/01/23
“Tony and this podcast are fantastic. I so appreciate how authentic and open he is, even about himself throughout the podcast. I’ve read and listened to soooo many resources on narcissism that have been so life saving and valuable. This is up there as one of the most thorough, thought provoking,...”Read full review »
Wendy Pinkerton via Apple Podcasts ·
United States of America ·
11/24/23
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“This podcast opened my eyes and has given me so much hope. I knew I was in an abusive marriage but was questioning if I was being too sensitive or that I’m the problem. I’ve learned what to do to get through this, I’ve started counseling, am in the support group, meditating, journaling, and doing...”Read full review »
cat1786 via Apple Podcasts ·
United States of America ·
11/23/23
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“I am an adult (52 yo) in the throws of realizing that my immediate family members are narcissists. I am being isolated from them as I start pushing back and I’m realizing that no one will hear or understand me so I am desperate for material to help me understand my experience. The episodes I’ve...”Read full review »
carey123123123 via Apple Podcasts ·
United States of America ·
11/23/23
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“Absolutely love this podcast. I stumbled on it a few days ago, after searching for more info about narcissist spouses. Tony, does an amazing job using outside resources, viewers shared experiences, and his wealth of knowledge to beautifully articulate narcissist/ emotional immaturity behavior. I...”Read full review »
mycrewof7 via Apple Podcasts ·
United States of America ·
11/02/23
“Tony Overbay sincerely cares about people and it shows. He has a lot of experience with narcissistic relationships and I have had plenty of aha moments when listening to him.”
JenT Avid Listener via Apple Podcasts ·
United States of America ·
11/01/23
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“Although I have deep dived information on narcissism for the last year and a half or so, this podcast has been my favorite on the subject. I like that Tony meets people where they are. I like that he gives practical, grace-giving advice, for people at all stages of learning about narcissism and...”Read full review »
ZizzyLouc via Apple Podcasts ·
United States of America ·
10/17/23
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“As a man who is waking up to narcissism from their wife, this podcast has truly pulled me from the depths of misunderstanding and dark places in my mind I never thought I would go. Not only was my heart broke, but my soul broken and the way that Tony reminds me that “I am seen and I am heard”,...”Read full review »
Flusteredsoldier via Apple Podcasts ·
United States of America ·
09/30/23
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“I enjoy information. It is almost like a conversation but one sided. Tony Overbay doesn’t sound monotonous, he throws in some jokes here and there. Tangents happen (as they do in real life). I love how he takes moments to self reflect to make sure he isn’t falling into traps. It makes me also...”Read full review »
jen_em via Apple Podcasts ·
United States of America ·
08/07/23
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“In my journey of self reflection and the desire to better understand those around me, I came across this podcast. I really appreciate the framework and lack of blame put on others. “We don’t know what we don’t know.” It helps to remain compassionate when immaturity rears its ugly head. Tony,...”Read full review »
Raina Esmae via Apple Podcasts ·
United States of America ·
07/24/23
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“You are helping me recognise my own traits but mostly helping me realise I’m not mad because he made me feel like it was all me. I am broken but I believe this podcast is helping me. I cannot thank you enough. I love your tangents, I love that you circle back on things, it is so helpful when...”Read full review »
NicolaT111 via Apple Podcasts ·
Great Britain ·
06/25/23
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“I am 65 years old and have had a low self esteem my entire life. My mom criticized everyone, and didn’t protect me from an older brother who constantly teased and bullied me. I married a narcissist and both of my adult children have narcissistic traits. I am grateful to wake up to my...”Read full review »
Grandmacanthink via Apple Podcasts ·
United States of America ·
06/12/23
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“Tony you are a gift to this world!! I have had nothing but aha moments over and over since listening to your podcast. Honestly I’m forever grateful and in awe of your knowledge and sound advice on narcissism and dealing with adult children. Thank you for being such a decent person and someone to...”Read full review »
Slowed Poke via Apple Podcasts ·
Canada ·
06/07/23
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“I’ve been in a marriage with a Narcissist that lasted 2 years, which I was told is relatively short for that kind of relationship. I STILL have issues from that marriage and I’ve been out of that marriage for 9 years.
I just want to say that I am so grateful for resources like this because...”Read full review »
bookwormbree4 via Apple Podcasts ·
United States of America ·
06/05/23
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“Very informative and useful content.
Thank you.”
SLO CA Native via Apple Podcasts ·
United States of America ·
05/31/23
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“It’s really a shame that the toxic ppl have to try to sabotage helpful resources.. please listen vs reading reviews only. Also, it’s common to say him or her when the gender is not the important part of the message.. insert whomever and whatever details make it beneficial to your situation.. I...”Read full review »
Pilotswife94 via Apple Podcasts ·
United States of America ·
03/25/23
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“I can’t say enough good things about this podcast, and how much it’s unbelievably helped me along my journey of self discovery, and how to avoiding getting into another narcissistic relationship.
I have been searching all over trying to figure out how I can sign up for the female page on Facebook?”
Dinthehouse via Apple Podcasts ·
United States of America ·
02/21/23
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“I love this podcast. Tony does an excellent job on educating the listeners on emotional immaturity and narcissism. I am a therapist and have listened to many similar podcasts. This is the one I refer my clients to. His style is so warm and friendly. It’s easy listening. Highly recommend you...”Read full review »
Runnin Shelly via Apple Podcasts ·
United States of America ·
02/20/23
“I have woken up recently to my own narcissistic tendencies. I am seeking out everything I can to give me better understanding, and want to change. Majority of the information (articles,
podcasts, videos, etc. ) that I have been able to find so far is all coming from a place of bitterness and...”Read full review »
J!mbo $lice via Apple Podcasts ·
United States of America ·
02/10/23
“I couldn’t make sense of anything before found this podcast! In desperation to understand why my marriage was falling a part one minute and a honeymoon the next, someone told me to look up narcissism and HSP. This podcast gave me the understanding I needed to break out of fight or flight response...”Read full review »
Some1s Wife via Apple Podcasts ·
United States of America ·
02/10/23
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“I have been looking for answers for so long and this amazing podcast is finally giving me many of the answers I have been looking for. Internet searches will not give you the gold you will find here. I feel like I’m getting hours and hours of free therapy because I will listen, have a thought,...”Read full review »
J-Frazzle via Apple Podcasts ·
United States of America ·
02/09/23
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“Thank you for your podcasts!! They have helped me in my process of healing in so many ways. I’m praying for God to bless you!”
Shannon0808 via Apple Podcasts ·
United States of America ·
02/03/23
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“Tony's podcasts are so incredible and an answer to my soul searching and prayers. I appreciate what he has learned through his practice as a therapist and then takes the time to share the tools with us on this podcast. Episode 50, 52 and 54 had such a huge impact on my spirit that I feel...”Read full review »
You will be so happy with it via Apple Podcasts ·
Canada ·
01/26/23
“Thank you so much, Tony for your amazing podcast. The topics, guest speakers and your advice and tips for navigating a relationship with a narcissist have been tremendously helpful. Narcissists are complex, difficult and crazy-making. Learning more and more and working through your tools has...”Read full review »
LBP33 via Apple Podcasts ·
United States of America ·
01/17/23
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“Thank you Tony for taking the time and making the effort to put this great resource together for the community!! As someone who’s lived through narcissistic abuse while also becoming aware of my own emotional immaturity, your guidance and episodes are healing and helpful. What a great...”Read full review »
3 buoys via Apple Podcasts ·
United States of America ·
01/09/23
“E. Twice really relate to and both of you have eat advice”
sandydan3801 via Apple Podcasts ·
United States of America ·
01/08/23
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“WOW!
Here I finally thought I had met the unique person to fit me. (Of course now I know that was the façade store front of a man) … here I find out he’s generic narcissist reading the basic 101 manuals! He fits SO much of these stories. While I would call myself an empath I am definitely not...”Read full review »
LoriOzz via Apple Podcasts ·
United States of America ·
01/08/23
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“I loved the episode.
Tony’s laidback and friendly manner drew the best out of his guest.
Susie is amazing. Tony allowed that light of experience and passion she possesses to come out and shine.
Thanks Mate.”
PaulBMS via Apple Podcasts ·
United States of America ·
01/07/23
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“Practical and straight forward,
Tony ‘s voice and advice comfort me, it is as if he were along for decades as a fly on the wall in my relationship. When I’m feeling most crushed and trapped and covertly bullied, his voice, stories, and advice help me not crumble back into crippling anxiety from...”Read full review »
Finding my me via Apple Podcasts ·
United States of America ·
12/31/22
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“This podcast was suggested to me by my older sister who has been the one to put in to motion my realization of the narcissism in our family system. I am so grateful to have a reliable and compassionate expert to listen to. The topics of these episodes have helped me to realize patterns in my...”Read full review »
abisrad via Apple Podcasts ·
United States of America ·
12/22/22
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“Host interrupts his guests way too much. “Ok”, “yeah”, etc. are very distracting. Please just allow your guest to talk or at least edit your audio. I want to learn here, not listen to a man interrupt women over and over. Tony, I love your podcast and I want to learn from you, but this most recent...”Read full review »
Liz11692 via Apple Podcasts ·
United States of America ·
12/16/22
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“I listened to this podcast for a week straight, after that I began my own research on personal development and handling a relationship with an emotionally immature person. I gained confidence in myself, I met new people, started seeing a change in my grades at university and overall performance...”Read full review »
DANIELWHOSIGNEDUPFORCURRENT via Apple Podcasts ·
United States of America ·
12/13/22
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“I feel seen… a deep thank you. This podcast is tremendous for anyone curious to truly understand more about the insidious impact of narcissistic abuse. Thank you Tony for your commitment to this valuable work. I love all your insights, and listening to you has helped me stay out of vs staying...”Read full review »
Forbes93 via Apple Podcasts ·
United States of America ·
12/11/22
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“I’ve listened to so many different podcasts on this subject. This is THE ONE. Validation. Truth. Sensible. Easy to understand. Affirming. The light bulb really clicked here. And I am so grateful for it. It all finally makes sense. I didn’t know what I didn’t know, but now I know. Thank you Tony!”
black_rayne_21 via Apple Podcasts ·
Canada ·
12/07/22
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“So many great tools and breaking down how to overcome the challenges of having a narcissist in your life”
Fredrico Suave via Apple Podcasts ·
United States of America ·
12/06/22
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“Just listened for the first time and I think this information is so valuable! Great episode and can’t wait to listen to more!”
Hailey113 via Apple Podcasts ·
United States of America ·
12/01/22
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“This has helped open my eyes to what I have been dealing with. I have referred others to it and my friend made the comment,”It’s as if he was in my house.””
tamrpbell via Apple Podcasts ·
United States of America ·
11/27/22
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“Please listen to all things Tony Overbay. I’ve been listening to The virtual couch for years and this podcast is more of his great stuff. It is not an overstatement that he has saved my marriage. AND I’ve never actually met him!”
becconcoby via Apple Podcasts ·
United States of America ·
11/26/22
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“I am new to hearing about this podcast and binged all the episodes in a month. I have been desperately seeking for something to explain my whole entire life. I have thought I was crazy so many times. I have gone down some pretty dark roads. It has affected me so much I had a mini stroke at 39 and...”Read full review »
candycourt via Apple Podcasts ·
United States of America ·
11/23/22
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“It is amazing how often this podcast describes my world. Thank you Tony for putting words to my experiences. I appreciate the many references, books, and research that is brought into the conversation. The repetition of terms and varying real life examples give meaningful insights and help me...”Read full review »
Stay Groovy! via Apple Podcasts ·
United States of America ·
11/21/22
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“Love this show! It brings clarity to the online cyberattack I was abused with as a stepmom to my husbands son, which went in for years.”
Wynn1711 via Apple Podcasts ·
United States of America ·
11/21/22
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