In this week’s episode Carla and Wax discuss co-parenting woes of the rich/famous, how freedom of speech is not free, and leaving friends around your partner [5:29] Pet peeve of the week: your partner passing gas in their sleep  [11:19] Topic of the day: coparenting in the era of social media [20:12] Spotify takes down some Joe Rogan episodes [27:04]Kiera Sheard says she no friend stay at her house around her husband [42:01] Listener Letters: [43:15]How did you convince Wax to do couples...

In this week’s episode Carla and Wax discuss the response from last week’s episode, national compliment day, embarrassing “toy” stories, and love vs lust.   [7:42] Pet peeve of the week: watching young girls being sexually exploited on social media by their parents   [16:04] From the therapist couch: When your values change, you need a new life strategy.   [34:04] Topic of the day: [38:21] National compliment day , [46:24] Toys being seen by children, [53:40] Lura Govan says she was...

In this week’s episode Carla and Wax discuss responsibilities of a step parent,  financial differences, and having your partner's best interests at all times.  [3:18] Pet peeve of the week: Telling someone something for their benefit and them not following the advice  [7:19]From the therapist couch: What is your responsibility as a step parent and how involved should you be in the different stages of the child’s life? [43:35]Topic of the day: does financial differences make a couple...

It’s the first episode of the new year! In this week’s episode Carla and Wax discuss good/bad of being in business together, leaving thing behind in 2021, and how-to support your partner during a difficult time.  [6:38] : Pet Peeve of the week - Double standards in the household in regards to passing gas    [13:24] From the Therapist’s Couch: How involved are you and each other’s work lives, What are the consequences good and  bad being in business together?   [22:16] TOPIC OF THE DAY:...

In this week’s episode Carla and Wax talk new Covid Variant,recap life over the holidays, and their upcoming New Years plans    There is also a discussion on the children kitchen set debate and parenting the second time around    [6:48] : Appreciation Shoutout - Carla gives Wax a shoutout for getting her what she needed    [10:54] TOPIC OF THE DAY: Man in Louisiana pretends to be disabled/ paid a babysitter to change his diaper [12:45] fight break out during church service [18:59]...

In this week’s episode Carla and Wax discuss The Mother/Daughter vs Father/Son affection love comparison, can love distract your goals? and parental lessons on marriage/relationship.   There is also a discussion centered around communicating to your partner how you want to be treated in a relationship    [2:18] Pet Peeve of the Week: Wax always wants Carla to give the kiss face when he comes around   [7:13] From the Therapist’s Couch: The positives effects of therapy, has therapy helped...

Today's Show is brought to you by McDonalds. In this week’s episode Carla and Wax discuss Prioritizing date night,  recap their most rent date night , and how there’s no such thing as a “perfect person” while dating    There is also discussion about the dating question “what do you bring to the table” and how it can be viewed as degrading    [3:08] Pet Peeve of the Week: Carla is over it because the dog has runaway three times this week   [10:50] From the Therapist’s Couch: Dating...

This week’s Carla and Wax discuss doing things you don’t like out of love, Polygamy and Responsibilities of co-parenting.  They also open a discussion about premarital counseling and what Wax really thinks about what happens at a bachelorette party! A compromise was made but... let’s just say Carla’s Island bachelorette party idea may require another conversation. [05:20]Pet Peeve of the Week: Cellphones At the dining room table, Dining room table should be a place where we spend...

Take the Innovater Her Now Survey to win a Flight and Free ticket to our Summit in LA! This week’s Carla and Wax chat about How long should couples wait to have another baby after the firstborn? And how social media beef in effects relationships. They also recap Wax’s birthday celebration. Wax explains the day’s events as only Wax can meanwhile, Carla gives the complete story from her POV its whatever she says! [07:08] Pet Peeve of the week: When Sexytime turns in to bedtime, Mama is...

In this week's episode they chat about how relationship dynamic changes after kids, hormones, adjusting, and living apart for months after the baby was born. [02:39 ]Pet Peeve of the Week:  Taking just to talk… saying things for no reason  [04:52]From the Therapist Couch Shutting Down -Do you speak of the problem right away or keep it to yourself? [48:10 ]Pass Da Word:  Psalm 91 : “He that dwelleth in the secret place of the most High shall abide under the shadow of the Almighty."   ...

Carla & Wax have a very dynamic schedule. With a new born and two ambitious hustlers in the household there is a likely chance of feeling overwhelmed. In this week's episode they chat about the frustration and teamwork it takes to transition into their busy and unpredictable traveling schedule. Pet Peeve of the Week: @WaxKyng tries to butter Carla up by flipping the pet peeve of the week on himself. He thinks he did it successfully, tell us what you think? 12:00: From the Therapist...

Pet peeve of the week : Not reading the manual or instruction guide while building or putting something together!   Tune in to see how Wax almost… well, just tune in… I don’t want to write anything incriminating lol.   Therapist Couch: Seeing a future with someone is important. Not in a crazy “omg are we getting married” on the first date kind of way.   Wax & Carla talk about how alignment is the foundation of a long-term relationship.   Valentine’s Day Virtual date Ideas: If...

This episode is very special to us because we are finally welcoming Baby Pslam to our Whatever She Says, family! Thank you for all of your support and warm wishes, we have been showered with love daily.   This week we catch you up on the craziness of Psalm’s birth. Remember when the doctor told us Psalm would be here in February? Yeah, looks like the little man had his own agenda. [5:00] Pet Peeve of the week: TV infidelity ! [24:00] We also talk to you about ABO incompatibility and...

Carla is officially 9 months pregnant this week!! Can you guess when the baby is going to come?! [5:00] Apple Podcast Review Thank you for leaving a podcast review to help grow our show. We get a lot of DM’s and people who have emailed us to show their support. It would help the show immensely if you go leave that 5 star review :).   We even learn from the reviews, for example Wax is learning how to say: “Callate La Boca. Por Favor”   [7:00] Pet Peeve of the week Garbage Etiquette ...

Cheers to the New Year!  [2:30] Pet Peeve of the week: This week Carla and Wax dive into proper phone etiquette! Is it wrong for a person to put you on speaker phone without letting you know? [10:00] Therapist Couch: Wax and Carla started going back to therapy and continue to strengthen their communication and unpack patterns that cause conflict in their lives. Aside from drinking tea and telling the therapist that she’s wasting her time… Wax is learning a lot and this week he teaches...

ATTENTION: We are Looking for a destination wedding planner! Please reach out or refer anyone you think will be great! We are specifically looking to support a black business!     [3:00] Pet Peeve of the week:   Unannounced Visitors! It might’ve been okay as a teenager to show up unannounced at a neighbor’s house but as an adult, it is inappropriate. This week Carla & Wax talk about unwarranted guest etiquette where they both agree and disagree on the proper decorum. Tell us what you...

Merry Christmas!!! It's Carla and Wax's first Christmas engaged and Carla has requested for it to be a Christmas without presents! Wax doesn't know if he should believe her or not. Is he falling into a trap? Pet Peeve: Bringing home the WRONG takeout order! YOU FORGOT MY SAUCE!   From the Therapist Couch: Not confronting the other person while still upset or hurt. Pass-Da-Word: Proverbs 11:11 Through the blessing of the upright a city is exalted, but by the mouth of the wicked it is...

This week we are in the holiday spirit and are going to gift you two episodes lol. You all have been giving us amazing feedback about the Pass Da Word section so we thought it was important to share this powerful message. Proverbs 28: 13-14 Whoever conceals their sins does not prosper, but the one who confesses and renounces them finds mercy.   Reminder: Don’t harden your heart, and in order to unlock new levels of your success and growth you have to forgive and ask for forgiveness.

We’re engaged and Wax can’t believe that he is a “fiancé” !   This week has been a rollercoaster for @Carlawilmaris & @Waxkyng and they can’t wait to share it with you! They talk about the series of events leading to the surprise proposal and how buying a pair of Timbs led to an engagement ring!   [2:00] Pet Peeve of the week: Joint/blunt aching etiquette   From The Therapist Couch: Carla & Wax updated their therapist on their recent engagement and they have decided to go to...

Carla is officially 8 months this week & the baby shower has quickly arrived. Thank you for supporting the show & don't forget to send this to a friend! . . [8:00] Pet Peeve of the Week:  It’s another @WaxKyng take over for this segment as he confronts @carlawilmaris for the second week in a row. Carla quickly discovers that it’s not fun being in the hot seat!  What pet peeves do you have in a relationship? Email/DM us your experiences.  . . Main Topic: You Can’t Change...