After-sex cuddles are the best and so important for a satisfying relationships. Besides the chemical release of calming hormones, it provides a safe place to share feelings of vulnerability building the connection you desire. Whether or not he hits the mark, it can be made up in 10 minutes of intimacy. Mostly positive tarot readings this week. Always complicated, but so is life. Stick around for the sex segment as we realize the most important part of being a great lover is the time spent...

Trigger warning! It was The Dirty Projectors! We talk about identifying and disabling your own triggers. What is a trigger? It’s an unwanted emotional response to a "negative" stimulus. Ultimately, it’s how people control us, and with practice, you can disable your own triggers, making you a valuable leader in a hyperbolic world. This week’s readings were very triggering. Please be advised. The fire reading worried over STI fears. Earth talked about how religious judgments build walls of...

The Intensity Zone can be uncomfortable when you don’t understand someone motive or the connection. This week, we examine how we sabotage the growing type of love during the intensity phase of meeting someone new. Why is ghosting so prevalent? It’s the best way out of the intensity zone in a relationship you’re not comfortable in yet. It’s a pattern that gets in the way of learning about new people beyond the initial excitement that is naturally caused by meeting someone to mesh with. Many of...

You’re not going crazy; the world around you is crazy and has always been. As we shift into compassionate times, the tension always builds before it can be neutralized. There is lots of hype around this eclipse, and they are very powerful and profound celestial events that bring endings and new cycles into our physical lives. You may feel like you have been a part of an endless cycle of bad relationships, but today's episode reminds you that you have learned that lesson and your greatest...

It's disheartening to see that women have numerous ways to describe their hormonal phases, while for men, it often boils down to their performance in the bedroom. There should be more nuanced language to describe hormonal changes in men beyond just Erectile Dysfunction (ED). Their well-being should involve more than just relying on a pill. It's dismissive and shameful to treat men solely as sexual beings, disregarding their emotional and mental health needs as their bodies undergo changes....

Sovereignty is such a gorgeous word. To protect your sovereignty is to make decisions in your life with your highest good in mind. How often do we surrender our will to others for peaceful compromise when it creates a battle within us? What we are looking for when we join forces with another is security and safety. Often, this involves a certain type of person, but not necessarily a good decision, leading to a loss of control. Living with a tyrant is exhausting and extremely unfulfilling. In...

Eat, cum, sleep. That’s all you truly need. This week, we talk about movements and how they are created for financial gains. What charity is actually helping? None of them. Bringing awareness without a solution is malicious and only for monetary gain. 501c3 pays no taxes. No different than a multimillion-dollar pastor. This “join a movement,” be a community, join a group of activists, mentally is actually toxic. What color of ribbon are we wearing this week to take advantage of a minority?...

Such simple words, yet they mean so much. They validate the suffering and striving, but so often those words are only spoken to those gaining some recognition. People who have suffered through trials, whether they be financial, emotional, physical, or mental, rarely get supported through their journey. That statement could save the world. Go out today and tell someone you watched overcome difficult obstacles that you are proud of them and create a moment they will remember always! Great...

There is no such thing as sending a “safe” sexy pic. And think about how you’ve shown your friends the unsolicited dick pics you’ve received. It’s a fantasy to think those are private. Regardless, it’s fun to take pics and get attention from men. So how do you best protect yourself? This week we share tips for taking and protecting your pics. The recommendation is don’t hit send, but taking pics is an amazing exercise to learn self-love. The benefits outweigh the momentary high of sexting. So...

What is sexual chemistry? It’s a bodily experience. Are we looking for connection or chemistry? Is there a difference? Or are we just looking for just the right fit into our individualized sexual narrative? Does being pegged make a man bisexual? I like the idea of multidimensional sexuality or unisexuality. It’s different than just being bi. Once it’s not about someone’s gender but more about the particular sexual experiences, then these classifications become bureaucracies. Bipartisanship...

We explore the theme of starting over after your 30’s and the complexities that come with it. All of the readings this week were 3rd party situations with long standing dead end relationships. These aren’t necessarily cheating relationships, just coming out of dead ones that are looking for love in all the right places. Welcome new listeners! First, we delve into the Seahorse charm, which symbolizes a secret love affair complicated by the presence of children. Despite the secrecy, you hold...

Happy Valentine's Day! This week, we have some very special love notes that come in a companion set. Finally, we get to hear from the other side. We have two sets: The Heart and the Moon, and later, the Eye and the Chicken and Fox! I want to remind my listeners that Valentine's Day is not a day to dread, but a day to celebrate love, freedom, self-love, and the ideals of deep connection. It's not just a day for declaring love, but a day to celebrate our capacity to love as human beings....

Communication is incredibly important in healthy relationships, and one way to channel aggressive and pent up sexual energy is through dirty talk. Relationships become challenging when life, work, kids, social obligations, daily maintenance, and find time for intimacy are added to the mix. In this episode, we explore how embracing dirty talk can add another level of depth to our lives and fulfill each other's needs. Instead of resorting to passive-aggressive tendencies, we can redirect that...

In this episode, we delve into the topic of self-image and how it can be influenced by past abuse. We explore the negative self-talk patterns that can hinder our success and relationships, and emphasize the power of embracing our uniqueness. The tarot readings featured this week revolve around emotionally turbulent situations involving others in relationships. In the water reading, it is suggested that addressing anxious and negative thoughts will help improve the relationship, moving it...

In this episode, we delve into the topic of pelvic floor strength and its importance for becoming better lovers in 2024. We discuss an insightful article from the Cleveland Clinic that sheds light on kegels and optimal vaginal health. To kick things off, we offer three in-depth "pick a charm" tarot love readings for you to choose from. Remember, if a reading doesn't resonate with you, feel free to explore another one. While these readings are general, they are tailored to a specific...

Trust is all about timing. This week, we are discussing the concept of trusting ourselves. We often don't question the timing of good things, but it seems like bad things never come at the right time. That's just how life is. Interestingly, right after recording this, I received my first speeding ticket in a long time near my place of birth. Reflecting on the timing of this event, I realized that I have been dwelling on the past too much. Perhaps it's time to let go of our old patterns that...

Where on your body creates the "wettest" environment? Where else does he want to be touched besides the obvious? This week, we will be discussing erogenous zones and how they can provide and communicate comfort and intimacy. We communicate through actions, and we will also talk about hand signals and how we may be rushing the sexual experience, not giving men a chance to lead. So, if you don't reach climax, let's step back and take some responsibility for giving signals that we were ready...

What should you focus on to bring love and abundance into your life? What traumas do you need to heal this year? Do you know who your soulmate is? These are just a few of the questions we answer in our 2024 tarot forecast! We also explore the meaning of making good decisions and how to navigate confusing or conflicting information. In this week's show, we cover Part One, which includes Aries through Libra, and Part Two, which covers Scorpio through Pisces. Enjoy the forecast and make wise...

What should you focus on to bring love and abundance into your life? What traumas do you need to heal this year? Do you know who your soulmate is? These are just a few of the questions we answer in our 2024 tarot forecast! We also explore the meaning of making good decisions and how to navigate confusing or conflicting information. In this week's show, we cover Part One, which includes Aries through Libra, and Part Two, which covers Scorpio through Pisces. Enjoy the forecast and make wise...

Have you been naughty this year? Need a spanking from Santa Daddy? Me too. I've been very busy preparing zodiac readings for the new year. Get ready for a special delivery - a love letter from the ghosts of shows past. Choose your favorite Christmas persona and receive the letter that has been waiting in the archives for years. Merry Christmas and Happy Holidays! I'll be back on January 1st with your fresh 2024 tarot forecast! Christmas Love Letters ⚠️ These are performances and for...

What's your favorite Christmas cookie? This week, I'm pulling out retro Christmas Love Letters from the Whispering Moon Tarot. They are soft, sweet and still warm! Enjoy them while I work on the New Year's forecast for each zodiac sign, which will be released on January 1st! Christmas Cookie Love Letters Sugar Cookie: 00:14:49 Gingerbread Man: 00:37:08 Chocolate Chip Cookie: 00:48:25 Peanut Butter Blossom: 01:05:48 Snowball (Wedding) Cookie: 01:31:55 ⚠️ These are performances and for...

It’s my Birthday Show but it’s your tarot readings! Great readings this week. We start with two hearts and there are complicated cards. The Goldfish reading was for a father and the last reading, the real shell, was definitely unisex. Full of gaslight retaliation and I give a run down of the difference between slander and libel. I give a little speech of the dangers of tarot and getting stuck and unstuck during the charm jar selections. It is important to remember that where we stand today...

We are going to use the concepts of manifestation and the law of attraction to bring love into your life. By actively creating the backdrop of your relationship and making space for love, you are aligning yourself with the energy and environment that will attract the love of your life. This is supported by the idea that people with similar energy gravitate towards each other, and by preparing yourself for their arrival, you are increasing the likelihood of attracting someone with matching...

Feeling a little sad? We kick off the episode with Seasonal Depression and homeopathic techniques for combating it, then into your weekly love reading! I finish with an oddly complex discussion about pegging and dominatrix, watch me talk myself into a hole, their only hole. I’m still so confused. Are they meant to be gay? Be back next week with a love note and god knows what else! Follow my “fan” page on instagram @acaciariether Charmed Love Readings Twins: 00:36:50 Swallow:...