People think Inner Child is like walking down dark alleys, but it's actually about opening your heart and getting really, really… free. Your Inner Child is not a problem. Your fear and pain are not problems. They are energies that we use for becoming whole. And powerful. Here’s a highlight from our BIG ENERGY WORKSHOP. We’re not just revisiting old wounds—we’re understanding them as sources of immense strength and energy.  WITH LOVE, DANIELLE (Eps 112) is ready for you… to reconnect and...

My Friends… “Brain” and “mind” are not interchangeable terms. Your brain is the complex organ that controls thought, memory... every process that regulates your body. Your mind is the conduit of your CONSCIOUSNESS. We talk a lot about rewiring neural pathways in the brain for wellness––and that’s essential and powerful work. But I think we should first focus on reorienting our minds. ENERGY FOLLOWS THOUGHT.  Raising our consciousness raises the quality of our thoughts… which helps govern...

A question we all want the answer to: If we can’t rush the healing, how do we handle the pain? Learning to not push away my pain—the physical and emotional, has been one of my greatest-hardest-most luminous learnings. It’s walking toward Acceptance––capital “A” Acceptance, the Soul Quality,  And it really has upleveled my LIFE. Here’s a highlight from our HOW TO HEAL FOR REAL WORKSHOP. V.S., our metaphysical practitioner and I built out a teaching about resistance and dis-ease. This was my...

Hi Friends, I talk about this is consciousness circles AND business masterminds: Are there metrics for enlightenment?  Yes, yes there are! It’s like being spiritually cool…which comes with a heap less ego. You might not be saintly or levitating, but…like… You don't need to defend yourself after every argument. (Or do you? ☺️)  You don't have to go to everything you’re invited to. (Right?) You’re in touch with your nervous system. (It’s that internal network that controls your...

My Friends, Inner battlefields (which are so painful.). Global battlefields (too many to count.) Bravado that’s cruisin’ for a Dark Night of The Soul. Adrenal fatigue and fried nervous systems.  Look where hardlines and forcing ourselves to endure have gotten us. Keep in mind: Antidotes are the OPPOSITE of the poison. So… I’m building a strong case for softening.  These 10 Ways That Being Softer Makes You More Powerful are not just about flexibility. You’re going to see how...

I’m never contrarian for the sake of it. I’m good to go with the conventional flow. But not today, friends, not today! We have higher realms of consciousness to traverse. And those higher states are not in our guts. or lower chakras, or low vibe stories from our past. Old adage: "Trust your gut.” New way: Nah.  Pay attention to your gut, but don’t let it make your plans. There’s both spiritual and scientific sense to this.  In WITH LOVE, DANIELLE Eps 107 I’m talking about...

Friends… After 4 weeks of the Healing With Anxiety series, maybe we need a palate cleanser, yes? Like so: If you could do a “do over” what would it be? Talk about starting over after divorce. What’s in your bag? What’s in your fridge? Why do you think our peers aren't’ talking about… certain world issues? And how to shift? Lite, deep, lite, lite, and way deep. I’m so glad we’re in this together. It’s Wednesday! So WITH LOVE, DANIELLE is ready for you and Episode 106 “Do...

Oh hi, high achiever! I know you can do ALL OF IT. You ALWAYS pull it OFF.  But… at what cost? Crappy sleep, anxiety meds, cortisol levels whacked, extra pounds, skimmed savings, minimal alone time… too much alone time? Let’s heart to heart this out. Because this is a collective story and we need to rewrite the script. WITH LOVE, DANIELLE Eps 105 is for the polished, solid, achieving, doing, driven, types who are also actually the worrying, perpetually dissatisfied, unable to relax, fretting...

Hello Friends on the path… I’ve known about the struggles of some of my favorite philosophers…Krishnamurti suffered from terrible migraines. Ram Dass had a massive stroke. Yogananda had crippling pain from apparently taking on the karma of his devotees.  Anyone in a physical body suffers. Facts. But the accounts I found most helpful were those of teachers who struggled with anxiety and panic. Teachers of mind mastery who had to face these kinds of inner hurdles struck me deeply. Two of whom...

Charlie Brown's famous words "My anxieties have anxieties!" is a reality for people with anxiety “disorders.” Anticipating, forecasting and predicting …worry, unease and nervousness. All of which create symptoms that create a fear that the symptoms will last forever. This is part 2 in my 4 part series on Healing With Anxiety and I embed an anxiety quiz for you in this episode (#103). We’ll see which lifestyle areas have some anxiety chatter for you.  The What and WHY of anxiety… and how do...

Our 4 part series on How To Heal with Anxiety starts here, with Love. With some help from conventional sources, the metaphysical practitioner on our team, V.S., and my own experiences with anxiety and healing, I’m setting the stage for us to look at basic anxiety “disorders” and to move toward healing measures. You will see yourself, and/or your loved ones and the world at large in this list of anxieties types. NAMING struggles is an important part of healing, and… I’m encouraging us to NOT...

What part of you is saying your affirmations? Your fearful part, or your faithful self? Who's doing the affirming? I’ve been going off about the down-side of self help affirmations for yuh-earrs. But complaining is a kind of affirmation, inn’t? So… I’m shifting into solutions. But in order to get to that higher consciousness, we’ve got to unpack the unconscious stuff. There’s a sequencing for creating healthier affirmations. I unpack each of these tenets/directives: WE CREATE MORE OF WHAT WE...

Welcome to Episode 100 of WITH LOVE, DANIELLE! Thanks for rollin’ deep with me times 100! I don’t take a single listen, click, share, or comment for granted.  So… Is your inner child choosing your relationships? Short answer: Ya. Totally. Consciously or unconsciously. It’s not bleak, babe, it’s a good thing. Because your Inner Child is choosing the relationships that lead you to your power.  We know a lot of our wounds from childhood stay with us. Jump cut to being grownups and those wounds...

Hello Loves,  I know there’s a lot of disappointment in spiritual teachers and public figures who are silent during these times. I hear it daily in my DMs. “Thank you for speaking up, I’m so disappointed in other people in this space.” I understand. I relate. And… it makes me wince. I’m grateful for the resonance but I’m not cheering on the criticism of others.  We don’t need to find additional reasons to battle each other about raging world battles. That's just division on top of division. ...

You know… I’ve felt like an outsider most of my life. Lil’ bit on the outside. And of course I’ve had my share of hard No’s and reeejection. And… but… each rebuff and snub is taking us closer to our shadow territory, to the beautiful, unhealed stuff that’s waiting to be healed. I recently taught a class on rejection in our Heart Centered Membership and it was a tender one. We’ve strung the diamonds for you: In Eps 98 of WITH LOVE, DANIELLE I’m teaching on: The meta-function of rejection....

Hello Loves,  Why do we get sick? Like really? My man and I decided to spend a month in Nicaragua to keep my lungs in prime conditions. Paradise on the cheap plus in-person time with my Team D wing woman Dana, who’s built a beautiful life there with her family. Perfection! Within 48 hours of arriving… I got sicker than I’ve been in years. Have I not been meditating enough? Ingesting enough frankincense? Is this my way of burning karma? Am I a New Age loser?  I could say it was the air...

Hello Loves,  You’re bigger than your to-do list, and I knowwww, your to-do list is BIG.  Does just the thought of slowing down make your palms sweat? It is possible to prioritize deeper rest without sacrificing momentum. And I’ve got just the woman (she’s an actual empress of rest) to teach about it. I asked my beloved friend, Tracee Stanley to guest in our Heart Centered Mastermind.  You’re about to hear the highlights… Eps 96 of WITH LOVE, DANIELLE: What research tells us about rest––did...

Today is a good one. I’ve been waiting to deliver this for a while and because I think there’s a missing piece in the current cultural conversation around the nervous system which is… the connection between our dysregulation and the quality of our relationships.  A nervous system that’s nourished, regulated and healthy can roll with ALL KINDS OF EXPERIENCES. We can be flexible, spacious, and tolerant. Way less… triggerable and much more… Loving. When we’re overly stressed, under-resourced,...

I’d bet that you’ve never been asked this question before: What’s your relationship to what nourishes you?  Because even though we KNOW what’s good for us, we don’t always go there.  Here’s the thing: everything is energy. And we’re always exchanging energy. So we’re actually relating to different healing ideas and modalities.  And! the quality of our relationships determines the quality of our lives (Kind of a big deal). So this podcast session is a micro workshop on your relationship to...

Let’s talk about all the shades of isolation. Chosen aloneness. Solitude. Go it on your own. Hangin’ out the ‘do not disturb’ sign. Pressin’ the HARD PAUSE BUTTON. Isolation, like everything else in life, has shadows and light. I think this conversation is important because, unexamined, it can turn into nervous system dysregulation. Darkness, disassociation, sadness.  So let’s hold it up into the light. In Episode #93 of WITH LOVE, DANIELLE I’m sharing: 10 reasons we isolate––why we pull...

There’s been a lot of newness in my business and life lately, so I want to anchor in with those of you who've been with me for a while (some of you, a decade!) and to add some BTS to all of you coming into this little corner of the universe. First up: THANK YOU. I don’t take one click or sign up or listen for granted. Honestly I’m always amazed when people show up to things. Gigs, classes, I just feel really honored and useful. And having 4 planets in Virgo, UTILITY is a very big deal for...

Catch that subject line? It’s not your relationship. It’s you.  Slightly provocative? Yes. Likely true on the deepest level? Also yes.  Almost everything that I’ve had to apologize for in a relationship––or that I’ve wanted an apology for, had to do with my nervous system being too jacked or too drained.  The current human reality (you, me, the planet…) We’re generally dysregulated, out of balance. We’re fried. Frayed. AND… We are Love. We want to show up as Love. We want to receive...

Let’s talk about stress, baby. Let’s talk about nerves and mind loops and … relaxation. As always when we go into the shadowy stuff, I’ve got some light-backed solutions. In this episode of WITH LOVE, DANIELLE:  9 ways we create unnecessary stress –– the stuff that drains, dysregulates, grinds on our nervous systems. Holistic suggestions for interrupting stress cycles like thought loops, self-shame + blame, criticism, complaining… How to become the parent of your stress and meet it with...

Here’s where I think we’re at:  The past few years on the planet Earth have done a number on our nervous systems. A lot of us are experiencing adrenal fatigue, waves of anxiety, and difficulty sleeping. A general malaise of despair. And it turns out that all of this was a precursor to these last few weeks and months of warful insanity.  And whether YOU’RE conscious of what the stress is doing to you––your NERVOUS SYSTEM is very aware. I think that... If each of us focused on regulating our...