Episodes
Published 03/18/24
In today’s episode learn what you can do to feel better when you feel like your ex was everything you ever wanted. Through practical exercises and insightful anecdotes, discover the importance of separating fact from fiction post-breakup, and learn how relying on data over drama can empower you to reclaim your agency and uncover the truth about your past relationships. You’ll leave today’s episode knowing exactly what steps to take to go from panic and devastation to calm and hopeful.  How...
Published 03/18/24
In today’s episode we delve into the theme of preventing past heartaches, urging listeners to embrace self-discovery, and cultivate inner peace instead of fixating on external threats. We talk about love bombing, is this lust or is this love, and the common fear of what if I get cheated on again? Through introspection and emotional grounding, we confront fears, acknowledge vulnerabilities, and empower ourselves to foster authentic connections rooted in mutual respect and understanding. Leave...
Published 03/11/24
In today’s episode, Breakup Coach Dorothy and guest Braveheart Melissa, a mom to two teenagers, talk about how she went from depressed to empowered after a breakup.  Join them as they talk about Melissa’s journey from splitting with her children’s father, meeting her now ex-boyfriend, feeling depressed and dealing with her breakup, to feeling empowered and reaching her goals.
Published 02/26/24
Today, we're debunking myths about getting over your ex. We are going to cover 5 things you might THINK you need to get over your ex that in fact you don’t actually need. Join us as we uncover the truth and empower you to move forward into a bigger, better life. You’ll leave this episode feeling free to move on in a way that is way more simple than you ever thought possible. https://dorothyabjohnson.com/getoveryourexcelebrate/
Published 02/19/24
In today’s episode we explore common fears and challenges experienced post-breakup.  Invaluable wisdom on navigating setbacks with resilience and grace is discussed. You will leave the episode knowing exactly what steps to take after a “breakup backslide” to reclaim your power towards emotional liberation and freedom from your ex.  5 day LIVE How to Get Over Your Ex training! https://dorothyabjohnson.com/5daylivetraining/
Published 02/12/24
Join us as we delve into the complexities of secondary grief, exploring the myriad losses that accompany breakups and divorces. Beyond the initial heartache lies a landscape of secondary losses—shattered dreams, financial instability, and fractured social networks. But amidst the pain, there is resilience, as we uncover the concept of secondary gains: the hidden opportunities and newfound freedoms that emerge from loss. Through heartfelt stories and insightful coaching, we navigate the...
Published 02/05/24
If you’re looking for something BIGGER than a breakup boost you must join us for the LIVE 5 day How to Get Over Your Ex training. Completely free! Let’s spend 5 days together to accomplish 5 months of healing. This will completely change the entire trajectory of your breakup! tangible breakup tools actionable next steps advice and coaching on your specific situations FROM Breakup Coach Dorothy giveaways And most importantly a complete energetic upgrade in your breakup experience… Let’s go...
Published 02/02/24
In today’s episode, Breakup Coach Dorothy and Braveheart Maria talk about the tools to help you trust the process of moving on. Maria provides tactical tools for a variety of getting over your ex experiences. Join them as they talk about Maria’s journey from dealing with her ex leaving, managing life changing exams, living alone in a different country, and working with her ex, to finally feeling free and secure on her own.
Published 01/29/24
Today we explore the transformative concept of embodying a state of being rather than just attempting it, drawing inspiration from the book "A Happy Pocket Full of Money." Using the context of getting over an ex, the episode delves into the significance of aligning thoughts, feelings, and actions with the authentic self. The host emphasizes the power of deciding to be over an ex, challenging the conventional belief that actions and feelings precede the state of being. Drawing parallels with...
Published 01/22/24
Join me in this episode as we unpack a pivotal coaching session, where one remarkable client grappled with the concept of closure and moving beyond an on-again, off-again relationship. Discover the journey of self-discovery and empowerment as we explore the fears that often anchor us to past relationships, the allure of familiarity versus the unknown, and the profound realization that progress isn't linear. Celebrating moments of growth, we unravel the client's initial doubts, ultimately...
Published 01/15/24
In today’s episode we explore the intricate layers of shame before, during, and after a breakup. Drawing from a recent coaching session, Breakup Coach Dorothy navigates the often-overlooked aspects of shame. This episode serves as a beacon for those wrestling with breakup-induced shame, offering actionable steps towards self-affirmation, self-love, and personal empowerment in the journey towards healing and self-discovery. Tune in for a heartfelt discussion on overcoming shame and embracing...
Published 01/08/24
In today’s episode we discuss the broader issue of feeling behind in life due to attachments. Exploring the concept of time constraints and the freedom of choice, we realize life can be fulfilling both with and without specific outcomes. This philosophy extends beyond relationships, encompassing career aspirations and personal goals. Learn one question that will completely shift your perspective of being behind and running out of time after your breakup so that you can feel at peace without...
Published 01/01/24
In today’s episode, Breakup Coach Dorothy and guest Kara talk about breakups and the patriarchy. Kara Loewentheil, J.D., is a Master Certified Coach, host of the top-rated podcast UnF*ck Your Brain, and creator of The Clutch, a feminist monthly coaching program that has helped tens of thousands of women across the world liberate themselves from the inside out. Kara specializes in teaching a step-by-step system that identifies and removes internalized oppression and creates new and...
Published 12/25/23
Join Breakup Coach Dorothy in this candid and soul-stirring episode as she reflects on her transformative journey throughout 2023. Dorothy shares her most pivotal lesson of the year, through personal upheavals. She dives deep into manifesting desires while finding contentment in the current reality, urging listeners to send coherent messages to the universe and appreciate life's unexpected joys. With vulnerability and wisdom, Dorothy invites reflection through thought-provoking questions,...
Published 12/18/23
In this episode we explore transforming post-breakup holiday blues into a joyful experience. Breakup Coach Dorothy challenges preconceptions, sharing personal insights from fasting and handling misconceptions around miscarriage. She encourages listeners to see breakup holidays as a menu offering various experiences beyond misery, emphasizing the power of perspective. You’ll leave with a 3 step process that helps you curate a fulfilling holiday season despite the breakup. This episode serves...
Published 12/11/23
In today’s episode, Breakup Coach Dorothy and guest Gabrielle Stone talk about all things love, heartbreak, divorce, cheating, and getting the f*%k over it all. Gabrielle Stone is a former actress in LA and author of two bestselling books, including "Eat, Pray, #FML" where she shared all the mistakes, all the lessons, and most importantly how she became a fearless leader from it. Join them as they talk about Gabrielle’s wild adventure of self-discovery after heartbreak and her solo travels...
Published 12/04/23
In today’s episode, Breakup Coach Dorothy and guest Stephanie talk about dealing with a breakup in your 60s. Stephanie joined the Get Over Your Ex program after a breakup with her partner of 9 years. Join them as Stephanie discusses her journey from losing her voice and walking on eggshells in her previous relationship to transforming herself, having a healed mindset, doing what’s best for herself and living her life from a new point of view. Want to know how to fast forward getting over...
Published 11/27/23
My gift to you this holiday season is a NEW (and free) on demand video training. Where I teach you how to FAST FORWARD getting over your ex — without wasting months (or years) feeling angry, jealous or unlovable. You’ll learn… How to stop letting your ex live rent free in your mind — even if you want to get back together later How to be absolutely sure that your life will be better than the one you had with your ex post breakup without it “taking time” The secret to feeling completely...
Published 11/20/23
In today’s episode we talk about navigating celebrations post-breakup. The host shares personal experiences and coaching stories, highlighting the struggle of wanting to share successes with an ex-partner who was once a part of those achievements. The episode emphasizes the coexistence of excitement and disappointment after a breakup, advocating for honesty about one's emotions. It encourages redefining celebration beyond past traditions and projecting positivity to create meaningful moments....
Published 11/20/23
In today’s episode we talk about the intricate process of dealing with the common and often overwhelming feeling of missing your ex. With a warm and relatable approach, we explore the specific steps to regain control over your emotions and find acceptance and peace within minutes. Say goodbye to the elusive grip of missing your ex and learn how to move forward with clarity and confidence. Share this episode with someone who needs this wisdom and don't forget to subscribe for more valuable...
Published 11/13/23
In today’s episode, Breakup Coach Dorothy and anxiety mindset coach Georgie Collinson talk about anxiety in relationships, breakups and in life. As a recovering perfectionist and proud high-achiever, Georgie was once a prime example of high-functioning anxiety and now helps women master their anxious minds and achieve unshakable inner confidence. Join them as they discuss a holistic mind-body approach to overcome anxiety and stress through the thoughts you think, the food you eat, your gut...
Published 11/06/23
In today’s episode, Breakup Coach Dorothy and guests Natalie and Kyra talk about the struggles of co-parenting with an ex, expectations about their roles as mothers, detaching from “what should be”, being comfortable with duality, and finding a support system.  Join them as they discuss changing their narratives as parents co-parenting with an ex.  Want individualized support, help, and coaching on your specific breakup? Join us in the Get Over Your Ex program:...
Published 10/30/23
Today we talk about overcoming the fear of moving on from an ex. You'll discover the distinction between different types of desires, along with practical strategies to reduce desire in your brain. The episode highlights desire as the root cause of most breakup-related problems, leading to compulsive like behaviors. Fear not; reducing desire doesn't equate to vilifying your ex or giving up on your dreams but rather focusing on the desired outcome itself. This episode offers hope, guidance, and...
Published 10/23/23
In today’s episode we talk about the damaging effects of worry and why it's particularly common during breakups. Worry is often an unproductive behavior, yet it's something many of us engage in regularly. Our braveheart community has shared their worries about breakups, ranging from the fear of being alone forever to concerns about future relationships, settling for less, and more. We explore practical methods to stop worrying. Leave this episode knowing exactly what you can do to end all...
Published 10/16/23