Do you work long hours? And continue to work long hours… and complain about this? Are you in an unhappy relationship? And remain in this relationship… and complain about this? Do you love a good pity party?   The final question you should be asking yourself is: Could you be a victim? Or perhaps you know a victim? Someone who often doesn’t take responsibility, feels they have no control, looks for sympathy and demonstrates patterns of behaviour.   Jac talks about “Dolly” and how she made me do it… Ral shares the travellers parable (so good!) and for every victim there is often a rescuer... Can leaders create victims? Can they sometimes be a rescuer? Listen/watch this episode to learn how to answer these questions and what to do next if you’re “Dolly” or the “Hero” because you don’t want to be either. You just want to be more self aware and use our tips on how to go forward.   Enjoy Keepers!  --------------------------------------------------------- New Episode Every Monday Follow the show https://www.instagram.com/keepingitrealwithjacandral/ https://open.spotify.com/show/5yIs5ncJGvJyXhI55Js0if?si=aCNOdB68QnOGnT0vCTPcPg Follow Jac https://www.linkedin.com/in/jacphillips/ https://www.instagram.com/jac.phillips.coaching/ Follow Ral https://www.linkedin.com/in/gabrielledolan/ https://www.instagram.com/gabrielledolan.1/ Produced by Keehlan Ferrari-Brown