Episodes
https://www.instagram.com/vinephilo/ Merch Twitter Tiktok Patreon This very special season finale is the episode you need on every bad day, after every bad date, and on every random Tuesday that you wake up angry at the world because: life is lifing, something is retrograde and your life is not the version 13 year old you envisioned. Divine breaks down what it means to “do the work,”. The barriers we as humans with ego and pride face once we confront our most inner selves. She also covers...
Published 05/20/23
https://www.instagram.com/vinephilo/ Merch Twitter Tiktok Patreon The era of the Lonely Girl era is over. The girls deserve better than that. Summer is around the corner, the boys are cute, the girls are sexy. They deserve a kiss or two. Long gone are the days of blaming ourselves for societies failure of men. No, now when men do dumb things--we leave them as they are. Men who do dumb things. It is time to stop suppressing the lover girl inside because of realities bleakness. She needs...
Published 05/12/23
https://www.instagram.com/vinephilo/ Merch Twitter Tiktok Patreon In this weeks episode of POV, Divine discusses the other side of the daddy issues, trust issues spiral. She discusses building systems that allow her to express gratitude and to still see the silver lining even when things are not going well. She talks about balancing heart break, triggers and pain with the ability to still recognize gratitude in her every day life. She also discusses self sabotaging as a punishment for...
Published 05/05/23
https://www.instagram.com/vinephilo/ Merch Twitter Tiktok In part 1 of this episode, we return to the subject of attachment. As someone who is anxiously attached, Divine is not the best when it comes to “detachment”. Often, her bouts of anxious behavior are paired with spirals and this week was no exception. Paired with a fresh spritz of gossip, she takes you on her recent journey of mapping out her therapy journey moving forward. What do we need to work on? And how do we plan on doing so?...
Published 04/28/23
In this episode, Divine finds herself at the unfortunate crossroad of realizing that she is in fact not perfect. It was a shocker to everyone and we are still shaken by the realization. Divine doesn't want to be "that girl" the one men can smell the daddy issues on from a mile away. In fact, she's done a great job deflecting and shedding any remnant of that hunger--that craving for male validation. She's rid herself of that. Yes, for a time she was healed. Stamped clear of the dreaded...
Published 04/21/23
Trigger warning: SA, Domestic Abuse: In this episode, our scrumptious host talks about all of the things she was enjoying until a dude came along and screwed it up. Up first, is BEEF, the Netflix show currently at no.2 most watched, that was her absolute fav until you guessed it. A man. So, she asks whether producers should do background checks. Or should David Choe be edited out of BEEF in the style of Little Mix Fans and Jesy Nelson Anno Domini 2020? Divine, then discusses Jonathan...
Published 04/18/23
In the second part of our conversation with Lindsey Calhoun, our illustrious host, and her bestie discuss the foundations of a good friendship, trauma dumping, and the foundation of their relationship. The ladies also discuss celebrities in the media, parasocial relationships, and celebrities being over-saturated in the media. The girlies also talk about the socio-economic state of the world because why not. https://www.instagram.com/vinephilo/ https://www.instagram.com/lenscalhoun/...
Published 04/07/23
On This episode, the tangerine has been defeated! We discuss the most important parts of Donald Trumps arraignment— what color self tanner he should wear to match the orange jumpsuit vs what color he should wear if the suit is black and white. Divine also goes in deep regarding the actual charges against the former president and what any of those big scary words mean. Divine discusses her abuse of the word “like” in the last episode, and also covers tv and Music (The Night Agent, Kings of...
Published 04/03/23
Hello, Hello! This is a very exciting week! We have a very special guest, Divine's best friend Lindsey! Together they talk about their history, and deep dive into their pet peeves when it comes to being chronically online. These hotties also contemplate the generational divides between zoomers and millennials ( despite being both), and also get into feminism, capitalism and so so much more. This is literally like being on the phone with them. enjoy! https://www.instagram.com/vinephilo/...
Published 03/31/23
TRIGGER WARNING: GUN VIOLENCE How much is your life worth compared to someone who wants an AR-15? There's a monetary value and it's not very high. Sandy Hook Promise Brady United Prevention Institute Music courtesy of Audio Library. Vinephilo.com
Published 03/29/23
We know. We know. The girl who low-key went viral for saying she believes in ghosting and in-fact advocates for it is now reconsidering having such a staunch stance on the matter. Because simply put, she grew up, and sometimes whether she likes it or not she can be wrong. Also, she watched Banshee’s of Inisherin, which raised some interesting points, so obvi she had thoughts. In this week's episode, Divine discusses Ghosting! From the POV of the ghosted. She talks about the loneliness and...
Published 03/24/23
On this episode of TTMT Divine talks about the impending arrest of the 45th President of the United States. She compares the similarities between his school of thought and Precious'. Our beautiful host also talks about SWARM, the new show on Amazon. She also discusses the second half of YOU, the Netflix drama. She also covers Banshees Inisherin. Enjoyy! Check out the new and improved website! https://www.vinephilo.com/ MERCH https://www.vinephilo.com Instagram:...
Published 03/21/23
On this episode of Texts to my Therapist. A very sick and snot-nosed Divine (YOU’VE BEEN WARNED) talks all things Oscars as well as the Murgdaugh Murders and the importance of bioluminescence in underwater movies. Like in all of Talokan, Namor could not find one glowing jellyfish? Anyways, Divine also talks about a bunch of other things she can barely remember at this point. Listen. She can barely remember her own name. She is sick and she is a baby. Enjoy the episode. Check out the new...
Published 03/15/23
CONTENT WARNING: DEPRESSION, SUICIDE, SELF HARM It's been on Divine's mind for a while to do an episode on how to take everything we learn in therapy and turn them into actions. Because let's be real here, anyone can say "you need to put boundaries in place," or "be your biggest advocate." But wtf does that even mean? How does one even do boundaries, let alone put them in place? In theory, these things should be simple but most people, Divine included, need a recipe. This is Part 2 of...
Published 03/11/23
CONTENT WARNING: DEPRESSION, SUICIDE, SELF HARM CONTENT WARNING: DEPRESSION, SUICIDE, SELF HARM It's been on Divine's mind for a while to do an episode on how to take everything we learn in therapy and turn them into actions. Because let's be real here, anyone can say "you need to put boundaries in place," or "be your biggest advocate." But wtf does that even mean? How does one even do boundaries, let alone put them in place? In theory, these things should be simple but most people,...
Published 03/03/23
CONTENT WARNING: SA, True Crime, Murder Texts to my Therapist #8: One Direction Made Me Who I AmCONTENT WARNING: SA, True Crime, Murder On this weeks episode Divine talks about the Selena Gomez/ Hailey Bieber/ Kendall Jenner / Hadid sisters drama. This leads to a bigger conversation about fandom, and her experience as a One Directioner. The content warnings are for this next section, because yes she's been watching a lot (maybe too much) true crime. One that stuck out to her, real bad is...
Published 02/27/23
Ariana DeBose you will always be famous! It's the award show opener that has taken twitter and Divine's last two brain cells by storm. On todays episode, the most beautiful and funny host in the world talks about Ariana DeBose's ICON MAKING, BAFTA's performance. She also provides a clear reading of the lyrics, which obviously is necessary. Divine also discusses Jonathan Majors being "Civil Rights Era" fine as well as the podcasts she is currently listening to. Lastly, Divine sends a...
Published 02/23/23
instagram : https://www.instagram.com/vinephilo/ http://vinephilo.com twitter: https://twitter.com/vinephilo https://www.tiktok.com/@vinephilo Why are so many hot, sexy, girls lonely? The Hot, Lonely Girl in short is a lone wolf. She can't maintain a friend group to save her life. She has a hard time finding people to date, or is not interest in the ones that want to date her, thus leaving her without an "other". While all her friends are in long term relationships, getting married and...
Published 02/18/23
Rihanna said she had a surprise guest at the Super Bowl and a surprise it was! On this week's episode of Texts to my Therapist, we talk Super Bowl LVII! Rihanna's baby surprise, followed by a new study published by the National Bureau of Economic Research regarding socioeconomic status & childbirth in the U.S. Then, it's a bird! It's a plane! No! It's the Mylar balloon you lost your grip on when you were ten! Kidding. The confusing tale of the Chinese surveillance balloons, and the UFOs...
Published 02/14/23
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Published 02/13/23
instagram : https://www.instagram.com/vinephilo/ http://vinephilo.com twitter: https://twitter.com/vinephilo https://www.tiktok.com/@vinephilo As if it couldn't get any clearer that POV You're My Therapist is for the Gowrls, the Gays, the Thems and Theys, on this episode we talk about periods. Have you ever had a moment when you go to starbucks and the very nice barista gets your order right but they misspell your name and for some reason it enrages you👹 to the point that you're about to...
Published 02/10/23
instagram : https://www.instagram.com/vinephilo/ https://www.vinephilo.com twitter: https://twitter.com/vinephilo First and Foremost a big, fat thank you to Apple Podcasts and our listerners.... WE'RE ON NEW &NOTEWORTHY ! On todays episode, we talk the Valentines Day GIVE AWAY. The winner recieves one of everything in our merch store, as well as Valentines day goodies. You can enter by leaving a rating and review on apple podcasts. Open world wide and the winner will be announced...
Published 02/07/23
Are you going through a crisis of self? Do you not feel like the best version of you? Are you looking back at old pictures and wishing you could "be her" again? Well bestie, this episode is for you. How to love yourself even when you don't want to. In this episode, Divine talks about building the foundations of self love, and trust within ones self. She talks about the tips and tricks that help her to not be so hard on herself and that allow her to treat herself with kindness and...
Published 02/03/23
On this episode of Text’s to my Therapist! “You People”, hard conversations when dating interracially, and David Duchovny singing Ordinary People by John Legend. “ShotGun Wedding”, Actors getting a second wind in their carreers, and Hollywoods general distrusts of non-nepo babies and their reluctance to usher in a new generation of unknown actors. Then, a long overdue lecture on your digital footprint and why not everything you think needs to turn into a comment or Tiktok video, (don’t be...
Published 01/30/23
Beyonce and Her kitten heels are limping around in Dubai. Yes! That’s why you don’t have visuals. The Tiktok girlies are also in Dubai. Tiktok admits to being rigged, low-key. And my top ten George Santos Lies. instagram : https://www.instagram.com/vinephilo/ https://www.instagram.com/vinephilo/ twitter: https://twitter.com/vinephilo
Published 01/23/23