RESOURCES: Leslie's Quick Start Guide: www.leslievernick.com/start If you'd like to ask a question for a future "Ask Leslie" episode, go to www.leslievernick.com/askleslie Questions in this episode: Doesn’t there have to be infidelity, domestic violence or abandonment as a reason for divorce?  8:51 What does it mean to detach and can I detach from my husband who shows contempt for me and dismisses my feelings and needs 23:56 How is empathy different from people pleasing? 27:47 What is a narcissist and how do we appropriately use this term? 37:33 What does chronic indifference look like in a relationship?