RESOURCES:Leslie's Quick Start Guide - find out if you're in a destructive marriage   Today, we’re tackling a big question: Is your marriage dead or alive? We’ll break down how to tell if your relationship is thriving, in trouble, or maybe somewhere in between. We’ll talk about what regular upkeep looks like for a healthy marriage and how to handle the heavy-duty repairs when things go south. Whether you’re dealing with minor bumps or major cracks, we’ve got tips and insights to help you figure out the next steps. So, grab a coffee, settle in, and let’s get real about your relationship! Understanding Marriage Maintenance: The Importance of Regular Upkeep:  Examples of Maintenance The Necessity of Repair Work: Identifying Major Issues Real-Life Stories and Lessons: Repair Strategies The Role of Accountability and Self-Reflection: Taking Responsibility Effective Repair Measures When Effort is Lopsided: Balancing Effort Accepting Reality: Facing Hard Truths: Healthy Acceptance: Maintaining a marriage requires ongoing effort and understanding the difference between routine maintenance and addressing significant issues. Recognizing when to repair versus maintain and accepting the reality of the situation can lead to healthier outcomes, whether it means rejuvenating the relationship or making a tough decision to move forward separately.