In this episode of Remodeled, first recorded a year ago, The Daylovers talk to one of their oldest friends and comedic cohorts, Shane Tolomeo. Shane was one of the very first people Jes and Joe “came out" to, back in their early days of polyamorous exploration. Now, 7 years later, Shane is living as a happy, healthy, polyamorous gay man. The trio discuss Shane’s polyam origins, his relationship to jealousy, his thoughts on polyam’s connection to Burning Man, and why non-monogamy may be more common in the gay world. This interview will be the first in an on-going series throughout the seasons of this podcast which seek to capture the spirit of different kinds of relationships, especially those of us practicing various forms of non-monogamy. Representation is important. And on the matter of identity, Shane identifies as a white, cisgendered gay male, able-bodied, extroverted, and naturally polyamorous.  The first half of this episode features the in-studio recording from last March while Shane was in Reno. The second half of the episode features a followup interview with Shane, recorded just a few nights ago, via zoom, where Shane and The Daylovers catch up a bit, and then Shane dives into his total nerdom and discusses some very exciting polyamorous things beginning to unfold in the Marvel Universe right now -- which represents a huge shift toward the expansion of our cultural semiology.  *** You can submit questions you may have about Jes and Joe, polyamory in general, or a specific situation you're navigating by emailing [email protected], or submit the anonymous form at www.homesliceproductions.com/remodeled. Answers, as always, will be honest and likely brutal, depending on what you’re ready to hear.  >> Intro music by @Rachbot6000 (cover of Hozier's "Someone New")  >> www.homesliceproductions.com/remodeled  >> www.facebook.com/RemodeledLove  >> www.instagram.com/homesliceproductions & www.instagram.com/remodeledlove  >> Support our work at: patreon.com/homesliceproductions   EXECUTIVE PRODUCERS:  Homeslice Productions  Aimee Stashak-Moore --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app