In this saucy, sexy, and absolutely hilarious episode of Remodeled, The Daylovers sit down with one of the finest humans on this entire f*****g planet, Wade Gainer. Wade identifies as a Black, Pansexual, Cisgendered Male, with Narcolepsy, who's been sober now for 4.5 years. The trio explores Wade's history with polyamory, as well as his journey into pansexual exploration. They also have a vulnerable and encouraging discussion on topics such as worrying about the penis-size of your partner's other partners, and discuss how to work through ego-based insecurities while exploring polyamory. Lastly, Wade and The Daylovers get political, and Wade shares his thoughts on complacency, while bringing listeners into a new project he's working on with Jes and Joe. You can learn more about this project at www.alchemistmovement.org. *** You can submit questions you may have about Jes and Joe, polyamory in general, or a specific situation you're navigating by emailing [email protected], or submit the anonymous form at www.homesliceproductions.com/remodeled. Answers, as always, will be honest and likely brutal, depending on what you’re ready to hear.    >> Intro music by @Rachbot6000 (cover of Hozier's "Someone New")  >> www.homesliceproductions.com/remodeled   >> www.facebook.com/RemodeledLove   >> www.instagram.com/homesliceproductions   >> Support our work at: patreon.com/homesliceproductions     EXECUTIVE PRODUCERS:  Homeslice Productions  Aimee Stashak-Moore --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app